Scorps and 'friend stealing'

I'm a sun scorp, taurus moon, and gemini ascendant (lawd help me lol) but anyway anytime someone introduces me to one of their friends if we vibe at the first encounter i end up having them wanting to hang out with me and sharing their personal business more than they would with the one who introduced us. it happens very quickly too. i don't do it on purpose but i just got 'read' by my virgo friend claiming i steal everyone she introduces me to . does this happen to y'all other scorps?

Being more likeable is not the same as thievery. But if you care for your friend and don't like her being jealous, invite her along for all these things your new tag-alongs want to do with you.

Posted by exoskeleton
it happens, but i keep my circle small. so i keep those mutual friends as just social/party friends.

i have a very small circle of ppl i trust...so this is why it's weird to me that some ppl can open up to me so fast when i wouldn't do the same to them and put them in the associates category before i get to know them more

Posted by Draumstafir
Being more likeable is not the same as thievery. But if you care for your friend and don't like her being jealous, invite her along for all these things your new tag-alongs want to do with you.

i always invite!

Posted by Impulsv
That's her issue to deal with. Whatever you do don't change to accommodate. If you are positive and you that's the energy you bring to make people feel comfortable to you why would you close that off. As a friend why would a friend ask another to close off their positivity
She doesn't sound to matureI didn't know people were possessions to steal

yeah i guess and i never go out of my way it just happens and i'm still loyal to the ones who introduced *kanye shrug*

Posted by exoskeleton
everyone and their mother tells me their life story.

doesn't mean i'll be your friend, lol.

if you're good ppl i'll attend and give you real advice. why listen to someone you don't like lol? might as well tell them to take it elsewhere imo

Posted by Impulsv
Yes but ur personality shines I just don't want u to simmer it down for a compare a Freind who looks at thing competitive when they are not. U can still be loyal but tell her respectfully that you being friendly is who u are n she must respect that of u. I love u my Freind but this is t a competition.

yes i hate competition between friends. she knows i would never betray her and always will have her back so idk what's up with that. it's also recently happened with one of my close sag friend, he took me to a party his coworkers at his new job were hosting and they all ended up liking me, some taking my number to hang out and i guess he felt a type of way about it because he didn't want to bring me to the next function they were having even though they told me to come thru... i dont understand because i wouldn't try to turn their friends against them or steal their time together...i'm not a clingy person and i also introduce them to many of my friends/associates

Posted by Impulsv
If the coworkers invited you and you want to go why do you need your friends approval. I'm sorry we're all adults here.

cause it's not my zone 0.o why would i show up somehwere i'm lowkey suggested not to go to, i'm not a desperate bird