why you scorpions ignore other people

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by kadri on Tuesday, November 27, 2012 and has 21 replies.

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@kadri
13 Years

I realised that my scorpio friend likes me ( he is behaving that way). we talked about that and I told him I like him, but then he say he does not like me that way. after that conversation he has been diferent (very happy). I dont know why. But that's not the point.

We was in the same party and he ignored me all evening (during the day time we talked and laugh) and after 3-4 hour he left that party, but at night (about 3 hours after he left) he calls to me and ask where I am.

I haven't see him to ask, why he ignored me.

Can you tell me if this is normal behavior for scorpio.

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@kadri
13 Years

Posted by xxnightbynight
lol...I think it's all karmic shit. People do things and honestly DON'T KNOW WHY or have no explanation... It's karmic. It's up to them to figure out why, not you.

If I ignore someone, then I have a reason.
I dont like to be ignored.

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@kadri
13 Years

Posted by PP
Because its easier to act like someone doesn't exist than confront them!

confront? ... Like dont whont to talk to me, then why to call me later?

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@PP
13 Years

Posted by kadri

Posted by PP
Because its easier to act like someone doesn't exist than confront them!

confront? ... Like dont whont to talk to me, then why to call me later?

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Always easier to talk over the phone than it is to talk in person.

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@kadri
13 Years

Posted by PP

Posted by kadri

Posted by PP
Because its easier to act like someone doesn't exist than confront them!

confront? ... Like dont whont to talk to me, then why to call me later?

Always easier to talk over the phone than it is to talk in person.

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That's true.
We dont have problems talking one another. If we dont have nothing to say, then we sit and look at each other eye.

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@kadri
13 Years

I know it's better to ask himself, why did he ignored me.
I can't call him to ask, then he will deny. I have to wait three day, then I see him.

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14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by PP
Because its easier to act like someone doesn't exist than confront them!

yep. if i ignore someone, i either hate them or love them, lol. either way they evoke some kind of intense feeling in me and so i ignore 'em. i don't like to wear my heart of my sleeve and i don't like anyone knowing i'm rattled by them. i can ignore for spain. if it was an olympic sport, i would have zillions of gold medals.

oh yeah...plus it's not obvious ignoring like staring at someone and then looking away if they see you looking..it's proper ignoring as in you simply do not exist and in fact, i'm having a marvellous time without you!

it's bloody exhausting to keep up, lol!! ignoring someone isn't easy at all but sometimes it's necessary for the sake of self preservation.

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@Nenaj1143
13 Years

As a gemini who has dated lots of scorpios let me tell u this. They like to manipulate and play stupid power games. Gets annoying after a while.

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@jiggagemini
13 YearsGemini

i am now involved (talking on & off because he said we didnt have an emotional connection) with a scorpio and he would ignore me for a while (busy socializing) then meet me at the dance floor. or sometimes after the club when we would leave separate and with (my best friend & a guy friend he didnt know) he would text me "what are you doing" wondering if i was with someone else.

i think its a sign of being possessive bc scorpios are very possessive. I'm a gemini.

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@R1g0rM0rT1s
14 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by jiggagemini
i am now involved (talking on & off because he said we didnt have an emotional connection) with a scorpio and he would ignore me for a while (busy socializing) then meet me at the dance floor. or sometimes after the club when we would leave separate and with (my best friend & a guy friend he didnt know) he would text me "what are you doing" wondering if i was with someone else.

i think its a sign of being possessive bc scorpios are very possessive. I'm a gemini.

if he was possessive he wouldn't ignore you?

how do you know he's wondering if you're with someone else when he texts 'what are you doing'. perhaps he's wondering WHAT you're doing and not WHOM?

what's really going on is that he is stringing you along.

gems and scorps are a baaaaaaaaad combo in the main.

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Let*It*Be
"It's all pretty normal Scorpio behavior. That's for sure."

Not really, if I'm ignoring someone I know, it pretty much means I've bannished them from my life. In general I ignore people I do not know who act like a $ $ holes. Other than that, I'm pretty social and acknowledge.

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