Scorpios, Pluto and transformation

Scorpios

We read it everywhere there is a definition or description of Scorpio: Transformation, rising above the ashes, intensity, energy, rebirth...

Basically, a scorpio internalizes pain, hurt and harsh lessons in life. In order to evolve, scorps transform , and become better people for it.

Scorps also have the ability to transfer that energy, whether through pain, love or a wake-up call to non-Scorpios. The Scorp may get empowered while another may be left a quivering mess. It's said that when a Scorpio comes into a persons life, he/she is delivering lifes message that you need to transform something (just like a Pluto transit).

So when we non water sign people receive this energy, how do we transform it? How do you rise above? Any tips, advice or ideas to throw out there?

I think it doesn't really require much effort or focus to abosorb the lessons
(or energy) of Scorpio. It is so powerful and so subconscious, that it just
permeates the atmosphere, like between a Scorpio and a Taurus. Erth signs tend to
just shrug it off. Air signs seem the best (outside of water sins) at handling and
integrating it. Fire signs definitely seem rattled by it, probably because their Mars
suddenly takes on a Plutonian tinge, and that challenges their identity.
Understanding what is happening is the first part of integrating energies. Then,
one may well ask, "For what reason did I bring this into my experience?"
(Great question, by the way).

Paul