Scorpios and Love

Scorpios like alot of attention, love and affectionate. We like to give all that back in return. In relationships when we love somebody, its not hard for the other person to know it because we will either tell them or we show it through are actions. As for me being a scorpio female. If I'm not interested in someone, I don't necessarily tell that person because I don't like to hurt people's feelings. So I either tell them in a nice way that I'm not interested. Or I just stop talking to them completely. Now if I really like somebody, its different. I notice with me and alot of other scorpios, when we like someone, its hard for us to like anybody else. So for those of you that are with scorpios and want to know how they feel about you, just remember: If they love you and I mean "really" love you, even if they don't say it, you can tell by his or her actions.

I absolutely agree! As a Virgo girl, I especially love cuddling up to a warm, sensitive Scorpio - that also includes my Scorpio grandmother, because she's warm and gentle!

You are so right about Scorpio females. I'm dating a Scorpio and she is so in love wiht me. I'm Gemini and she gets so jealous when I speak to other people especially if they are attractive. I do attriact alot of women adn she thinks I enjoy the attention which I do. But it's all in her head that I'm being disrepectful towards her. I love her very much I do for her I give her all of the attention and especially my money. She lacks NOTHING. Her actions speak louder than words and she shows me how much she loves me. But there are times where I can't handle her jealousy, it drivews me insane.I have alot of friends and she watches my every move. Why are Scorpios like that.
I plan to spend the rest of my life with her, but I second guess that at
times becasue she drives me crazy. Her love is deep and they are the BEST lovers than any other sign. Could yo please tell me how to handle her and why she doesn't trust me.

Well for many of us scorpios, we tend to get hurt easily by other people in relationships. That's my problem. I've been hurt so much in the past that it's hard for me to get close to anyone else. As for this jealousy thing, which is also a problem for me. When we care about somebody, we won't that person we're in love with to give us all the attention.I know how you feel, though. Hang in there. Overall we are good people. Good luck!

Thank you Ronda22 for your response. You pretty much carry yourself like my girl does. I understand that she loves me, but she questions every thing I do like being on the phone. She never want s me to go anywhere by myself. Stuff like that really bothers me. It makes me feel like she's doing something behind my back. I don't think anyone should be that much insecure about their partner. She makes me feel so alive I have to say this out loud... She makes my world go round. You Scorpio's know how to reach a soul and capture what's in it. She makes me feel the 7 seas. She's very passionate with others and she gives her heart to anyone who needs help. But her anger really freaks me out and all I do is stare at her and walk away. I'm a Gemini and Gemini's like no issues or drama in their life. So I prevent it and I walk away from her every time. I have to give it y'all Scorpio's you make the world go round in the BEDROOM. Y'all the best in that area. I could never leave my baby becasue she is greater than great. I will continue on taking care of my baby and her jealously has to cease come to an end soon I hope...

You are right! I have not had ANY complaints in the BEDROOM! (smile)
No seriously. The jealousy thing will end when she feels like she can trust you completely. I sound just like your girl. I'm always questioning my pisces about everything. The only reason why I do it to him is because it's hard for me to trust him. He lies to me sometimes, he's somewhat secretive. Sometimes its hard for me to talk to him because he doesn't express his feelings or really tell me he love me unless we're alone and he's drinking. So see? That's why I question everything. But as for you, just try talking to her and see what she says. I think it will probably work out, though.Oh, and as far as her wanting to be by your side? I am like that with my pisces. For me, its like, I love him and I really do wanna be by his side all the time. Maybe that's why your girl does that; I don't know. Remember we scorpios are very possessive when it comes to things we like. I hope I am so help to you and I hope it all works out for the best...

Hey ROnda22,

Yeah, you really sound like my girl...
Let me tell you about my weekend, well, I really don't go out much I like to stay home alot and watch TV, yeah, Typically man. SHe wanted to go out clubbing, but I just wasn't in the mood, so, I let her go without me, but she had gone with my cousin Mary and I knew my cousin would take care of her. Anyway, so I stayed with her son that night at home and played Videos & play station.2. I figured she would have a good time and come home to me in a good mood to make love to me, but NOOOOO, she was drunk as hell and accused me of leaving her son there at home and being with someone else that night while she went out. We fought all night because she just didn't trust me. Until finally she believed me.I do have a past in being with alot of women and she knows this, but I'm so in love with her that she pushes me away becasue of her jealously. Get this...her cousin has a crush on me and her sister in law has a crush on me too. Actually, her sister in law gave me her number behind my girl's back to call her. Guess what I did, I gave my girl the number and told her what she did. Was that wise of me to do? You Scorpios have a way to get to someones heart, I guess it's because y'all are so passionate and sexy. You know I might look around at women, but I would never cheat or lie to her. She has me talking to no one not even my old friends. She wants me to be isolated with only her. I express my self alot to her in bed and out of bed. Us Geminis are good at that. She says she's never felt love so deep like she has with me. All I want Ronda is for her to stop being so jealous with me, because one day I will get tired and just leave...

Could you tell me what a scorpio woman would really like on a night to our selves. I want to plan a romamtic evening with her and please tell me what she would like the most that will convince her that she is the only one. I want her to feel my love, because I know she reacts on feelings rather than thought... please help.

I use to be with a piceis and she was jealous too. Gold Luck with that. You have been a great help. Thank you.

I feel good when I can help people and thank you for listening to me. You listen to me more than my so-called friend does. Anyways, you wanna know a way to show her you love her and you wanna plan a night together alone.
Okay. Here are some ideas. I hope I can be of help.
Whatever you plan for that night, make sure you surprise her. Us Scorpios like surprises. And make sure it is one of the most romantic nights.
Let's see... How about you start the night off going to the movies or out to dinner. Buy her some pretty flowers or something cute, you know? Then after that, you could go to a hotel or something. I don't really know. i never had a guy do any of those things for me. I'm always the one doing for the guy. Look, how about this: you can email me. That way we can be able to talk more instead of talking on this message boards. I am glad that you want my advice. I actually feel appreciated. Thank you. But make sure you email me, okay? Do you have instant messenger? My email is raymond761@webtv.net or shboone212001@yahoo.com. The first address is the one I use the most. Make sure you write me, okay?
RONDA

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Here's an email address you can email me at mtintx77076@yahoo.com. To Ronda22