Scorpio needs to vent...

People from the Pisces thread seem to know me better, but I think I gotta be among my fellow Scorpios here to share this.

It's not a big deal, but I feel slight resentment towards a Pisces friend/past crush. It's such a long story, you can look at one of my old posts on the Pisces thread to get an idea. In a nutshell: He really made it seem like we had something going, made me feel it too etc. We did not kiss or make out...(I just learned that you don't need any of that to feel hurt *Sigh*)

But now that he's back from vacanza, he acts like nothing ever happened. We had talked about the possibility of a relationship etc. so it's not like it was just random and nonverbal all the way. I now feel cheated, ripped off and hurt.

We are in a big group and have mutual friends. So I get to see him here and there. I don't want to resent him. I want to be the Eagle type of Scorpio and let it go, forgive him. Talking to him won't help so that's not an option. It'll just make it all even more awkward. I'm trying real hard to forgive him and be the bigger person. I'm doing him a favor by being so nice. Just don't want any resentment to be there! How do I do that? I wish it all disappeared.

He is the typical bad type of Pisces who runs away from things and is nonconfrontational. Has a good heart but is acting like an idiot about this. I don't want to hate him. I don't want to hate anyone, for that matter.

Do you guys ever feel that? How do you deal with it?

Love,

Kafka

Kafka-
I went through almost the same thing with my ex Pisces all I can say is that if your a Scorpio 1 your first instint is always rite and 2 if the person is a true Pisces and you a true Scorp. the dont worry because eventually his end of the magnet will find its way back to yours. write to me if anyting new. and good luck

Peachykatt,

What do you mean you went through the same thing? What happened exactly? Is my reaction normal?

And when you say 1st instinct, what do you mean? My first instinct about his intentions, who he is? or the instinct that kicked in when he started to act weird?

-->Because my first instinct was a very good one, that he was a very loving person and was capable of a lot of love!

And what do you mean by true pisces and true scorpio?

More comments welcome!

Kafka:

Tell me please: Why do you want him back if he do not give a damn for you? Don't you feel your self respect is tossed under his feet?

Thank you.

Haffo, did I say anywhere up there that I want him back? I'm saying I don't want to hate him and am looking for a way to let this go.

What I wrote to Peachykatt is just a woman-to-woman analysis. Women do that all the time.

PS: Jeez Haffo! I have to agree with people that sometimes you are so judgemental. I don't need your cold comments, you know? If you can't be compassionate, butt out already.

"butt out already"

So be it.

Peace.

Guys...!

Crab...You're so cute, it was me who said butt out.
And Haffo, you know I like you. I just got a bit defensive there. And I just got mad that you misunderstood my intention. Admit it, you're harsh sometimes.

Peace?

Time will show...

I think he does care about and respect about you but doesn't want it to happen at least at the moment or maybe it's the friendship he doesn't want to risk.One way that might help to forgive him is to remember when you were going through a tough break up and walk in his shoes for moment so to speak,or like what your going through now with the feelings of hurt about him.I still think the same about it,that he may be torn between liking you and not ready for another relationship yet.If he didn't care about you he probably would have done all those things leading you on and maybe even sex and then up and left,give it time and see what happens BUT don't allow yourself to cling onto the hope of it happening either and concentrate more about taking care of you.

Tiamat, I sent you a private e-mail🙂