Scorpios in the closest

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Shaun
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Any Scorpios in the closet or have been that can inform me as to how they would behave around the person they like? Keep in mind the person they like has been intensely looking at them all the time and sometimes completely ignoring them.

What do you think is going through the Scorpio's head and how would they behave?

I'm a Cancer Sun and Asc, Gemini Moon, Mars, Mercury

I am Plutonian and that planet affects me deeply

Thanks!
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Shaun
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youll never know unless you ask with tact
Already told him I was in love with him, in which he lied about being straight or is straight and is obsessed with me for some reason.
how do you know he lied? he could be straight. maybe bi

if he isnt ready to come out to you then thats that. give him the time and space to figure his sexuality out
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I know he lied for reasons too long to write here, but I know he's confused, it's extremely clear.

I'm giving him space, but every time I see him suffering or looking my way, or just being, I die inside. I must know how to make him feel more comfortable beyond giving him space.
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I get really shy, cautious probably ignore you because we like the person. That it block us to approach or communicate.
Exactly! That is what he does beside looking at me while he thinks I'm not watching.

What should I do? How should I proceed?
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thats nice!

His smitten by you just let him be that way, you don't have to do anything, his probably not expecting anything from you to do something just be yourself. Because That's exactly what I do, I keep looking at the person observing every move they make and the way they communicate with me and how they treat me.

We scorpio love to observe especially if i'm very attracted to that person its not the best advice but that's how I admire the person I am with. Bare that in mind that we're very good at showing and expressing ourselves; words doesn't come out so easily thats not how I/we express.

why do you feel you have to obligate and do something in return?
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Shaun
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Posted by Ubermensch
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Posted by Ubermensch
youll never know unless you ask with tact
Already told him I was in love with him, in which he lied about being straight or is straight and is obsessed with me for some reason.
how do you know he lied? he could be straight. maybe bi

if he isnt ready to come out to you then thats that. give him the time and space to figure his sexuality out
I know he lied for reasons too long to write here, but I know he's confused, it's extremely clear.

I'm giving him space, but every time I see him suffering or looking my way, or just being, I die inside. I must know how to make him feel more comfortable beyond giving him space.
its not about you, its not your journey. let go of the i have to's. you can only subtly hint at it from time to time or flirt with him in an extremely teasong way if it doesnt bother him.
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Believe me, it's my journey as well--I am feeling it every moment of every day. But, thank you for the advice. I will do that.
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Shaun
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Posted by vesper
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Posted by vesper
I get really shy, cautious probably ignore you because we like the person. That it block us to approach or communicate.
Exactly! That is what he does beside looking at me while he thinks I'm not watching.

What should I do? How should I proceed?
thats nice!

His smitten by you just let him be that way, you don't have to do anything, his probably not expecting anything from you to do something just be yourself. Because That's exactly what I do, I keep looking at the person observing every move they make and the way they communicate with me and how they treat me.

We scorpio love to observe especially if i'm very attracted to that person its not the best advice but that's how I admire the person I am with. Bare that in mind that we're very good at showing and expressing ourselves; words doesn't come out so easily thats not how I/we express.

why do you feel you have to obligate and do something in return?
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This is extremely helpful! It frees me to a certain extent.

And I feel that way because I want to show him all my love, I want him to feel how much I love him and I want to shower him with my love. I want to be one with him.

I just love him so much.
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Shaun
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Posted by vesper
Posted by Shaun1994
Posted by vesper
I get really shy, cautious probably ignore you because we like the person. That it block us to approach or communicate.
Exactly! That is what he does beside looking at me while he thinks I'm not watching.

What should I do? How should I proceed?
thats nice!

His smitten by you just let him be that way, you don't have to do anything, his probably not expecting anything from you to do something just be yourself. Because That's exactly what I do, I keep looking at the person observing every move they make and the way they communicate with me and how they treat me.

We scorpio love to observe especially if i'm very attracted to that person its not the best advice but that's how I admire the person I am with. Bare that in mind that we're very good at showing and expressing ourselves; words doesn't come out so easily thats not how I/we express.

why do you feel you have to obligate and do something in return?
This is extremely helpful! It frees me to a certain extent.

And I feel that way because I want to show him all my love, I want him to feel how much I love him and I want to shower him with my love. I want to be one with him.

I just love him so much.
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Also, me showing him my love is a part of who I am. But, I suppose giving him space is a form of that as well.

I just want to be one with him.

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Posted by Shaun1994
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Posted by vesper
I get really shy, cautious probably ignore you because we like the person. That it block us to approach or communicate.
Exactly! That is what he does beside looking at me while he thinks I'm not watching.

What should I do? How should I proceed?
thats nice!

His smitten by you just let him be that way, you don't have to do anything, his probably not expecting anything from you to do something just be yourself. Because That's exactly what I do, I keep looking at the person observing every move they make and the way they communicate with me and how they treat me.

We scorpio love to observe especially if i'm very attracted to that person its not the best advice but that's how I admire the person I am with. Bare that in mind that we're very good at showing and expressing ourselves; words doesn't come out so easily thats not how I/we express.

why do you feel you have to obligate and do something in return?
This is extremely helpful! It frees me to a certain extent.

And I feel that way because I want to show him all my love, I want him to feel how much I love him and I want to shower him with my love. I want to be one with him.

I just love him so much.
Also, me showing him my love is a part of who I am. But, I suppose giving him space is a form of that as well.

I just want to be one with him.

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then express and show that to him (slowly). when you mention space, is he starting to be aloof/dissapear?
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Posted by Shaun1994
Every time he looks at me I see overwelming, soul-destroying desire in his eyes. Like I'm breaking him apart and he is aroused all in one
We've gone over this, forcing him or trying to trick him into "coming out" will only backfire onto you. If you love him, then be there for him, but continue your life and lead by example. Forcing him to conform to your standard is not love, it's possession, he doesn't belong to anyone but himself.