Scorpio placements and Hot and Cold behavior

Ok Scorpio when you take a step back from the situation why not just say I need sometime to think about things? I don't know I could be wrong maybe it is because I am dealing with mutable suns (Gem and Sag) with Scorpio placements, but they always get very emotional with me and pour their heart out then get embarrassed and disappear only to reappear later needed more healing from me. I am learning not to be everyone's rock, but I see a pattern with these people with Scorpio placements. Are any of you guilty of this?

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Posted by ladylibra21
Ok Scorpio when you take a step back from the situation why not just say I need sometime to think about things? I don't know I could be wrong maybe it is because I am dealing with mutable suns (Gem and Sag) with Scorpio placements, but they always get very emotional with me and pour their heart out then get embarrassed and disappear only to reappear later needed more healing from me. I am learning not to be everyone's rock, but I see a pattern with these people with Scorpio placements. Are any of you guilty of this?

Not I, I won't open up unless I trust a person.. So if I get emotional and open up, I have already premeditated it and decided that I want you to know about it.

But I also tend to be the rock for people as well.. I don't seek a rock for myself as you seem to be experiencing with the Scorps in your life.

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IT sucks being everyone's rock especially when you heal them up and they are like "oh i'm all better I don't need you now" then they wanna come back when they are broken again or that is how I take it a tleast.

Sounds more like gemini placements mine did that and had 0 scorpio but had cancer venus capi moon idk and other air placements. My libra i was dating had scorpio placements and she would never b hot cold but very private and wouldn't day anything to do with emotions at all. She had more water placements too. I feel your situation is the gem sun acting with hot cold double personality

I wish mine did that to me.....all that water you think she open up but nopeee

I am a Libra with Scorpio Merc/Mars/Uranus in Scorpio and 11th and 12th House. I don't think that's Scorpio trait but Geminis (my son's father is one) he became very emotional when we were breaking up and he needed ANSWERS. Also, Geminis are known for disappearing and Sagittarius DEF will disappear on you. Gemini usually doesn't come back but sometimes Sag will, when they feel like it. I wish I could see their charts.

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Sun Sagittarius 21°47' Ascendant Scorpio 5°06'
Moon Aries 11°40' II Sagittarius 3°47'
Mercury Capricorn 12°19' III Capricorn 6°53'
Venus Scorpio 8°56' IV Aquarius 12°28'
Mars Libra 14°58' V Pisces 15°28'
Jupiter Sagittarius 21°56' VI Aries 12°57'
Saturn Scorpio 12°18' VII Taurus 5°06'
Uranus Sagittarius 10°07' VIII Gemini 3°47'
Neptune Sagittarius 28°42' IX Cancer 6°53'
Pluto Scorpio 1°21' Midheaven Leo 12°28'
Lilith Pisces 0°17' XI Virgo 15°28'
Asc node Gemini 15°50' XII Libra 12°57'

Sun Conjunction Jupiter 0°09' 886
Sun Conjunction Neptune 6°55' 148
Moon Square Mercury 0°38' -152
Moon Opposition Mars 3°17' -133
Moon Trine Uranus 1°34' 97
Mercury Sextile Venus 3°23' 68
Mercury Square Mars 2°39' -55
Mercury Sextile Saturn 0°01' 239
Venus Conjunction Saturn 3°22' 204
Venus Conjunction Pluto 7°34' 82
Venus Conjunction Ascendant 3°50' 121
Mars Sextile Uranus 4°51' 4
Jupiter Conjunction Neptune 6°46' 136
Saturn Conjunction Ascendant 7°12' 45
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°39' 42
Pluto Conjunction Ascendant 3°44' 38


A guy I just stopped dating abruptly never even said good bye I started meeting family and everything. He did feel trapped in his job and wanted to start his own clothing line as well as me I was constantly motivating him even offered to teach him how to sew. I know that is his focus now, but he could have said hey this is not the right time for me to be in a relationship.

The Gemini is the reason I got on DXP I met him last year. He is completely friend zoned but has popped back up for the 3rd time because I think he cant really open up to anyone.

Sun Gemini 25°29'
Moon Scorpio 24°42'
Mercury Gemini 2°53'
Venus Cancer 14°36'
Mars Leo 0°03'
Jupiter Gemini 20°12'
Saturn Capricorn 11°46' R
Uranus Capricorn 3°40' R
Neptune Capricorn 11°26' R
Pluto Scorpio 12°44' R
Lilith Libra 14°21'
Asc node Aquarius 27°46'


Sun Conjunction Jupiter 5°16' 199
Sun Opposition Uranus 8°12' -23
Moon Opposition Mercury 8°11' -23
Moon Trine Mars 5°21' 25
Mercury Sextile Mars 2°50' 182
Venus Opposition Saturn 2°51' -226
Venus Opposition Neptune 3°10' -117
Venus Trine Pluto 1°52' 92
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 8°06' 80
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 0°19' 348
Saturn Sextile Pluto 0°58' 181
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 7°46' 45
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°18' 67

Posted by ladylibra21
@SpaceCadetGirl


Sun Sagittarius 21°47' Ascendant Scorpio 5°06'
Moon Aries 11°40' II Sagittarius 3°47'
Mercury Capricorn 12°19' III Capricorn 6°53'
Venus Scorpio 8°56' IV Aquarius 12°28'
Mars Libra 14°58' V Pisces 15°28'
Jupiter Sagittarius 21°56' VI Aries 12°57'
Saturn Scorpio 12°18' VII Taurus 5°06'
Uranus Sagittarius 10°07' VIII Gemini 3°47'
Neptune Sagittarius 28°42' IX Cancer 6°53'
Pluto Scorpio 1°21' Midheaven Leo 12°28'
Lilith Pisces 0°17' XI Virgo 15°28'
Asc node Gemini 15°50' XII Libra 12°57'

Sun Conjunction Jupiter 0°09' 886
Sun Conjunction Neptune 6°55' 148
Moon Square Mercury 0°38' -152
Moon Opposition Mars 3°17' -133
Moon Trine Uranus 1°34' 97
Mercury Sextile Venus 3°23' 68
Mercury Square Mars 2°39' -55
Mercury Sextile Saturn 0°01' 239
Venus Conjunction Saturn 3°22' 204
Venus Conjunction Pluto 7°34' 82
Venus Conjunction Ascendant 3°50' 121
Mars Sextile Uranus 4°51' 4
Jupiter Conjunction Neptune 6°46' 136
Saturn Conjunction Ascendant 7°12' 45
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°39' 42
Pluto Conjunction Ascendant 3°44' 38


A guy I just stopped dating abruptly never even said good bye I started meeting family and everything. He did feel trapped in his job and wanted to start his own clothing line as well as me I was constantly motivating him even offered to teach him how to sew. I know that is his focus now, but he could have said hey this is not the right time for me to be in a relationship.

The Gemini is the reason I got on DXP I met him last year. He is completely friend zoned but has popped back up for the 3rd time because I think he cant really open up to anyone.

Sun Gemini 25°29'
Moon Scorpio 24°42'
Mercury Gemini 2°53'
Venus Cancer 14°36'
Mars Leo 0°03'
Jupiter Gemini 20°12'
Saturn Capricorn 11°46' R
Uranus Capricorn 3°40' R
Neptune Capricorn 11°26' R
Pluto Scorpio 12°44' R
Lilith Libra 14°21'
Asc node Aquarius 27°46'


Sun Conjunction Jupiter 5°16' 199
Sun Opposition Uranus 8°12' -23
Moon Opposition Mercury 8°11' -23
Moon Trine Mars 5°21' 25
Mercury Sextile Mars 2°50' 182
Venus Opposition Saturn 2°51' -226
Venus Opposition Neptune 3°10' -117
Venus Trine Pluto 1°52' 92
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 8°06' 80
Saturn Conjunction Neptune 0°19' 348
Saturn Sextile Pluto 0°58' 181
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 7°46' 45
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°18' 67

Ok, to be brief...

That Sag has an Aries moon...I can see why he disappear

Ok, to be brief...

That Sag has an Aries moon...I can see why he disappear. Aries are notorious for disappearing on people and then coming back ever so often. Just depends on if you hurt them bad enough or not. Also, the Sag has Venus conjunct Saturn aspect, he does not open up or trust easily. His 7th house is in Taurus, that means he is looking for someone of that is stable and secure financially.

Gemini....they are not that different from Libra or Aquarius in my opinion. I can relate to them even though I'm simply a Libra lol He probably got bored. I hate to say it because Gemini mind runs FAST and ALL NIGHT. They need constant change, communication, and like having fun. I see he has a Gemini mercury. I'm sure he talks a lot. My son's father had that. The thing is, they need constant verbal stimulation and they need you to be able to keep up or they are own to the next 10 projects or people they have lined up and waiting. It's not anything against you, he just needs more stimulation. Also, they don't like confrontation SO I can see them disappearing without saying goodbye because they don't have to go back and forth with you about the "WHY". Hope some of this helps. I understand the feeling of people just dropping off the face of he earth. I was falling for an Aries with a Gemini moon, so I get it.