Ok Scorpios...help me out. Aquarian woman here. I work with a Scorpio man. I don't really understand our dynamic. Several months ago he started a very odd flirtation with me completely and totally out of the blue. He started texting me frequently and at one point texted me lyrics to a song about wishing I was there with him. I was really confused. I laughed it off basically. We had only been friends...and honestly I knew he had a girlfriend. I kept my distance. (I am an aloof aquarian after all and don't typically show my hand) He would never talk about his girlfriend to me. He was very secretive. All I knew was that there was a significant age gap with them and he was kinda miserable in the relationship. Going so far as to say once he was ready for kids they planned to go their separate ways. He is always way too interested in every aspect about my life but rarely shares anything about himself. He is always insinuating my relationship status and honestly acts jealous with other coworkers that show me attention. He even called me up to ask my opinion on an important career change because according to him I am one of the only people he trusts. He says that's big for him. Well I did a bit of drinking one night at a party and let it slip I had a little crush on him, but that I knew his situation and just walked away without letting him respond because He looked genuinely confused. He did ask me for a hug before he left the party but I figured it was out of just politeness. Well I have gone out of my way to avoid him now for a month or so. (He actually called me out on my behavior saying I stopped coming around and asked why since we work out of different offices) and I just chalked it up to being busy. Now he's leaving the company. He has about a week left. He's calling and texting a lot now and asking my opinion on everything from how to put in his notice to what my favorite food is for HIS going away lunch. Today he found every possible reason he could to nudge me or touch me or playfully tease me about something. I told him this may be the last time I saw him and was prepared to say goodbye, but now he wants to do a going away happy hour Friday. When I left the office he called me on my drive home to talk more about work stuff. Is this normal Scorpio behavior? Is this just normal friendship to Scorpios? I've told him I don't understand him and he just says he's really awkward. Why is this so weird? Soon enough he'll be gone and it'll be done, I just need some some insight. I'm completely baffled. Is he just a really weird friend?
weird Aquarius/Scorpio situation

Attention all Scorpio men: stay away from Aquarius women .....They are not for us......My baby mother is a Aqua....FAWKKK she's annoying....Sorry for derailing your thread Ms. 77 lol but I cant take all these Aqua/scorp threads that are popping up....
Posted by 13thsomeone is playing tricks up in dxp land. *smh*
Attention all Scorpio men: stay away from Aquarius women .....They are not for us......My baby mother is a Aqua....FAWKKK she's annoying....Sorry for derailing your thread Ms. 77 lol but I cant take all these Aqua/scorp threads that are popping up....
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Posted by lisabethur8Posted by 13thsomeone is playing tricks up in dxp land. *smh*
Attention all Scorpio men: stay away from Aquarius women .....They are not for us......My baby mother is a Aqua....FAWKKK she's annoying....Sorry for derailing your thread Ms. 77 lol but I cant take all these Aqua/scorp threads that are popping up....
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Its true Lisa.....aquas arent for us, at all...it never works out......My childs mother, she might be the most annoying person walking this earth lol but I try to keep it cordial for the sake of the baby, but man......smh
Posted by 13thfor SOME.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by 13thsomeone is playing tricks up in dxp land. *smh*
Attention all Scorpio men: stay away from Aquarius women .....They are not for us......My baby mother is a Aqua....FAWKKK she's annoying....Sorry for derailing your thread Ms. 77 lol but I cant take all these Aqua/scorp threads that are popping up....
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Its true Lisa.....aquas arent for us, at all...it never works out......My childs mother, she might be the most annoying person walking this earth lol but I try to keep it cordial for the sake of the baby, but man......smhclick to expand
but maybe not for you.
my husband LOVES me. and I LOVE him lots.
too bad for you though.

Posted by lisabethur8Posted by 13thfor SOME.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by 13thsomeone is playing tricks up in dxp land. *smh*
Attention all Scorpio men: stay away from Aquarius women .....They are not for us......My baby mother is a Aqua....FAWKKK she's annoying....Sorry for derailing your thread Ms. 77 lol but I cant take all these Aqua/scorp threads that are popping up....
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Its true Lisa.....aquas arent for us, at all...it never works out......My childs mother, she might be the most annoying person walking this earth lol but I try to keep it cordial for the sake of the baby, but man......smh
but maybe not for you.
my husband LOVES me. and I LOVE him lots.
too bad for you though.
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See, right there, "too bad for you though"..taking pleasure in my pain...u a aqua? well good for you and your fawkin husband
Posted by 13thPosted by lisabethur8Posted by 13thfor SOME.Posted by lisabethur8Posted by 13thsomeone is playing tricks up in dxp land. *smh*
Attention all Scorpio men: stay away from Aquarius women .....They are not for us......My baby mother is a Aqua....FAWKKK she's annoying....Sorry for derailing your thread Ms. 77 lol but I cant take all these Aqua/scorp threads that are popping up....
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Its true Lisa.....aquas arent for us, at all...it never works out......My childs mother, she might be the most annoying person walking this earth lol but I try to keep it cordial for the sake of the baby, but man......smh
but maybe not for you.
my husband LOVES me. and I LOVE him lots.
too bad for you though.
See, right there, "too bad for you though"..taking pleasure in my pain...u a aqua? well good for you and your fawkin husbandclick to expand
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let's also ask Alyssa Sharpe.
OP, if he ain't chasing you down..... well, you got your answer.

Posted by 13thIts not always about sun signs, tsk tsk.
Attention all Scorpio men: stay away from Aquarius women .....They are not for us......My baby mother is a Aqua....FAWKKK she's annoying....Sorry for derailing your thread Ms. 77 lol but I cant take all these Aqua/scorp threads that are popping up....
For Aqua77, don't be that other woman, be brutally honest. He's sending those "I wanna make you sweat vibes", so ask him straight out if that's what he's angling for. You would think as a woman I would be the coy one but no, that honor goes to my Scorpie, the sly little minx. IF your Scorp is interested in you romantically, decide if thats what YOU want, and if yes, tell him straight up nothing is going to budge until he's single.

Posted by GenniePosted by 13thIts not always about sun signs, tsk tsk.
Attention all Scorpio men: stay away from Aquarius women .....They are not for us......My baby mother is a Aqua....FAWKKK she's annoying....Sorry for derailing your thread Ms. 77 lol but I cant take all these Aqua/scorp threads that are popping up....
For Aqua77, don't be that other woman, be brutally honest. He's sending those "I wanna make you sweat vibes", so ask him straight out if that's what he's angling for. You would think as a woman I would be the coy one but no, that honor goes to my Scorpie, the sly little minx. IF your Scorp is interested in you romantically, decide if thats what YOU want, and if yes, tell him straight up nothing is going to budge until he's single.click to expand
are you sure? lol of course there are always exceptions like LISA AND HER HUSBAND *sarcasm* but man, this pairing is very odd

Posted by 13thIt's not that odd, Scorpio and Aquas are "through the looking glass" partners. Antiscia points, you see it in Leo/Taurus pairings but I see it the most in Aries Males with Virgo women.Posted by GenniePosted by 13thIts not always about sun signs, tsk tsk.
Attention all Scorpio men: stay away from Aquarius women .....They are not for us......My baby mother is a Aqua....FAWKKK she's annoying....Sorry for derailing your thread Ms. 77 lol but I cant take all these Aqua/scorp threads that are popping up....
For Aqua77, don't be that other woman, be brutally honest. He's sending those "I wanna make you sweat vibes", so ask him straight out if that's what he's angling for. You would think as a woman I would be the coy one but no, that honor goes to my Scorpie, the sly little minx. IF your Scorp is interested in you romantically, decide if thats what YOU want, and if yes, tell him straight up nothing is going to budge until he's single.
are you sure? lol of course there are always exceptions like LISA AND HER HUSBAND *sarcasm* but man, this pairing is very oddclick to expand
Of course compatible moons/mars/venus/Merc are a must. And the Scorpio and I are Gem to Aqua Moon, Scorpio to Aqua Venus, Scorpio to Cancer Mars, Libra to Aqua Merc. So 3 out of 4 aint bad.

Scorpio likes to flirt. And now that he's leaving, and knows that you have a crush on him, he's playing with your emotions for fun. It wont affect his relationship because he will never see you again after Friday.
Just my opinion from personal knowledge.
Just my opinion from personal knowledge.
Thanks for the input all. To address the pairing issue...I have heard it's not good but of course there are exceptions true. I can't get past the girlfriend part (that's a no brainer) so I kinda feel he's just trying to get attention. All the way up to the last minute. It's weird and I'm not entirely sure this would have been a good match anyway. I was just curious as to if this was normal Scorpio behavior, like if they tend to not be too open with how they feel. He probably is looking at it as a challenge to get my attention since I withdraw it so easily. Ahhh. Well. He's pretty much gone anyway. My aqua nature is coming out and I'm looking to retreat further honestly. It really doesn't matter since the girlfriend issue is most important. Thanks for the input everyone!
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