@SunTauVenGem
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Venus Scorpio goes like this .
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. So does he have no feelings towards me whatsoever? Is it really just the sex? On the message he said it was just sex coz his feelings are reserved.. Then he told me to my face he missed me.. I mean really? I told him I will take him or our relationship very casual from now on . Am I doing this right ?
I don't know which of you is the Scorpio in Venus. I will say this though..STOP! Let the guy think without pushing him into a corner. Let him come around on his terms, not yours. Relax.
Scorp venus has nothing to do with this.
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. So does he have no feelings towards me whatsoever? Is it really just the sex? On the message he said it was just sex coz his feelings are reserved.. Then he told me to my face he missed me.. I mean really? I told him I will take him or our relationship very casual from now on . Am I doing this right ?
From what I've read, the physical aspect of the relationship can be primary for this placement, so maybe he doesn't distinguish all that much between missing you and missing the sex.
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. So does he have no feelings towards me whatsoever? Is it really just the sex? On the message he said it was just sex coz his feelings are reserved.. Then he told me to my face he missed me.. I mean really? I told him I will take him or our relationship very casual from now on . Am I doing this right ?
It might be a mixture of both - he misses the sex and also your presence.
Is this the Sag?
Then he probably missed the sex.
Posted by Impulsv
So now u put urself in the casual sex?
Scorp venus sex n emotions intermingle. I'd respond the same to keep it playful n mysterious with a smile. I think u added into it more than it needed to be.
Agree.
*scorp venus*
Posted by LetltB
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. So does he have no feelings towards me whatsoever? Is it really just the sex? On the message he said it was just sex coz his feelings are reserved.. Then he told me to my face he missed me.. I mean really? I told him I will take him or our relationship very casual from now on . Am I doing this right ?
I don't know which of you is the Scorpio in Venus. I will say this though..STOP! Let the guy think without pushing him into a corner. Let him come around on his terms, not yours. Relax.
Scorp venus has nothing to do with this.
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Judging from her name, it seems her Venus is Gemini. 😛
lol munchkin 😄
I think you killed the mood a little bit. It sounds like he just returned from the Peace Corps or something. If so, just welcome him back and save serious discussions for a more suitable time. Until then, assume casual intentions.
Mine is venus in Gemini. His venus in Scorpio . Yeb he is back . I have welcomed him back as best friends and sex as well . Actually it's more the Scorpio in Venus passionate kisses I'm addicted too . I did killed the mood. I couldn't help myself as he said it was just sex on the " message" which clearly wasn't. He trusted me etc as per previous post and he's changed so much since he's met me in a very very great way. I have been an amazing influence in his life. He posted songs which according to him were not feelings. They were inspiration. So I said fine I will make sure to be casual about it all . He told be by message he's not over his ex and if he chooses to move on he will always loved her. In saying that I am also not over my ex and he knows that too . I don't know if this is a trap or to test how much I am into him. He makes me very happy and I miss his company. Clearly not the sex only . We were exclusive but now clearly we are not . I am not closing any door since he's not looking for a relationship now. So that's fine with me as long as I know he's not testing my loyalty in the process coz clearly I'm not loyal now. ?? When I was serious and wanted a relationship he freaked out n stopped seeing me all together . Now I said ok , we will just see each other casually. Nothing serious so he's back saying he misses me. This is why I'm confused .
Posted by LetltB
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. So does he have no feelings towards me whatsoever? Is it really just the sex? On the message he said it was just sex coz his feelings are reserved.. Then he told me to my face he missed me.. I mean really? I told him I will take him or our relationship very casual from now on . Am I doing this right ?
I don't know which of you is the Scorpio in Venus. I will say this though..STOP! Let the guy think without pushing him into a corner. Let him come around on his terms, not yours. Relax.
Scorp venus has nothing to do with this.
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His is venus in Scorpio . Stop what ? Questioning things —
Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. So does he have no feelings towards me whatsoever? Is it really just the sex? On the message he said it was just sex coz his feelings are reserved.. Then he told me to my face he missed me.. I mean really? I told him I will take him or our relationship very casual from now on . Am I doing this right ?
From what I've read, the physical aspect of the relationship can be primary for this placement, so maybe he doesn't distinguish all that much between missing you and missing the sex.
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Our placements are great. His sun in sag, my moon in Aquarius. My sun in Taurus his moon in Capricorn . My venus in Gemini . His venus in Scorpio . He just gets me you know !!!🙂 hello ! Been a long time !!!
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me.
Why even ask this?
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I couldn't help but question his words !!! My moon in aqua just came bursting out ...
Posted by Wynter
Is this the Sag?Then he probably missed the sex.
It is the sag . Yeah but he said it after we had sex so it's not like he said it to have sex lol.
Posted by munchkin
I think you killed the mood a little bit. It sounds like he just returned from the Peace Corps or something. If so, just welcome him back and save serious discussions for a more suitable time. Until then, assume casual intentions.
Very wise. Yeb that's what I'm doing now . Casual . No more serious discussion .!!😉 thank you !
Big pat maybe? It's from his action I'm seeing . 4 months ago he was drinking heaps . No savings. Spent money in you know drugs. 1 month into our exclusive period he quit them all together. Suffered a lot. I was there for him . I'm the complete opposite. I have seen him changed. This is why he posted song about " being in love with a girl who has changed him so much and he's ready to settle down with her when he wasn't before " his songs were always about me . One day I competed my dancing and we chatted then he posted " she's independent. She's got her own thing that's why I love her blabla" it's been about me then he said they are not real feelings about me they are inspiration !!! Now he's moving out from where he's lived for over 5 years. Changed everything . Saving up etc. He's told me things he's never told anyone before coz for some reason he just trusted me n he doesn't trust many ppl. He told me these. ....
Someone commented on my post before that I was a positive influence to his life which I agreed...
Posted by tiziani
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Mine is venus in Gemini. His venus in Scorpio . Yeb he is back . I have welcomed him back as best friends and sex as well . Actually it's more the Scorpio in Venus passionate kisses I'm addicted too . I did killed the mood. I couldn't help myself as he said it was just sex on the " message" which clearly wasn't. He trusted me etc as per previous post and he's changed so much since he's met me in a very very great way. I have been an amazing influence in his life. He posted songs which according to him were not feelings. They were inspiration. So I said fine I will make sure to be casual about it all . He told be by message he's not over his ex and if he chooses to move on he will always loved her. In saying that I am also not over my ex and he knows that too . I don't know if this is a trap or to test how much I am into him. He makes me very happy and I miss his company. Clearly not the sex only . We were exclusive but now clearly we are not . I am not closing any door since he's not looking for a relationship now. So that's fine with me as long as I know he's not testing my loyalty in the process coz clearly I'm not loyal now. ?? When I was serious and wanted a relationship he freaked out n stopped seeing me all together . Now I said ok , we will just see each other casually. Nothing serious so he's back saying he misses me. This is why I'm confused .
Did he say this or are you giving yourself a massive pat on the back here?
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Yeah.
I felt my brow involuntarily arching at that comment, too.
I think I said this before..you are addicted to creating fantasies.
You need to wake up.
That whole..dialogue seems very contrived.
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. Am I doing this right ?
You're fishing for a reaction. He senses that and will be as vague as he possibly can.
It's a tricky slope.
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. So does he have no feelings towards me whatsoever? Is it really just the sex? On the message he said it was just sex coz his feelings are reserved.. Then he told me to my face he missed me.. I mean really? I told him I will take him or our relationship very casual from now on . Am I doing this right ?
No. From the passive fishing for a commitment to the assumptions you're making because you can't read him. Slow down.
Btw, why did you ask here:
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me.click to expand
Posted by tiziani
This is why the past should stay the past. You want to let someone know you missed them then out of nowhere it turns into some long-winded conversation down memory lane and turns out all is not forgiven.
I'm not sure that is always true, but I see why you posted this.
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me.
Why even ask this?
I couldn't help but question his words !!! My moon in aqua just came bursting out ...click to expand
Okay asked and (not really) answered.
Posted by tiziani
This is why the past should stay the past. You want to let someone know you missed them then out of nowhere it turns into some long-winded conversation down memory lane and turns out all is not forgiven.
Hey Tizi,
you have any kids of your own?
Lol...girl.
Let me tell you this... with venus in scorpio, sex is very important, this is true. Personally, it's so important to me that I would never just go out and have sexual relations with anybody... The furnace might get overwhelmingly hot but it's controllable... LOL. I am kind of glad that I have this control, or I would have been emotionally scarred a while ago.
Because yes, sex and emotions go hand in hand. It's a physical, emotional and spiritual thing.
I believe he misses you, it could be possible he wants casual sex, but yes, a part of him likes you, I am SURE of that.
Posted by heartlocket
Lol...girl.Let me tell you this... with venus in scorpio, sex is very important, this is true. Personally, it's so important to me that I would never just go out and have sexual relations with anybody... The furnace might get overwhelmingly hot but it's controllable... LOL. I am kind of glad that I have this control, or I would have been emotionally scarred a while ago.
Because yes, sex and emotions go hand in hand. It's a physical, emotional and spiritual thing.
I believe he misses you, it could be possible he wants casual sex, but yes, a part of him likes you, I am SURE of that.
He told me he likes me a lot. ( he said) At the start he said " when there's a chemistry.. All you need is timing but timing is a bitch... So hence we were kind of on n off n on n off.. ( still exclusive) he said he's not someone who would go n have sex with anybody while doing it with someone. The majority of the time is spent doing the kissing anyway....but thank you I hope so too.
Posted by PhoenixRising
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. So does he have no feelings towards me whatsoever? Is it really just the sex? On the message he said it was just sex coz his feelings are reserved.. Then he told me to my face he missed me.. I mean really? I told him I will take him or our relationship very casual from now on . Am I doing this right ?
No. From the passive fishing for a commitment to the assumptions you're making because you can't read him. Slow down.
Btw, why did you ask here:
Posted by SunTauVenGem
Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me.
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You are right. I wanted to know his feelings by asking questions cause I was confused by his actions.. Words.. Face to face and non face to face. They don't match up . At the start I said I could read him now I can't. You warned me before. " should have known" sigh ***
Posted by jeannegrey
misses you! duh! but i agree with tiziani.
Why are you so sure? Sex with a venus in Scorpio is so passionate that I think he could have easily missed the sex that comes with all the other passionate activities that come from my presence...N that's that..without any intention of wanting any serious commitment. if that make any sense ...
So what now do I see other ppl while have this " relationship" with him ? Or am I meant to stay true while we are doing stuff. lol I am going to pass on the answer to my venus ...
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Him : I was excited to see you. I have not seen you in ages.. Me: really were you? I was excited to. Him : I missed you .. I missed all these . Me: do you miss the sex or do you actually miss me . Him : smiled then no response. So does he have no feelings towards me whatsoever? Is it really just the sex? On the message he said it was just sex coz his feelings are reserved.. Then he told me to my face he missed me.. I mean really? I told him I will take him or our relationship very casual from now on . Am I doing this right ?