Scorpio to Scorpio

Let me start out by saying that I have been married to this man for over 10 years and we've known each other for 15 yrs. We do not meet eye to eye on anything. He lies about just about every thing. He's not helpful. What should I do.

Divorce! You'll NEVER be sorry, I guarantee it!

Both my mother and father were Scorpios. They were married for 34 years. It's funny. They never understood each other. So much for those who think they understand their counterparts under the same zodiac sign. My mother never understood how to handle my father. She was overly sensitive and was easily wounded, and he was also very touchy. Maybe God allowed me a look into both of them at a very early age, because I understood both of them very well. I always understood him. I'm a Libra, and was always very close to my father. He was a bastard, at times, but he was a hard worker with a lot of heart. He was very attractive and had many women, young and old, seeking him out. This infuriated my mother. Reason being, my father was an incurable womanizer. He would lie to her face about his escapades and get upset if she didn't believe him. To top it off, he'd make her think she was over reacting and imagining things. When I think back on it all, it's hilarious how many games he played. My mother loved him so much and was so dependent on him that she swallowed a lot more than I ever would. It wasn't until I was a teenager that I actually witnessed my mother stand up to my father. By the way, I'd been telling her for years that's what she needed to do. Anyway..one day she blew her top, and my father became more attentive, and he became suspicious of her comings and goings. The table turned. I remember my mother saying if she knew that's what it took, she'd have bitten off a piece of his a** a long time ago. Moral of the story: Don't be a patsy for anyone. Husbands and wives are no exception.

That's right! My Gemini ex was selfish and cruel and I told him to go to hell! He tried to make me feel guilty and ashamed of myself, but I didn't budge. He's almost 50, and NO ONE will go out with him!

divorce him, you only live once so why be unhappy.

You said it!

What a relevant topic! I am a Scorpio woman who filed on my Scorpio ex 3 months ago. What am unethical, exploiting others for his own gain snake! He lived life as a facade, and so does my Scorpio ex flame from the past who is pursuing me now.
get this, this a-hole is MARRIED to yet another Scorpio woman! And he is pursuing me, gettind rid of him has been like trying to exorcise a demon.

I think scorpio-scorpio can be a good combo at times, but my, does it turn ugly. Frequently I see Scorpio men cheat, I think its the secret doublelife that attracts them.

Don't get me wrong, I am sure some scorp ladies out there are jerks, too...but the men don't seem to wear the sign very well in my personal opinion. Not in a relationship anyways.

If he lies ALL the time, that's a real problem and he is certainly insecure about himself--perhaps he may have a lot to hide?? Sounds like trouble down the road...

Why put up with him? Life is too short to deal with difficult people like him. Get out of the marriage.

PS, he reminds me of my former boss and I don't have one nice word to say about HER!!!

Scorpios are complex and no matter what happens, some of them just plain don't care if they hurt people as long as they get what they want!

Well you just summed it up in a general sense for Scorpios and it DOES NOT sound like the best way to relate to people. Being "difficult" is not helpful!