third person

-as a man
what do you do when you had/have feelings for a woman, but the woman is unavailable.
I'm sure some of you will try to move on and meet other woman, but can you let go that easily? If you think she might be the one?
Do you look for certain aspects of that person in other women? How do you guys cope with those feelings?

-as a woman
If you know the above about a man, but he is still courting you and you see a lot of potential in this man.
How do you deal with this fact.
Will you give it a try nevertheless in these modern times? Would you feel less?

-as a couple
When you feel you have the perfect man/woman and everything is going great, he/she is the one for you. You have build up a life together, but then,
as it often goes with love, his/her feelings have slightly faded and he/she starts to have feelings for someone else.
You know this, but he/she does not know you know this. If you tell him/her you know, it will mean the beginning of the end.
What would you do? Do you stay in your perfect little world, or do you face the fact that you might not be the one for your "one"?

Posted by kissmelove
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-as a woman
If you know the above about a man, but he is still courting you and you see a lot of potential in this man.
How do you deal with this fact.
Will you give it a try nevertheless in these modern times? Would you feel less?

-as a couple
When you feel you have the perfect man/woman and everything is going great, he/she is the one for you. You have build up a life together, but then,
as it often goes with love, his/her feelings have slightly faded and he/she starts to have feelings for someone else.
You know this, but he/she does not know you know this. If you tell him/her you know, it will mean the beginning of the end.
What would you do? Do you stay in your perfect little world, or do you face the fact that you might not be the one for your "one"?

I think most committed long-term couples go through ups and downs, periods of disenchantment, etc. When that happens, the grass might look greener elsewhere. BUT if the couple truly love each other and value their committment, chances are good they'll work through it and emerge relatively unscathed.

Posted by CreoleGeisha

I think most committed long-term couples go through ups and downs, periods of disenchantment, etc. When that happens, the grass might look greener elsewhere. BUT if the couple truly love each other and value their committment, chances are good they'll work through it and emerge relatively unscathed.

Thank you for your reaction 🙂
another question: as a scorpio, you know/think your feelings and commitment are a bit intenser, say 200% . How do you deal with them being less than that? Is it still worth it?

Personally i am pretty extreme, it's mostly all or nothing for me, and when those scary grey areas in between arise, especially in love.. they mostly mean the beginning of the end.. atleast for me.

Posted by kissmelove

Posted by CreoleGeisha

I think most committed long-term couples go through ups and downs, periods of disenchantment, etc. When that happens, the grass might look greener elsewhere. BUT if the couple truly love each other and value their committment, chances are good they'll work through it and emerge relatively unscathed.

Thank you for your reaction 🙂
another question: as a scorpio, you know/think your feelings and commitment are a bit intenser, say 200% . How do you deal with them being less than that? Is it still worth it?

Personally i am pretty extreme, it's mostly all or nothing for me, and when those scary grey areas in between arise, especially in love.. they mostly mean the beginning of the end.. atleast for me.

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1) I'm a Libra Sun with VIII House Venus in Scorpio, which means I love like a Scorpio? I'm fiercely monogamous and devoted to one love interest AND it takes me FOREVER to select a love interest.

2) Speaking from the heart...No, I don't think I'd remain in a relationship with someone I KNEW did not love me OR loved another person more than me. If I found myself experiencing strong feelings for another person outside my relationship, the relationship is probably already "finished" and we haven't officially ended it.

However, even feeling that way, I wouldn't cheat on a significant other. I'd end the relationship and move forward. The other person may OR MAY NOT have a place in my future.

Posted by kissmelove
-as a man
what do you do when you had/have feelings for a woman, but the woman is unavailable.
I'm sure some of you will try to move on and meet other woman, but can you let go that easily? If you think she might be the one?
Do you look for certain aspects of that person in other women? How do you guys cope with those feelings?

-as a woman
If you know the above about a man, but he is still courting you and you see a lot of potential in this man.
How do you deal with this fact.
Will you give it a try nevertheless in these modern times? Would you feel less?

-as a couple
When you feel you have the perfect man/woman and everything is going great, he/she is the one for you. You have build up a life together, but then,
as it often goes with love, his/her feelings have slightly faded and he/she starts to have feelings for someone else.
You know this, but he/she does not know you know this. If you tell him/her you know, it will mean the beginning of the end.
What would you do? Do you stay in your perfect little world, or do you face the fact that you might not be the one for your "one"?

Who are you workin' for?

^ thank you for your "reaction".

Posted by MrFirebird
^ thank you for your "reaction".

lol i'm sorry, i meant "response"
(english is not my native language)