Scorpio men and respect in regards to sex

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My only question is, do they tend to want the girl who formed a bond and a friendship long before they're intimate? Do they really have no respect for those who give in easily?

Don't give me obvious answer; I've met people who formed relationships after quickly being intimate -- so what's the general consensus for Scorpio men? I know how sexual they are, but do they prefer a deep bond first?
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It is a bit confusing, isn't it? I totally get the perspective you're coming from. I feel like if the chemistry is off the charts, they jump on it. And they can maintain a connection if they feel it. I have my friend of six years who I have been intimate with many times in the past, but I knew him for a couple years. He confuses the hell outta me cuz he won't leave my life permanently lol and now there's a new Scorpio I've met that's a friend of a friend -- the attraction if highly mutual but he's like so respectful and quiet, it's different for me. I'm used to a Scorpio man who goes for what he desires. Which he does, but it's much more passively. So it's interesting...
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That last reply was for Vixen2. And thanks, October29Scorpio. This new Scorpio is very introverted, the pensive type. But definitely has something to say when he needs to and he speaks very highly of me -- I'm getting the vibe that he almost doesn't want to tarnish that with intimate moments. Physically, that is. So I'm really gonna try to take it slow. Was just curious.
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I'm a Scorpio with Scorpio Venus, and I see no problem with being intimate the first night. I think getting to know your lover physically is just as important as getting to know someone.

I had sex on the night of the first date with a male Scorpio in Scorpio Venus. I was a bit concerned he was using me but we still go out and stuff i.e. he didn't wham-bam-thank you ma'am me.
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In my experience they want both...the madonna and the whore. All or nothing. I think they like the cat and mouse game of investigating and getting to know the person is enjoyable and exciting but if the chemistry is off the charts and nature takes over and intimacy happens fast (even that same night ) they don't hold anything against the person or judge them or whatever. Sex is a pretty mystical thing from my understanding to them and they view it differently than society and the repressed prude "rules" that are the norm. Conformists...they are not.
I should add that several scorpio dudes I know we're intimate with their wives that very first night they met and they married them and are still together. I know they don't like things that are too easy but I think all rules can be changed, bended, and manipulated to them for fixed sign...nothing is concrete except battle and war. *two scents*
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Who says she was easy?

A woman could handler herself in such a way that she maintains her mystery and allure after having sex early in the courtship.
Besides I have learned with men you have to keep an open mind because oftentimes guys marry because they felt it was time to get married not that they found the love of their life. And if she loves sex as much as he does, then hey why not. 😆

What are the signs of their wives?