Scorpio!! Should I listen to my trusted Intuition

Hello Scorps. My intuition is usually amazing, I can sense people out straight away by my gut feeling around them. My aries brother says aswell how jealous he is on how I know when people are going to screw me over before it happens.

The thing is though, I went out with a Gemini for 6 years on and off and we broke up in Feb, I started seeing a cancer but my nagging intuition was telling me it's wrong and I should be with the Gemini.

The Gemini didn't treat me very well but any guy I got with in-between, my gut instinct was just so strong that I'd always cheat on them with the Gemini guy, if me and the Gemini are in the same room, we are drawn to each other like magnets. I've texted him and he hasn't text back, but I knew he wouldn't, I just wanted him to know I wasn't with the cancer anymore, and I have told him in the past that I can just'feel' that we will always be in each others life. I just feel so strongly connected to him, such an intense feeling in my tummy whenever I think of him. It's weird, my head says move on but my gut says I shouldn't, What do you guys think?? I really need some help on this 😢 driving me nuts. He does usually come back, but this is the longest we've gone without seeing or speaking to each other... I felt like I was lying to myself saying I was over him when I was with other guys. There's just something about him

We both cheat on who ever we are with, I slept with him about 3 months ago and he admitted he still had feelings for me and had said to his dad that its so hard to find a girl like me.

I think he has alot of pride and really cares what other people think of him, where as I don't, and because we've broken up and got back together so many times, I think he just worries about other peoples opinions.

we got together when I was 16 and he was 18, now im 23 and hes 25, and I do understand that (especially as a gemini man) he did want to be with other girls whilst he was young, but he always came back to me saying no one can compare to me. But then when he was with me, he'd say some days he loved me so much, and others he didn't even want to hug me. I guess its the twins. I just have a strong feeling that its not over, and whenever we broke up before I always knew it wasn't over. I'd write in my diary that me and him were over, half heartedly believing it and low and behold, he'd come back....

I think what I'm trying to get at, is you know that feeling in your stomach, when it rises and feels not tight but fluttery, and then you know that feel when it feels tight and sinks? I always get them with him, and I'm stuck in knowing what to do about it, which one do I go with? Or should I even be feeling this way, is something trying to tell me its wrong or is it right? Do I try get him back or do I move on? The feelings I get in my tummy are intense and freak me out, where as with the other guys I just knew no, I wasn't meant, or going to be with them for a long time.

thank you for your reply. You were right. I'm back with the cancer now and it's amazing. I think the'feeling' was my institution telling me to run, and it was wrong. so wrong. he really wasn't right for me. The cancer man is so sweet and loving, and i think he's the only one who can deal with my crazy scorpio ways. He'll just cuddle me all night where as the gemini would face the other way. I just lay there with his arms round me with a massive smile on my face. I know can see how a relationship is meant to be, with someone who accepts you no matter what, and wants to see you and make you smile and love you!!

To OP

Dear Sister,

What you are feeling is PRIMAL ATTRACTION to a dominant male
who has showed you that he does not need you and which is
the single most attractive thing to a female mating mechanism.

Nice guys bore you ... and you just can't WIN with your long term guy
and his disrespect keeps you coming back like a yo-yo because it is
your primal instinct to seek a dominant mate who doesn't need you.

This is actually a SURVIVAL INSTINCT in human females that ensured
the survival of the human race through offspring from males who were
strong and not weak & needy.

Unfortunately, the primal mating instincts of a female are now OBSOLETE
and are also what will prevent you from getting into a mutually caring,
respectful and partnership style d marriage.

Not knowing that, it surely would. But now you know ... and maybe you
can put mind over matter. But ... that instinct is almost as powerful as
the pain response you get from putting your hand on a hot stove ... you
can't put mind over matter there ... it's also a survival instinct.

But ... the other one is all in your mind.

So ... "What do you want for yourself?"

Truly, if he gave into you , you'd realize what a putz he is and move on.
So ... why not just do that part first.

Thank you for all your replies, spesh scorpiopics, deffo hit the nail on the head and xdimplez. QUIETstorm your right too. I think it is just that looking for the alpha male who doesn't need u and my ego trying to make him love me so I feel better, nothing about actually loving him. Because if i think of 'him' and just 'him' and who is his and what he's like, then he's not my type of guy at all!! Just really boring and moody! I like someone who I can laugh with and be 100% me with, which I am with the cancer.

It's probably my scorpio habit of getting attached and not wanting to let go and not wanting to give up, but I wouldnt be winning anything if I got him, i'd be unhappy again, where-as with the cancer I'm always happy and I know realise what a romantic relationship should be like, someone who's like my best friend and my lover who brings out the best in me, where-as the gemini deffo brought out my worst. Thank you again guys, I am really happy with the cancer right now, and luckily the gemini has moved away from our village now so hopefully wont see much of him!!