Took this from the Virgo Board. What are the characteristics or reactions of a hurt Scorpian. (Emotional Hurt) Besides a knife sticking out of the back of the person that hurt them 😉
i tend to withdraw, become quiet and introspective
i don't think anyone notices anything different on the outside though - i still maintain the same demeanour, altho maybe a little cooler to discourage people from prying
for a hurt scorpio would it ease things somewhat if the person that hurt them said "Just hit me you know you want to"? Somehow groveling and saying i'm sorry doesn't seem enough or make everything better. I am sorry but it doesn't make it ok. My mind set is i know they are angry/upset but they shouldn't take it out on other people. I'm the one the anger/hurt is directed towards ergo I should be the one he lashes out on.
you can't rush someone who's hurt...just let them lick their wounds in peace and over time it'll get better. as long as he knows you're sorry things should be ok.
just be there for him, emphasize anything positive, be supportive but not suffocating. if it's forgiveness you're looking for, you'll have to accept that it'll happen on his terms, not yours.
I'm not real good in dealing with emotional hurts. People usually notice my mood change. I am normally a very bubbly person, always a smile and a cheerful disposition. But when I become hurt. I become quite somber and no smiles for anyone!!! And I obsess over everything. What did I do wrong? Why can't I get it right (love)? Oh please...it's depressing!
What are the characteristics or reactions of a hurt Scorpian. (Emotional Hurt)
Besides a knife sticking out of the back of the person that hurt them 😉