Third date w a Scorp and I'm not feeling it

I'm a Cancer man. After the third date with a Scorpio I'm not feeling it. It's all about her. She doesn't seem really interested in whats inside of me and really doesn't reveal much about herself. She wants to keep going out but I don't know. Second and third date were with her friends which I don't mind but there has been very little alone time. I'm not the type to chase a woman for very long..........After 3 dates shouldn't there be a better understanding of where this might go? Maybe she just wants a good friend.

Hmm. I might bring friends once, but only if I was being uber cautious... Certainly not 2 out of 3 dates. I kind of let people tell me about themselves, it isn't exactly hard to just listen and let them talk.. I don't reveal much about myself unless I'm asked. So if you aren't the type that will open up either it might be slow going. Course I can usually tell by date 3 if I am into someone, (heck almost always by the end of date 1) and when I AM into you, you know it. I am very black and white and very blunt. Kinda weird she isn't making it clear, and even weirder she's bringing friends. Did you start out as friends and are just going out.. ie has this been made clear it's DATING not just hanging out with each other as friends?

Did not start out as friends. Dating has been the deal from the very start. It would be very difficult to believe she doesn't see where I want this relationship to go.

She is certainly putting me out in front of her friends to see what they think. I'm going to back off a little and see what happends......Hell, she may just like my company and not want to take it any further. We do have a good time when we are together but I'm looking for someone to love with everything I have............Thanks to all for your comments.

Posted by ellessque
why don't you ASK her instead of acting like a typical crab?

you are jumping to conclusions and this close >...

ellessque, very intuitive, I appreciate your comments. I really don't think she's wondering what my intentions are as I think I have expressed them in a very uncancer like fashion. However, you have certainly provoked me into thinking about this differently.