Scorpio man and hugging/rubbing

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Hello all,

I'm new here and want to say hello to all you wonderful people here. I am a Libra gal and always seem to be attracting
Scorpio men. I have a Sag ascendant, Sag moon, Libra Venus, and Sag Mars. All my planets with the exception of Jupiter (which is in Scorpio) are in either Libra or Sagittarius!

My question to you is this: If a Scorpio man hugs you very tightly and wants to rub against you, does that mean that he is sexually interested? This occurs with major eye contact that seems almost threatening.
Also, what's up with the ignoring part? I know my Scorp is interested so why is it that from time to time he pretends to ignore me?
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Welcome, Welcome!

Haha, yeah he's trying to lure you, showing his interest, but not so much that you see him as the needy, desperate type, or just the type who has to go after you. Instead of pursuing you directly, he may be trying to pursue the right conditions (alone time, conveniences, right timing) in which you may choose to pursue HIM - just a guess, obviously. If you want him, or want to see more of him, maybe you could do him the favor of playing his game, and letting him see what he wants to see - your sure interest.
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I think you are right. The thing is that I always hug this person and he pulls me in so tight it is almost suffocating.I've also noticed that he notices everything I do and hold. If I play with a straw and sip out of a glass with it, he will stare at my hand and the straw (maybe he is a Freudian!🙂)He will look at everything I am holding and looking at.He always asks questions about why I do certain things and why I say what I say. He knows I am interested in him and yet he will not do anything about it. The only thing he's said was that I was "a doll". Should I let him chase me or what?
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'The only thing he's said was that I was "a doll". Should I let him chase me or what?'

Haha, sounds Scorpionic to me. Well that seems like a question you may have to answer for yourself. Why NOT let him chase you? If you can't answer that question, then sure, get playful, and the next time he brings you in tight, do something intimate, if you're feeling friendly enough. (Like a whisper)
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The thing with this Scorpio is that I always hug him and he is expecting the hugs. He seems to be intrigued by me and always stares at whatever I hold and/or look at. If I look at something on the ground, he will look at it too; if I hold something, he will look at it. I feel as if I am being observed by a hidden camera!
He is being affectionate in his own way though and he demands physical contact even though only friendly at first. He knows I'm interested in him. What should I do? Play hard to get? Ignore him and see what happens?
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>libra females are annoying with that playing girly,boy has to act first,"proper" stuff so act like a MODERN woman and take >advantage of him=problem solved,just don't over do it to the point that your beinng fake and acting like someone else doing so.

Well, I AM taking advantage of him by walking up to him and hugging him. I assume it is obvious to him that I'm interested. Isn't it normal to expect him to make the next move? I mean, do Scorpio men expect the woman to be bold and make a pass at them or something?

By the way, are Scorpio men playful?
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"libra females are annoying with that playing girly,boy has to act first,"proper" stuff so act like a MODERN woman and take advantage of him=problem solved,just don't over do it to the point that your beinng fake and acting like someone else doing so."

Is this a Libra trait? Maybe. I know I am totally uncomfortable putting "moves" on anyone. So to do otherwise can be nothing but "fake" for me. It isn't who I am. And it isn't playing at anything at all. I pretty much need to be clubbed over the head. I wish I could be more forward. Life would be simpler.

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lol,yeah they are moody little fcukers aien't they,yummy?You know what they say anyways,you don't like things about people because it's what you don't like about yourself.Hippocrits in otherwords.

Anyhoo,yetta as with anything else,there isn't a problem with that from another womans perspective but dudes think it's a turn on or something and know im shy as hell so just putting the two together,libra men I have dated but was quick enough to catch those subtleties and had the balls(confidance wise) to play on the other half of it.Other water signs(including some scorps are nearly impossible to make them do anything they're not 100% on) are alot more shyer than me sometimes,(I have alot of fire in my charts).