Stalking Scorpios

I read on an astrology website that although Scorpios have the unfair stigma of being stalkers, quite the opposite is true. As a matter of fact, Scorpios are more likely to attract stalkers and unsavory characters in their lives. It went on to list the Scorpios who have been stalked by psycho paths, including:
Rebecca Schaeffer: An actress and model who was stalked and murdered by an obsessive Capricorn fan
Jodie Foster: An actress who was stalked by obsessive fan John Hinckley(a Gemini) who actually shot President Reagan to impress her. Jodie also currently has another stalker
Meg Ryan: Her stalker is now in prison for breaking into her home
Bjork: A singer whose stalker9an Aquariua) killed himself because he couldn't have her
Ivanka Trump: Her stalker was recently arressted and is determined to win her over
Why do people tend to become so infatuated with Scorpios?

do you also consider it "stalking" if you always check your ex's profile on any social networking site that you know he have? : $

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Posted by ezahria
do you also consider it "stalking" if you always check your ex's profile on any social networking site that you know he have? : $

No I don't consider that stalking.. just a little obsessive lol

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In most cases of stalking .. the one being stalked made it known to the other that there was interest, there was intention to pursue and the want of being pursued. The stalker normally only does so after the stalkee decides the interest isn't there and doesn't tell the stalker.

I've witnessed it myself with people .. the girl will lead him on, and then decide she isn't interested still lead him on.

There are real cases out there to be sure ... I'm only saying that the majority of cases aren't really stalking, and shouldn't be labeled as such. For all the women out there who cry rape simply because they fucked and then felt guilty about it .... makes it nearly impossible for the woman who really is to get authorities to take her seriously.




Have you seen Ivan Trump lately? Dude, seriously ... who would stalk That?

I have a girl at work who has several men interested in her .. and one guy has sat outside in his car looking at her through the window while she works (at register). She becomes upset when he does this because she thinks he stalks her.


Yet, she doesn't tell him that she isn't interested in him anylonger .. in fact, she still talks to him in texts, and on facebook. When I ask her why she gets upset because he watches her, she says because she isn't interested in him and has several other people she wants to try and see if there is an interest. When I ask her why she doesn't tell him that .... she says because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings, and what if these other men don't work out and she decides that the alledged stalker might be a better catch?



And she refers to him as a stalker.

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Posted by ezahria
do you also consider it "stalking" if you always check your ex's profile on any social networking site that you know he have? : $

No I don't consider that stalking.. just a little obsessive lol

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That depends on what the object of your affections feels for you. If she or him is in love with you; your constant "checking" is welcomed and considered sweet and caring, but if the person isn't interested..

Yes, it'd be considered stalking. Mate, I too have that urge to check out an ex girlfriend's social network site, but what for?

It doesn't serve any purpose - not the purpose that we secretly crave. The gal or the guy has probably got a new girlfriend/boyfriend, and we being Scorpios are deeply emotional creatures, jealous and covetous. I am not interested in knowing that some other guy is currently dating the woman whose heart once belonged to me.

That impulse to have her/him in your life will only lead to sorrow and suffering. By letting go of that, you let go of your own house of pain. I actively avoid any place my ex usually goes to and I blocked/banned/avoided every person we have as a friend in common. It sucks to cut those guys and gals, but the pain of seeing an ex girlfriend with some other guy is too much.

Posted by P-Angel
In most cases of stalking .. the one being stalked made it known to the other that there was interest, there was intention to pursue and the want of being pursued. The stalker normally only does so after the stalkee decides the interest isn't there and doesn't tell the stalker.

I've witnessed it myself with people .. the girl will lead him on, and then decide she isn't interested still lead him on.

There are real cases out there to be sure ... I'm only saying that the majority of cases aren't really stalking, and shouldn't be labeled as such. For all the women out there who cry rape simply because they fucked and then felt guilty about it .... makes it nearly impossible for the woman who really is to get authorities to take her seriously.




Have you seen Ivan Trump lately? Dude, seriously ... who would stalk That?

That's a case of attention - seeking, more commonly known as Histrionic personality disorder. Many human beings crave attention more than anything else. Many of them will lead a man or a woman on, lying to them, and creating situations in order to get more attention. Its fairly easy to see who suffers from this. Many females with this condition will dress "casually", flirt a lot with random men, and will put the man off as soon as he asks her out or flirts back.

The guy with this condition, that I've noticed, are more in line with sleeping with the woman/having a relationship with a woman(and many more) as way to get a constant source of attention.

Beautiful women and men seem to be more afflicted by this than the average man/woman. In my experience, at least.