MadamCrab
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Soul Connections..
Your responses make so much sense to me.
The problem is, society makes soul connections a big romantic fantasy, here comes your knight in shining armor, you're not complete until you've found you're one soul connection.
Truth is, we are our own knight in shining armor and everything else is a bonus.
I believe there can be a soul connection that is the strongest out there, and it may be with one person in your lifetime. But I don't believe it is linked to the final page of your Happily Ever After.
I believe it's all growth....
Intrigued Scorp....I love the way you put it. I really do believe this too.
I think the problem with most beliefs about soul connections is that it's meant to be a 'perfect' fit, smooth sailing ect. While some soul connections can be like this (a lot of simple marriages) they do not, or are not meant to, involve a growth aspect or lessons with that person.
I have already had one of those soul connection relationships. I only got one growth lesson from it, but did no growing whatsoever in that time. You could say I felt stagnant.
Ellybean; I know what you're saying about the emotions thing. It can be so confusing, and it can be what you said, yet doubt and fears can self sabotage a relationship too.
Yes I agree about the family soul connection thing. Apparently you can have many soul groups, one being close family and friends, but then you can have the real real soul connection with a person too and that's the hardest lesson of them all as you know. Pain, sadness, loss but at the same time you gain a form of strength and new awareness too.
The problem is, society makes soul connections a big romantic fantasy, here comes your knight in shining armor, you're not complete until you've found you're one soul connection.
Truth is, we are our own knight in shining armor and everything else is a bonus.
I believe there can be a soul connection that is the strongest out there, and it may be with one person in your lifetime. But I don't believe it is linked to the final page of your Happily Ever After.
I believe it's all growth....
Intrigued Scorp....I love the way you put it. I really do believe this too.
I think the problem with most beliefs about soul connections is that it's meant to be a 'perfect' fit, smooth sailing ect. While some soul connections can be like this (a lot of simple marriages) they do not, or are not meant to, involve a growth aspect or lessons with that person.
I have already had one of those soul connection relationships. I only got one growth lesson from it, but did no growing whatsoever in that time. You could say I felt stagnant.
Ellybean; I know what you're saying about the emotions thing. It can be so confusing, and it can be what you said, yet doubt and fears can self sabotage a relationship too.
Yes I agree about the family soul connection thing. Apparently you can have many soul groups, one being close family and friends, but then you can have the real real soul connection with a person too and that's the hardest lesson of them all as you know. Pain, sadness, loss but at the same time you gain a form of strength and new awareness too.
Posted by Jynja
Or that the puzzle has now come apart revealing a deeper more intriguing or perhaps more colorful puzzle? Almost like you had been living in black and white before?
When I met my best friend 3 years (4 years in December) ago this is exactly what happened.
I always had a sense that I'd meet someone I'd truly love with total abandon. For someone who could build walls higher and stronger than Jericho when it came to emotional connections, this revelation totally stunned me. But I knew, and when the time came, I knew who she was the moment I read her name on the board. She's 22 years my senior, my sister, my friend, my lover, my adviser, my all.Quite simply, I'd found my true north.
From there came the recognition of a presence or sheer power that surrounds me and seems to affect everything around me. Every meeting or contact brings a soulful connection. It may not be one of knowing a person in another life, but it reveals the person's life before. Sometimes too, its very powerful (though never quite the same as I felt with my best friend until I met Mr. Scorp) or sometimes its a subtle vibe of who you were once before. Regardless, I seem to catch a wisp of the state of a person's soul and how it has affected who they are.
Some of these moments have come through touching inanimate objects that once belonged to or was possessed by a person I "sense" and some have come merely by a whisper of air surrounding them. Though I have found none of these "media" necessary to connect with a person and either bond with them or retreat fast and run for dear life.
It can be quite a powerful experience, I must say, when by a mere look in a person's eye you seem to know what their lives in the past and in the present are. Feelings would arise that brought great mourning for such souls, so I learned (with lots of guidance from my best friend) to suppress it and burying it deeply.
It's sudden rude reawakening is what has brought me here to DXP. Even though it has caused me great sorrow such as the state I've been in over the past few days, one thing I know is sure, I'm not living if my very life essence is buried deep inside.
No matter how weak or strong, connecting with others is fuel for the soul.
It is vitality and so, it is life.
Exactly! I've had so many connections, some quite strong but nothing like this.
It borders on psychic with Mr Scorp.
Cont.
He dreamed of me before I came along. We both had been through hell leading up to our meeting.
I 'knew' him and it was like we had never been apart.
When I met him and reflected on it afterwards, I knew his name, felt his pain and had many visions of him and what he was doing.
When he sends a message I immediately wake within a few minutes of it.
When we are apart, I can feel an intense pulling and his energy to the point where I had to 'energetically' cut myself off from him.
The other night I caught a whiff of his scent as though he had walked past me.
Even though we only passed each other for 10 minutes with our first meeting, I felt a closer connection to him than my own family, and he was who I had been yearning for throughout my life.
I could go on and on..
He is in my thoughts a lot of the time, and I am not one who likes to get hung up on a man (I'm too proud! Lol) so it confuses me why I feel such an intense connection and these abilities with him.
Two days before he made first contact, I had a vision that he sent a text saying, 'Why do I love you?'
I will dream of him sending an email about a certain topic, and a week later, he will say exactly the same thing I dreamed of.
I accept that this connection is not meant to be, 'OMG I found him, I need to grab him and he will be mine.'
I feel that it is purely for growth and healing of childhood pain that we both suffered, as these issues do come up.
One thing that has been highlighted in this connection ( that we both stuffed down never to see the light of day) is that we both have abandonment and trust issues, and we both come from a family with one abusive parent and lack of love from that parent.
He is amazing, and we love each others' company to bits, so I am just enjoying whatever opportunity we have to learn and grow, and whatever will be, will be for however long it lasts...
He dreamed of me before I came along. We both had been through hell leading up to our meeting.
I 'knew' him and it was like we had never been apart.
When I met him and reflected on it afterwards, I knew his name, felt his pain and had many visions of him and what he was doing.
When he sends a message I immediately wake within a few minutes of it.
When we are apart, I can feel an intense pulling and his energy to the point where I had to 'energetically' cut myself off from him.
The other night I caught a whiff of his scent as though he had walked past me.
Even though we only passed each other for 10 minutes with our first meeting, I felt a closer connection to him than my own family, and he was who I had been yearning for throughout my life.
I could go on and on..
He is in my thoughts a lot of the time, and I am not one who likes to get hung up on a man (I'm too proud! Lol) so it confuses me why I feel such an intense connection and these abilities with him.
Two days before he made first contact, I had a vision that he sent a text saying, 'Why do I love you?'
I will dream of him sending an email about a certain topic, and a week later, he will say exactly the same thing I dreamed of.
I accept that this connection is not meant to be, 'OMG I found him, I need to grab him and he will be mine.'
I feel that it is purely for growth and healing of childhood pain that we both suffered, as these issues do come up.
One thing that has been highlighted in this connection ( that we both stuffed down never to see the light of day) is that we both have abandonment and trust issues, and we both come from a family with one abusive parent and lack of love from that parent.
He is amazing, and we love each others' company to bits, so I am just enjoying whatever opportunity we have to learn and grow, and whatever will be, will be for however long it lasts...
nk it's just natural and automatic to supress feelings.
Addressing them is incredibly painful at the time, but a close friend (who is a scorp too, love her) taught me that when the pain does come up, acknowledge it, and let it pass through you. We are quick to put a wall up but this doesn't help it in any way.
She also said it is normal to 'grieve' such a connection, so if those feelings come up, grieve for him if you feel it. Have a good bawl! It's not called cleansing for nothing 😉
What helps me is caffeine free herbal teas, hot lemon water and hot baths.
Good luck with it all. It's okay to have those down times but know that it does get much easier. http://photobucket.com/images/hug% 20gif" target="_blank">
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by MadamCrab
What's your belief on this? Do you believe we can be connected to others' from so-called, past lives? Would this explain an instant 'knowing' of a person you first met?
I'm not talking a standard connection when you first meet someone and get on well with them....I'm talking those rare, strong connections that leave you confused, yet gob smacked, almost like the puzzle now fits.
Been internalizing a lot lately...... Deep, confusing, gut wrenching thoughts.
I believe in soul connections. I don't believe a soul has a male or female form and can take on different forms .
Arts, people, places are are like eye openers that help create our experiences at the level of the soul and keep us aware of the those "ah ha" moments when they come and not continually miss them. Awareness or lack thereof, missing the point and getting the point, trial and error are all part of the soul experience imo. The soul isn't made up of feeling and emotion.
So, I don't think it always has to involve romantic love , or that kind of relationship. For instance I can feel connected someone without emotion attached to that feeling. I do believe in past life experiences and reincarnation and things like that though.click to expand
Yes, definitely. Amazing how you say art, creativity has always had a strong tie with it all.
I think we have the aha moments if we are awakened to all that. So many people don't know
Cont. what the heck we are on about. These people don't have a significant part in my life, and I have noticed it's not intentional. I think we join with people that are on a similar path as ourselves...which brings us full circle to the whole soul mate connection once again.
Posted by RockthenerdsPosted by MadamCrab
Cont.
When we are apart, I can feel an intense pulling and his energy to the point where I had to 'energetically' cut myself off from him.
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Soul ties 🙂
"must crucify the ego before it's far too late, I pray the light lifts me out before I pine away"
Hello....ain't that the truth
Yes I am familiar with that story! It's a great one.
Thanks for sharing that. Very deep, aren't they?
Thanks for sharing that. Very deep, aren't they?
Need to mention...ego can be two things.
One we associate with being narcissistic, and the one which they call the 'little self', which is the doubt, the overanalyzing, the lies we tell ourselves when we have evidence of truth.
This comes from logic and not so much as feeling/knowing with the heart and soul.
One we associate with being narcissistic, and the one which they call the 'little self', which is the doubt, the overanalyzing, the lies we tell ourselves when we have evidence of truth.
This comes from logic and not so much as feeling/knowing with the heart and soul.
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