
Shaun
@Shaun1994
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Posted by vesperExactly! That is what he does beside looking at me while he thinks I'm not watching.
I get really shy, cautious probably ignore you because we like the person. That it block us to approach or communicate.

Posted by UbermenschAlready told him I was in love with him, in which he lied about being straight or is straight and is obsessed with me for some reason.
youll never know unless you ask with tact


Posted by UbermenschI know he lied for reasons too long to write here, but I know he's confused, it's extremely clear.Posted by Shaun1994how do you know he lied? he could be straight. maybe biPosted by UbermenschAlready told him I was in love with him, in which he lied about being straight or is straight and is obsessed with me for some reason.
youll never know unless you ask with tact
if he isnt ready to come out to you then thats that. give him the time and space to figure his sexuality outclick to expand
Posted by Shaun1994thats nice!Posted by vesperExactly! That is what he does beside looking at me while he thinks I'm not watching.
I get really shy, cautious probably ignore you because we like the person. That it block us to approach or communicate.
What should I do? How should I proceed?click to expand

Posted by UbermenschBelieve me, it's my journey as well--I am feeling it every moment of every day. But, thank you for the advice. I will do that.Posted by Shaun1994its not about you, its not your journey. let go of the i have to's. you can only subtly hint at it from time to time or flirt with him in an extremely teasong way if it doesnt bother him.Posted by UbermenschI know he lied for reasons too long to write here, but I know he's confused, it's extremely clear.Posted by Shaun1994how do you know he lied? he could be straight. maybe biPosted by UbermenschAlready told him I was in love with him, in which he lied about being straight or is straight and is obsessed with me for some reason.
youll never know unless you ask with tact
if he isnt ready to come out to you then thats that. give him the time and space to figure his sexuality out
I'm giving him space, but every time I see him suffering or looking my way, or just being, I die inside. I must know how to make him feel more comfortable beyond giving him space.click to expand

Posted by Shaun1994Posted by vesperThis is extremely helpful! It frees me to a certain extent.Posted by Shaun1994thats nice!Posted by vesperExactly! That is what he does beside looking at me while he thinks I'm not watching.
I get really shy, cautious probably ignore you because we like the person. That it block us to approach or communicate.
What should I do? How should I proceed?
His smitten by you just let him be that way, you don't have to do anything, his probably not expecting anything from you to do something just be yourself. Because That's exactly what I do, I keep looking at the person observing every move they make and the way they communicate with me and how they treat me.
We scorpio love to observe especially if i'm very attracted to that person its not the best advice but that's how I admire the person I am with. Bare that in mind that we're very good at showing and expressing ourselves; words doesn't come out so easily thats not how I/we express.
why do you feel you have to obligate and do something in return?click to expand
And I feel that way because I want to show him all my love, I want him to feel how much I love him and I want to shower him with my love. I want to be one with him.
I just love him so much.

Posted by Shaun1994Posted by Shaun1994Also, me showing him my love is a part of who I am. But, I suppose giving him space is a form of that as well.Posted by vesperThis is extremely helpful! It frees me to a certain extent.Posted by Shaun1994thats nice!Posted by vesperExactly! That is what he does beside looking at me while he thinks I'm not watching.
I get really shy, cautious probably ignore you because we like the person. That it block us to approach or communicate.
What should I do? How should I proceed?
His smitten by you just let him be that way, you don't have to do anything, his probably not expecting anything from you to do something just be yourself. Because That's exactly what I do, I keep looking at the person observing every move they make and the way they communicate with me and how they treat me.
We scorpio love to observe especially if i'm very attracted to that person its not the best advice but that's how I admire the person I am with. Bare that in mind that we're very good at showing and expressing ourselves; words doesn't come out so easily thats not how I/we express.
why do you feel you have to obligate and do something in return?
And I feel that way because I want to show him all my love, I want him to feel how much I love him and I want to shower him with my love. I want to be one with him.
I just love him so much.click to expand
I just want to be one with him.
Posted by Shaun1994Posted by Shaun1994then express and show that to him (slowly). when you mention space, is he starting to be aloof/dissapear?Posted by Shaun1994Also, me showing him my love is a part of who I am. But, I suppose giving him space is a form of that as well.Posted by vesperThis is extremely helpful! It frees me to a certain extent.Posted by Shaun1994thats nice!Posted by vesperExactly! That is what he does beside looking at me while he thinks I'm not watching.
I get really shy, cautious probably ignore you because we like the person. That it block us to approach or communicate.
What should I do? How should I proceed?
His smitten by you just let him be that way, you don't have to do anything, his probably not expecting anything from you to do something just be yourself. Because That's exactly what I do, I keep looking at the person observing every move they make and the way they communicate with me and how they treat me.
We scorpio love to observe especially if i'm very attracted to that person its not the best advice but that's how I admire the person I am with. Bare that in mind that we're very good at showing and expressing ourselves; words doesn't come out so easily thats not how I/we express.
why do you feel you have to obligate and do something in return?
And I feel that way because I want to show him all my love, I want him to feel how much I love him and I want to shower him with my love. I want to be one with him.
I just love him so much.
I just want to be one with him.
click to expand



Posted by Shaun1994We've gone over this, forcing him or trying to trick him into "coming out" will only backfire onto you. If you love him, then be there for him, but continue your life and lead by example. Forcing him to conform to your standard is not love, it's possession, he doesn't belong to anyone but himself.
Every time he looks at me I see overwelming, soul-destroying desire in his eyes. Like I'm breaking him apart and he is aroused all in one
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What do you think is going through the Scorpio's head and how would they behave?
I'm a Cancer Sun and Asc, Gemini Moon, Mars, Mercury
I am Plutonian and that planet affects me deeply
Thanks!