Scorpio observations

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More I work with the other Scorpio I'm seeing a lot of the same traits as the first Scorpio I'm getting smiles out of her and I'm finding she is really comfortable talking to me the tone of her voice changes. I did see some emotions out of her again talking about this guy her and I know they grew up together. He doesn't talk to her anymore I could see that upsets her I changed the subject, he is a Cancer man as well, I didn't think talking about him would trigger the reaction I got.

The first Scorpio I seen her a couple days ago she wouldn't make eye contact with me she stood with her head down like she was ashamed to look at me I guess I will have to break the ice with her.
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Posted by Koniucha
Are you by any chance conducting an experiment?
A little bit I'm finding it interesting that Scorpio women have common traits and behaviors like the way you smile the way you talk, facial expressions etc. Now that I'm having the chance to spend time with this Scorpio woman who I've known for 20 years and I know a little bit about astrology. I'm seeing the emotional side come out of her, as I said I've known her for 20 years this is the most comfortable she's ever been around me.

Watching how she acts around other people and how she is around me its different the tone of her voice changes when her and I are alone in her office. What surprised me was the other day I could see it bothers her that the Cancer man she grew up with doesn't talk to her she feels hurt she doesn't know why he has stopped talking to her.

She will only be a friend but we will always be friends.
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Posted by Koniucha
Just Find yourself a hot Scorpio girl and be done with it. It's what you want
Nope I like my freedom you get involved with a Scorpio you have a ball and chain locked to your leg, the first Scorpio became really possessive she thought she owned me. Ya I like the fact Scorpios understand us Cancer's but there are traits about Scorpios like the possessive trait turns me off.



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you get with a scorpio and more than likely you get owned. it is what it is. don't place blame because you cant handle it. a lot are possessive and been like that from the start.i was like that too until i became a devoted buddhist.i learned detachment and not to be ruled by desire. to many scorps "MINE means MINE". all things in their realm and possession are theirs, including people. if you dont want that, stay the away. simple as that. dont try to change or talk down about scorpios because you lack comprehension of their inner workings.

you cant fathom the love, so instead you want to control it and make it your way. it does not work like this. dont go around bashing them. it makes you look less than a man, coming here and talking behind every scorpio woman's back that you know. move on and find a weaker sign, mr. 'cancer men are in charge and you cant beat us'. you treat relationships like competition and you're always looking to place yourself above others. that is the real reason why it does not work with you and scorpio. it's ignorant and untruthful to place blame on scorpio yet refusing to shed light on your faults and shortcomings. but dont worry. scorpios will more than gladly remind you of the ugliness you possess.

friends or no, work is not the place to be trying to get personal with the boss. you are not mr. fix it or captain save a scorp. she has a husband so leave her feelings and emotions and well being to him. he won't take kindly to you creeping around his wife like you did with the gemini's scorp. nosy troublemaker never learns. i wonder how many other guys do this at work....
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Argh the draw backs of working with a Scorpio is the panic attacks when they get that way they crank up the control freakiness, I kind of forgot about that ugly trait.

I get to the jobsite I ask her what in the h*ll was the panic about I wasn't a happy camper I think she knew I was a little annoyed, tree trunk me let go of the control yes things are not going as planned for this coming week but its going to work out. Scorpios can't handle change is scares the living butter out of them you Scorps seem to love routine.

I know what to look for when a Scorpio is in that panic state they are doing things to try keep their mind occupied I watched her today doing stuff she usually doesn't do, she was doing it to take her mind off of what ever was bothering her.

I don't think the terms " Just wing it " or " fly by the seat of your pants " is in a Scorpio's vocabulary, hell she was talking about stuff going on in her life she got stuff planned 1 month in advance hell I don't know what I'm going to do the next day. The first Scorpio I met was the same she had her life planned out had a day timer with what she was going to do a month later. How in the hell can somebody live such a rigid life style I work on the principle take it as it comes I guess its because Cancer's are a cardinal sign. My boss is a Cancer he's just like me adapt to change he's not scared of changing things.
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Argh the draw backs of working with a Scorpio is the panic attacks when they get that way they crank up the control freakiness, I kind of forgot about that ugly trait.

I get to the jobsite I ask her what in the h*ll was the panic about I wasn't a happy camper I think she knew I was a little annoyed, tree trunk me let go of the control yes things are not going as planned for this coming week but its going to work out. Scorpios can't handle change is scares the living butter out of them you Scorps seem to love routine.

I know what to look for when a Scorpio is in that panic state they are doing things to try keep their mind occupied I watched her today doing stuff she usually doesn't do, she was doing it to take her mind off of what ever was bothering her.

I don't think the terms " Just wing it " or " fly by the seat of your pants " is in a Scorpio's vocabulary, hell she was talking about stuff going on in her life she got stuff planned 1 month in advance hell I don't know what I'm going to do the next day. The first Scorpio I met was the same she had her life planned out had a day timer with what she was going to do a month later. How in the hell can somebody live such a rigid life style I work on the principle take it as it comes I guess its because Cancer's are a cardinal sign. My boss is a Cancer he's just like me adapt to change he's not scared of changing things.
If you like Rambunctious76 quote * Scorpio afraid of dealing the Unknown* We like to be sure what we are dealing of and it should be 100% sure. As in Sure. not Trouble. 😆 😆 😆
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What I delt with was a panicking Scorpio can I get mad at her? No I know damn well where that will lead me, I gave her the direct eye contact and asked what the panic was all about she started to back peddle pretty quick. She knew damn well she was just being a Scorpio, my boss and I roll with the punches its hard to get a straight answer out of each of us he's left me in charge of the project he's got lots of other stuff to take care of.

I don't have the option to keep the Scorpio out of the picture its two different companies the first Scorpio I worked with I tried to limit her involvement in operations, this new venture I have to deal with a Scorpio worrying about every minor detail. My ex boss was a Scorpio man he wasn't a very good leader he screwed up when things would get too much more screw ups happened.

I'm having deja vu with this second Scorp I don't know how you Scorps handle being stressed out this is the second Scorpio woman I'm seeing stress over every little detail. Do I get stressed sure I do but I deal with it I can adapt to make things work I've done it many times with this job I'm working on, my boss has made some unexpected changes I delt with it. I can really see Scorpios are black and white there is no in between for me I'm not black and white neither is my boss.

As I said I watched the Scorpio do things to calm what ever was on her mind the other day it was tasks she usually delegates to her co-worker she was doing it herself.


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Well I can safely say the Scorpio I'm working with likes having me around she has somebody that understands her, she had a bunch of things go wrong and the day wasn't going well it was bad enough she wanted to cry. I got her talking she started to vent she felt a lot better I talked about the same situations I had, as with the other Scorpio I'm finding this one really likes it when you listen and be understanding.

One thing I'm noticing this Scorpio has a Scorpio moon she seems to be a little more emotional the first Scorpio has a virgo moon she's a little cold she keeps her emotions to herself, the bottling things up trait is in the second Scorpio like the first Scorp.

Funny when I get to the place she works at in the morning she does the same as the other Scorpio used to do with me is stand there is silence look at each other and smile but not say a word.

I'm tree trunked now if she gets mad at me it will be ugly, I did it to myself I'm the one that created the bond, as I said I'm surprised how comfortable she is around me.
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Now she thinks that people hate her and she annoys people I got her off of that subject no no no we don't need to be going down that road. Yes I've heard lots of complaints about her I'm not going to say that to her ever from what I've observed its par for the course for a Scorpio to have people hating them.

I think I've opened up a can of worms here she's got somebody that understands her now she's talking about the stuff she's had bottled up a friendship that has gone from basic hello has gone to a Scorpio getting really comfortable and trusting.