Dilemma

Ok so I have recently run into a dilemma. It's between a Scorpio and a Capricorn/Sagitarius

On one hand I have known the Scorpio for 3.5 years. We've been on and off for all those years. We had been fighting non-stop for months. I had enough and just decided to stop with the bickering. Anyhow, lately we've been getting along great. Laughing, joking, having amazing sex, cuddling, and even being cute. It hasn't been this good in so long. Yet now we are just so in tune. It's really nice.

On the other hand the Cap/Sag. guy is also amazing. He pays attention to the little things. When I'm around him I feel beautiful, sexy, intelligent, and happy. I don't feel like I have to fight with him. I have only known him for a month. He's very different from the Scorpio. We are friends as of right now. However we are leaving possibilities open. We might end up together is what I'm saying. He's so down to earth. He's worldly, driven, committed, honest, funny, and just so amazing.

Right now I'm trying to be with myself. I know that the day will come where one will be a friend strictly and the other will be a deeper relationship. The hard part is which one?

Scorpio: Fiery, comfortable, super clean (metrosexual), gorgeous, limited affection, 2 kids, ex-wife, passionate, never been on foreign soil, self centered, not very good at listening, holds emotions inside, at times rude.

Cap/Sag.: Soft, sweet, average looking, no kids, no ex-wife, honest, traveled the world, focused, stable, very affectionate, listens, great communication, new, respectful.

You seem to have passion for the scorpio. But is there a spark with the Cap/Sag?

Piesces03 - as you say yourself the day will come when you will have to choose.

But today is not the day - is it??

So why not enjoy each, keep your options open, and soak in the attention and affection you are getting from both. And have all the magical moments you can have from both.

It is possible to fall for and even love two people at the same time.

For now, don't analyse too much, just enjoy till decision-time and remember, it's you who's in the driving-seat in this scenario - your choice.

A x

I have a strong spark, attraction, and sexual chemistry with both. True. I do need to keep my options open. Can I have both? For now I can. However, as time goes on they will want me to commit. You're all right. Just check it out and have fun for the time being.

Hey There!

I say stay with them both until you are sure, but be careful if Mr Scorp. finds out he might make the decision for you. I think you like Mr. Cap better though. It sounds that way. Sometimes its better to have a person who lifts your spirits & makes you feel good all the time. My Pisces man often tells me I am the sunshine in his day and perhaps the reason it is harder for you with the Scorp. is b/c the are so brooding all of the time. (No offense)

Cancerlady

lol! I dont have much info, but from what I'm figuring out about cappies are they are verry confusing! If I were you I would read through the capricorn post's to find out what you can expect in the upcoming months! Everything was great the first couple months but then he pulled away.....they are hard to figure out!

Good luck

Well, you know how it is when you've only known someone for a month. There's still a lot you DON'T know, so I agree with the person who said to take your time. A looooong time so you can get past the early period with Cap/Sag guy. THEN you'll have enough info to make the decision. 😉

I'm seeing the Cap/Sag. guy this week. I'm really excited. We shall see how that goes. The Scorp. I see every day. We are really getting along. Though he has a slight anger problem. We've been together for 3.5 years though it was never official. I might as well have been his wife. We are close but he has been deeply wounded by the ex-wife. He's scared of me and doesn't want to get too close to me. But if I try to leave he calls me back. We've been through hell and back many times. I've attempted to start other relationships (a bad way to go about it I know) in hopes of finding something better. But I keep thinking of him when I'm not around him. I keep thinking of him. He has street smarts. He hates that I have the tendancy to try out other relationships but he can't blame me. He knows it's hard on me for him to not commit to me.

The Cap/Sag is someone I really do like a lot. He's everything the Scorpio isn't. If I could fuse the two I would have the perfect man. However it's not easy to find anything perfect. The Cap./Sag is very affectionate and extremely sweet. He is affectionate and smart. He has book smarts.

Guess we'll see.

Go with the Cap/Sag guy! He's got less emotional baggage! Just my opinion...but Don't Pisces love affection? Sometimes Scorpio man's affection comes @ too high a price. Again, no offense intended.

Then again I have found the more you ignore a Scorp. the more they want you. If you really decide on Scorp, try making yourself less available.

Cancerlady

Hey, It's NELLY & Michelle!

No Matter what I do, all I think about is you!
Even when I'm with my boo!
Boy you know I'm crazy about you!

Well I ended up with the Scorpio. We are getting along better than we have in months. It's great. As for the Cap./Sag. guy...well has a lot of baggage from the 6 year relationship. I can work with the Scorpio on the past. He has ESP when it comes to me. It scares the hell out of me. I find that when I'm ok with myself than he adores me. If I am weak with myself he tends to be not so nice and distant. When I am not all into him he DOES get into me. It's funny. But it's more about the way I feel.

GOOD LUCK! Keep us posted!

C-Lady

My Scorpio and I are still doing well. Cap. guy got scared we were getting too close too quickly. Um...sure. Scorp and I have had our ups and downs. In the end I 'm happy.