What do you say to a Scorpio when...

What do you say to a Scorpio when they're back from taking time off/rejuvenating? Do you act normal? Do you ask them about it? Do you ignore them as they did?

Don't 'act' anything but 'be' normal. If I have so much emotional turmoil I have to vacate for awhile, when I come back, I feel all awkward because the people who are there might be angry with me. Then I end up not even coming back for longer because of that, sometimes, or I used to more before I learned to overcome that. So just be your totally normal self, which means if you're wondering if something was wrong, ask it, but try not to be too overly accusing due to emotional turmoil being the likely culprit for scorp to have left in the first place.

"Hey, it's been awhile. Everything alright?"

You might not get a straight answer, sadly, but you'll get what he/she feels comfortable with and he/she is likely ready to resume whatever is normal for the both of you.

Never 'ignore back' because unfortunately, the darker parts of each sign (the annoying tendencies we all put out) is exactly the thing we can't take back from our friends. Ironic, right? Aries don't like to be told what to do. A Taurus cannot be out-stubbornned. Gemini expect you to be stable since their dual-nature is not. Cancer can't take your bristly exterior. Leo doesn't like another spotlight in the room. Virgo can't take your criticizing. Libra wants you to take a stand somewhere so they don't have to, but they also want you to bend so they can take a stand. Scorpio won't tolerate your attempted stings (the sad truth is that what most interpret as stings, to our friends Scorpio is usually not attempting to sting at all and yet it can come across this way by accident, so just think of revenge for the accidental as kind of illogical here). Sagittarius doesn't want you cheating on them. Capricorn expects you to be soft so they can be hard. Aquarius doesn't care what you do so long as you support the bigger cause. And Pisces can't handle your disloyalty, though greener pastures come often in their own daydreams.

Just be yourself. He may be able to feel you out if you try to act a certain way.

I'm a Taurus but I'm close to a Scorpio who tends to isolate himself at times.
He'll give me a heads up that he's not in the best place and I just tell him that I understand and that we can talk when he's ready. He never actually disappears. Just doesn't say as much.

I don't pry or ask for details. I do the same on occasion as well, so it's a mutual understanding. I don't like being bothered or expected to share what's on my mind and I sure as hell won't do the same with him. We'll do a simple, "I hope you are feeling better" and act normal aside from that. We often end up opening up and telling each other more details later after it's been dealt with.

Great question, because I wonder the same. However, I'm wondering if some responses would depend on what you were trying to get out of it. For example, are you trying to teach the person a lesson or are you trying to keep things calm?

anh, I'm surrounded by Scorpios. Just be normal, if they want to talk about it, they will bring it up themselves eventually. Only, if you notice they're still a bit riled up, you might want to be normal, on the opposite side of the room till everything calms down.

Posted by MizzElle
What do you say to a Scorpio when they're back from taking time off/rejuvenating? Do you act normal? Do you ask them about it? Do you ignore them as they did?

Keep things calm. I care about this guy, but I don't want to be a push over either. I have Scorpio rising, and I can be that way too, but my moon is in Libra so I also crave the romatism and closeness.

Sorry I'm new to this so I haven't got the hang of it yet...the above reply was for @DeathbyScorpio

lol @Gemi9

Maybe you all can read my previous post "My Scorpio neighbor" share your opinion? 🙂 I'd greatly appreciate it 🙂

By the way, he came back from being "quiet" apologizing and saying that he wasn't ignoring me, that he's just very sick. Which he is.