Sagittarius Girls and me

I'm a Scorpio. And for those who are also Scorpios, you might know how Scorpios and Sagittarius is not the best mix in a relationship, right? I've been through it more than once. It just never works out. It seems like they are either too distant or too close even. It is a mismatch, to put it shortly.
However, when I'm looking around, it seems that I tend to attract and find Sagittarius girls first and with no trouble. Am I doomed? I've even been on dating sites, and the girls that seem appealing to me are Sagittarius, 80% of the time or more.

What am I doing wrong? What should I be looking for?

i always find saggie girls to be much different from the men. i love 'em...i like all the fire sign women. you can't really preclude a relationship with someone on the basis of their sun sign though as you know. you're not doing anything wrong, just following your gut and it just happens to throw a lot of sag women your way. we're all attracted to 'types'. they'll all be quite different personalities most probably although perhaps with some similar 'tendancies'

The other placements are important as well. You know, moon, venus, etc. Childhood experiences play a vital role. But don't rule out someone on their sunsign. I'm seeing A Scorp. He drives me mad, as I'm sure I do him lol, but he has managed to become the only man I've ever loved. It definitely takes tweaking. You just have to see if she is the right Sag for you.

The problem I tend to run into though, or at least have, the few times I went along with it, is that the innocence they seem to portrait at first, is merely a luring scheme. I don't mean to sound harsh, but the few Sag-girls I've been with have had more skeletons hidden than honesty can bear.

Posted by thousandmph
The problem I tend to run into though, or at least have, the few times I went along with it, is that the innocence they seem to portrait at first, is merely a luring scheme. I don't mean to sound harsh, but the few Sag-girls I've been with have had more skeletons hidden than honesty can bear.

It's not really a lure. We are genuinely like that. Very bubbly, optimistic, kind of child like. That's not a front. Then we are very passionate, and sexual behind that. Depending on the person and the placements that passion can be for many or one person.

My Venus in Cap and circumstances growing up made me more if the "clingier" type that holds to one guy. But there are definitely the more free spirited Sag lol. Again, you kind of have to take it on a case by case basis.

On another note, I find Scorps definitely have their fair share of skeletons as well...

Posted by thousandmph
The problem I tend to run into though, or at least have, the few times I went along with it, is that the innocence they seem to portrait at first, is merely a luring scheme. I don't mean to sound harsh, but the few Sag-girls I've been with have had more skeletons hidden than honesty can bear.

We are childlike yeah
and we can be very naive. We are happy People.
We want Peace, Love and Knowledge to become a wiser Person.
BUT
We are not innocent, and you cannot control us because we control our Life's. So you either take it or leave.
And if we find out that you try to take away that control, there will be war.
Freedom for Sagittarius means also Freedom of Choice. We do what we want, when we want, how we want.
And we are not manipulative, we are honest.

And of course we are sensitive too, we are human beings.
But we see everything from the positive side, we dont want to be negative because we dont want to waste our energy and time with it.
We have feelings and we are able to love deeply.
We need alot of time to figure out if we are able to have a relationship.
But if we decide that we do, You better not come up with your foolish games.

She is my Age (21) and she's a Sag =)

Posted by Mebs
The other placements are important as well. You know, moon, venus, etc. Childhood experiences play a vital role. But don't rule out someone on their sunsign. I'm seeing A Scorp. He drives me mad, as I'm sure I do him lol, but he has managed to become the only man I've ever loved. It definitely takes tweaking. You just have to see if she is the right Sag for you.

=) Yup!

Posted by thousandmph
Am I doomed?

Yes.

Yup. Doomed. Too much stupid shit to deal with.

if by "doomed" you mean "blessed"?!

Posted by thousandmph
The problem I tend to run into though, or at least have, the few times I went along with it, is that the innocence they seem to portrait at first, is merely a luring scheme. I don't mean to sound harsh, but the few Sag-girls I've been with have had more skeletons hidden than honesty can bear.

bwahahaha, im not seeing a problem here. i would find it refreshing that you can meet a girl who has just as many skeletons as you do and is pretty content with discussing them at the dinner table with your parents and your pop pop.

a girl without a past is boring imo

Posted by Rockthenerds
Yea I'm a little surprised as to why op isn't asking how to deal with the fact that he pulled his out before sag...

hmmmmmmmmmm

It's the same with me and Libra. Any guy I find a nice easy going conversation with is a Libra. And they are such gentlemen, but it never works.

i wanna know what she does that boils your blood or you go hmmmm...shit to all the scorpios with saggis, what do we do that just absolutely makes you want to fall back

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Posted by thousandmph
Am I doomed?

Yes.

Yea actually I should have mentioned this before btw.

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Ugh. Thank god I have a Capricorn moon that shields me from such nonsense.

LOL! OMg...it wasn't even brilliantly brilliant or anything 😄

Something about SCorps over analyzing things 😛 Nothing to see, move along move along

Wow I remember you

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Posted by Sag89
Wow I remember you

and I you

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hahahaha

Omg that is totally a Scorpio trying to listen on the drama! LOL! Adorable!