Big dilema!!!!

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by adina on Tuesday, July 26, 2005 and has 20 replies.

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@callmemsram
21 YearsAries

Hi adina,

I would like to ask you this if I may? I read some of your other threads on this sight which went back as far as 2003(2 years ago). My question? did or have you divorced your Leo hubby as of yet? and if you have been dealing with your Scorpio up until now, I am sure you have gone through it and still not sure of how he really feels for you? Why get even with him now? Truthfully, if you did? you still won't know the what affect it will have on him? I was in the same situation where you started from and yes I have gone the distance as far as time with a Scorpio male that I had encountered 2 years ago as well. Right now, I am trying not to hate his A $ $ because its not worth the negative energy. What's your point?

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@Alana
21 Years1,000+ Posts

How do you get even with any man—

Only one universal solution...:-)- you knock their sexual prowness in bed - in front of their best friends:-)

Don't mind me I am in a bold and wicked frame of mind today:-)!!!

As they say - Revenge is a dish best served cold.......:-)

A x

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Alanas post might work,I don't know it seems to be that the two guy scorpios that I know that arent ass wipes are just freaks according to some of the posts posted here.And that female and male scorpios seem to be two completely different starsigns cause words are just words so myself and my own friends won't pay much attention to it because it would be negative and vindictive reasons behind it-yeah I know those are scorpio traits but I got alot of earth and fire in my charts and female so see no point in it and it might not apply to your own scorpio.Guys do like to think that they're god in bed though.

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@lizard_scorpio
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

"How to get even with a scorpio male?"

you want to hurt him? that's easy, almost anything you can think of will hurt him. he might not show it though.

so, the question is: do you want to hurt him? or do you want to get satisfaction for yourself?

because if you're only satisfied when he shows his hurt, then i wouldn't know how that would be possible... it might be possible, i just don't know how....

but if you just want to hurt him because he has hurt you in a way, than you can choose whatever, what alana suggested for example, or similar.

but do you really want to hurt this guy on purpose—
whatever he's done to you, do you really think, he wanted/intended to hurt you right from the start—

tiamat, how exactly are male and female scorpios different signs—? grrrr...

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@patron
21 YearsScorpio

I would not personally advised any wrong doing to a male scorp's(not because I am a scorp). It's just to dangerous!

But if you really wanna get even with him. Follow Alana's advise it would surely shatter him or better else find yourself a girlfriend and make-out in front of him with his friend, this have a 90% accurately to devastate a man's ego it works on all men. Based on observation only.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Ha ha,can you tell shes married to one,lizard?Just some of the mean stuff kinda like this post is done by some scorpios at least thats how the person posting them sees it anyway.I don't cheat,control or intentionally hurt people,only when they deserve it,more of like how an aries would do it,I prefer to take care of it now and forget it rather then letting it turn to hate and hold grudges.

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@lizard_scorpio
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

married to a scorp? right! forgot that. still, kennyg, respect! it takes a lot to discover things like that about a scorp. and i don't even think that scorps want/try to be all mysterious... people just don't ask straight questions. with me, ask a straight question and you'll get a straight and honest answer. it's only when people try to figure out scorps from a distance, then scorps seem real mysterious and scary, booouuuu...

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@adina
21 Years

Hey all,

I don?t wanna hurt him and I?m not seeking revenge?well,maybe only this time. I just want him to feel the same pain I feel when he?s ignoring me. I?m a forthright person, can handle pretty much anything, but being ignored. He never admitted that he ignores me.

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@Tiamat
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Some cancers think im ignoring them when im really not.I just don't toy with them or try to get on thier good side for whatever reason.I am actually listening to them,just not responding verbally to them.Some get mad at me for basically laughing at them rather than playing along when thier testing me on certain things too fast for me to actually mean it.Is it possible it could be just a miscommunication or something that doesn't really mean to hurt you?

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@lizard_scorpio
21 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

adina, tiamat's right. it might be a miscommunication of some sort. like, you perceive his actions different from how he means them. are you two already in a steady relationship or going out or...— what?s the deal here?