Taking initiative with a scorpio

Hi, can anyone tell me if its going to be a bad idea to take initiative to start a conversation with a Scorpio? i took the initiative to add him on BBM we talked for a while before i went to sleep but he didn't talk to me the next day. and if i were to start a conversation again is it going to be bad?

No....? Think of it as being just friends. Would you mind if someone started talking to you twice? Its like... friendly?

you're overthinking. and what skykomish said

Nah I'm not overthinking im just really shy actually and I'm not the sort who would take initiative so even when i thought of doing so i don't really know where to start. Its just that this Scorpio is stuck onto my head ever since we first met and its making me very very nervous about starting a conversation.

err it wasn't a personal attack, it was an observation and you getting defensive means it's true. and you want to know if talking to him is going to end up bad? that's quite a negative way to look at it. i'm not knocking you for being shy, but that's gonna backfire on you.

sometimes people pick up on shyness and don't know how to react to you/it makes them uncomfortable, cos they have to do all the legwork. how about you act like you're talking to a friend, not someone you fancy and see how that goes

Posted by fallforyou23
Hi, can anyone tell me if its going to be a bad idea to take initiative to start a conversation with a Scorpio? i took the initiative to add him on BBM we talked for a while before i went to sleep but he didn't talk to me the next day. and if i were to start a conversation again is it going to be bad?

HAha. don't worry i don't see it as a personal attack 🙂 yeah i'll try and thanks a lot (:

lol cool, you're welcome 🙂

Thanks bluebetty Thats a good suggestion 🙂

yeah. Sure But that would be tomorrow. im not expecting much since im so much of a pessimist mainly because he didn't even ask for my contact after we first met and parted. I was the one taking initiative to add him on facebook and BBM 😢

Hi bluebetty, i started a conversation with him and it was short lived. It was fine at the beginning but his reply got shorter and shorter to the extent where the last reply he gave was just a " haha 🙂 " it seems like he's not even interested in having a conversation with me so i got the hint and stopped (: