Scorpion gone crazy?

Hi everybody. It's my first post on this forum and I want to know something. I'm a male scorpio and my wife is a virgo. I'm a very sexual active scorpio and if I can have sex even twice a day I will not refuse it. But when we talk about the virgo she is not the same. Her appetite is not the same. She will prefer maybe one a week. Is that ok for me to be that active? What can I do to increase her appetite? Thank you very much.

How long have you been married?
Do you have children?

8 years and yes we've got a son. We know each other since we were 6. I need to mention that we love each other very much!

LOL....you'll be lucky to get it twice a day after 8 years!!

seriously though, it's quite a big deal to have an imbalance of libidos in a relationship. i think it's a case of working towards a compromise where her appetite is increased and yours decreased and you'll just have to knock them out yourself in the down times.

if you have a son together, where is your wife supposed to get the energy for sex more than 2 or 3 times a week max? that's the 'average' appetite apparently although i personally hate those kind of surveys.

Just thinking scorpios ladies got the same high sex drive? And how do you "step down"? I've quit a lt of things and I've got a very good will power but this one to step down will be very hard. Is my sex drive got something to do with my date of birth? Because I'm on the first days of the scorpio or I'm getting something from the libra? Thank you for your honest answers !!!

Posted by Cobra23
Just thinking scorpios ladies got the same high sex drive? And how do you "step down"? I've quit a lt of things and I've got a very good will power but this one to step down will be very hard. Is my sex drive got something to do with my date of birth? Because I'm on the first days of the scorpio or I'm getting something from the libra? Thank you for your honest answers !!!

well yeah, i have a raging sex drive but i'm not your virgo wife LOL!!

you have to step down cos she's just not gonna be able to step up to your level and i think you would be unreasonable to expect it.

i like the irony in you saying it will be very hard to step down 😛

don't be so bloody selfish. she's a busy woman ffs!! there's no point in you pouting cos she's not servicing your needs adequately. how about talking to her?? is that an alien concept in marriage these days? how about finding out what HER needs are? perhaps she feels that you just need a hole to fuck as often as possible and she no longer feels treated like a sensual, attractive and most importantly RESPECTED woman??

so. step down or eventually you'll fuck up your marriage.

as long as you havent gone wild... 😛

i would see if she's willing to try new things... toys, porn, maca powder, stimulating lubes, new places, etc. but with the mindset and the openness that some or all may not work... ya know? dont set yourself up for disappointment with high hopes or expectations. and dont make it a huge ceremony as well... she may feel put on the spot or pressured, and it may put pressure on you. seems like a lot of "dont's" but the idea is to be open. she has to be on the same page too. hopefully you two can work your way up to a few times a week, to several times a week, etc...

also healthy diet and exercise naturally increase libido. that could be a touchy request, but it always depends on how you broach the subject.

Queen Screamer! 😛 love the avi

Thank you for the answers. I do get her very wet and in my opinion a women is something special and she should have at least 1 orgasm before penetration any way. The nicer is the foreplay, she gets hot , better sex later. I can't have sex for 5 minutes and that's it. If so I prefer to stay on my xbox and not bother. We watch porno movies and read erotic stories as well. We tried spanish fly drops as well but as you they don't work. I don't know know. I will try my best to step down a bit.

amil nitrate is good 😄

i feel a bit bad actually. you came across a little chauventistic at first but i see that you're not really and that you're both trying to resolve this between you...which is nice 🙂

good luck.

Well, when my son was small, I had been married for about 7 years at that point, I saw a big decrease in drive then.
I was tired all the time. I was working and running after a toddler and trying to take care of the house. My ex husband used to get mad because I used to fall asleep on the couch at 7:30 pm.

I'm not saying you don't do this, and if you do, great, but what would have helped me is if my husband had helped me more around the house. Maybe even take over making dinner one night a week, try to decrease her stress, and make it easier on her, maybe get a bottle of wine, give her a nice massage and that could help.

Posted by Cobra23
8 years and yes we've got a son. We know each other since we were 6. I need to mention that we love each other very much!

Mix it up with her. The bed isn't the only place for sex! (or in the house). Unless of course she is one of those Virgos that is a list keeper, note taker, schedule/appointment maker, etc..then it's gonna be tough.