Scorpios and ignoring

Well...I told u guys before that I said some things to my scorpio friend because I was angry with him.....well I apologized and he is still ignoring me. Well when I realized he was ignoring me I started to email him on purpose with silly things to aggravate him or to get any type of response,,,well he has continued to ignore me...I asked him if he wanted me to stop texting him why didn't he just tell me to stop.....still nothing....I am just so damn frustrated because I HATE to be ignored. I just don't know what to do.

Hi Softy 🙂

In regards to your scorp friend that you exchanged words with, well you might have to wait it out. You must have hurt him pretty well. It'll take awhile, but if you were good friends before, eventually he'll come around. If not, sorry, chances are, he won't give you a second thought. Unless you apologize, at least that's how I end up dealing with things.

Good luck

OMG!!!!! What is up with Scorpio men?? I have been going through the same thing softy.... Its been a little over 2 years and he is still ignoring me in a sense. I know I have said a lot of hurtful things to him within the 2 years. The e-mails, text message and phone calls. I would wait a while and try again. He would respond and it would seem like to me well, he responded? I guess I am still in there. Its at a point, since I am truly an Aries, I know I wouldnt put up with this with any man or at least I have never put up with this with a man. But, I have this crazy emotional bond with him. He will respond to me as long as I dont bring up, why, what and when in regards to this strange relationship. He has cut me off sooooo many times. Yet, when I cry to him about something that does not have anything to do with this so called relationship he will respond. I JUST LOVE THIS MAN FOR HIS STRENGTH>>>PERIOD...You must be wondering if you have lost your freaking mine I am sure.....I just dont understand one thing— They can dish it out but cant take it!!! I dont know about you but, I wont shut up!!! If he ignores me? all it does it make me talk and have my fits more. The sad part about it, I am truly sorry and have many regrets. If things where to ever turn around for us, I will know longer be considered the traveler!!! I will stay put because one, I know I will be secured if he allowed the relationship to grow. Plus I know that his heart will be mines. If he is putting up a fight like this!! We can go at it for the rest of our lives..sooo be it!!!! I need a man to hold me down....Let me ask you this— Dont you think he is a punk in away because, they can dish it out but cant take it when you chew them up and spit them out?? Then sometimes do you think they love it and then decide to give you the silent treatment for your punishment because they are fully aware that you hate to be ignored?? This is their way of staying in control....Also, when you call your self leaving them alone, and decided to contact them just to say a friendly hello, they respond immediately and then it on all over again with the emotional struggle!!! why ? what? and when?? Can we talk ladies?? we have a book to write.........

Yess...taht is exactly has went on with me and him...back and forth...and he is the on;y man who has never relenquished control to me.....And yes I do love him...When he ignores me it does nothing but make me mad and tezt him more and yes I do look at him as a punk in a way...because instead of ignoring me, he could judt tell me, to 1. either stop texting him or 2. why he ignoring me and why he chooses not to communicate with me....this does lead me to beleive he does as as some type of punishment. I am done texting him now. I'll just have to leave him alone because at this point, he knows he has me wiled up. And he has said and done a lot of inconsiderate things but he cannot take anything back.......go figure. I try to behave, and watch my tongue, but his non-chalant attitude and insensitivity pushes me over the edge and I find myself saying things I shouldn't because of my feelings being hurt,

we are in the same boat!!!!! I am hoping to stay very mad and feel like I am losing the battle in order to give up!!! Buuuutttt!!! What seem to happen with me, I get over the hurt feelings and try again. Yes, he is the only one that cant be charmed!!! Usually I am the only one in control of a relationship..Maybe this is way I keep holding on. I want this relationship so bad!!!!I know like I have said" if he ever gives in and allow this relationship to happen" I will stay and not wonder....I am so tired of walking away from relationships. I have gotten so bored with controlling my relationships. I am so aware that if he does give in, that I will have to remember that he can put out my fire at any given time when ever he chooses. I will take my chances. Let me ask you this? wait first..I am right now trying not to contact him or try and figure out as to whether he will respond? I will give him his space...I am hoping I am like a new tattoo that he feels he needs to re-do over and wants it back right...Let me ask you this? Are you fooling him by not contacting him or are you fooling yourself into believing you are sooooo done— Take it from me, bet you cant do it...Not to insult, its only because there is no closure. It will take another stronger person to into your life in order for you to move on..Trust me I know...Thats what I am waiting for at this point because I know he can have me whenever he says" BOOO"!!!!!!

Why not just tell somebody to F*uck off or get a life instead of continuing to ignore them and whats crazy is that I know that Scorpios have no problem telling u where to go and how to get there....so why not do that instead of ignoring a person

No..I meant insyead of a THEM ignoring you why don't THEY just say F*uck off or I'm not talking to you because.........

My angle on your last question Softy...is that deep down scorpions are emotional cowards in the direct confrontation stakes.....oh yeah they will huff and puff and ignore ignore and ignore but ask them on the spot with eye to eye contact what exactly they are so annoyed about and they will clam up, are unable to respond.....the best way to seduce them back is like the aquarian....simply ignore their childish behaviour and then after a while ring them up, meet and act as if nothing has happened.....

A x

I've acted such a fool that I am embarrassed....but I will give him some time...the thing with Scorpio os that you hace to give them A LOT of time...

Hey Missy...................if we all got a penny or cent for everytime we acted the fool on this board and in our lives, we'd be millionaires..and millionairesses.......welcome to the fool's club:-)....good thing is that greatlessons are leant from the rest of us fools and from just being in the fools club for a while.......then we enter the embarrassment club, the get back together club, the btich club, the bsastard club......you name it..........but each time you leave, you have another lesson under your belt......:-)

Keep counting the notches on your belt:-)

A x

Virgo Sufferer:

Learn to read face expressions and learn how to ask if something wrong. I'm sure he wont ignore you anymore.

Alana:

If people would not ignore stupid actions that other people do in front of them, and if we count it as a 1 penny for every time, we would be also millionarie. I'm pretty sure this person dont want to wind up stupid enviroument by telling all what you have to do.

Virgo Suffer meaned to be Softy..

take it from me, im a scorp not a male but still i do stupid stuff alot , try ignoring your mate just to have them do it right back to you, we as scorps hate that but even that makes no sense its like why even bother acting like that when it really does no good if your mate is as strong and bullheaded as you are and trust me, it will get ya noware.
Hey just found out me and my aries are going to have a baby in december. !!!!!!

Don't quite get your drift Haffo??

A x