scorpiomoon5269
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What should I do with this Scorpio guy?
So you sent him a nude that you didn't feel ready to because it upset him, when you explained that you weren't ready to do that? Why wasn't he upset that he asked you something that made you feel uncomfortable and then misunderstood your meaning?? I'm just saying this reads RED FLAG to me!
Yeah he was. I mean I felt horrible when he got kind of angry at me so I told him I felt like he was using me only for sex but then he told me he wouldn't choose me only for sex since I'm 5 years younger and he's hat lots of experience (and he doesn't hit on girls my age normally) and that he really felt uncomfortable being with me and it made sense to me since he normally really respects girls. And when he said that he got really pissed so I apologized to him and then he seemed sad and told me there is nothing to apologize from your side since it was my mistake and then logged off.
But he told me we'd talk face to face about it and that it was more complicated than that.....
Just chalk it up to lesson learned and move on from this guy.
So I shouldn't attempt to talk to him once again?
No, ignore and move on - make him work for you, trust me if he wants you, he'll come for you and if he does, I would seriously think twice before going down that road with him...........
Posted by scorpiomoon5269
I met this guy through some mutual friends 3 weeks ago. We had a lot of fun together and started talking immediately. It was obvious there was mutual attraction. The next day he decided to text me on Facebook and we started talking. It was kind of awkward since it's not like we had a lot to talk about. He complemented me for being smart and witty. I saw him again the next weekend. Then he told me he actually feels something for me because I was pretty and I had an awesome body and I had my priorities straight. Then we started sexting the next day but then he asked me for nudes and it was too early for me to do that so I told him I needed time for that which he understood as if I needed time away from him so he was like ok go get your time I won't bother you and logged off when I tried to explain things weren't like that. The next day everything was ok again but no sexting. However I did send him the nude he asked for last night just because I felt bad I upset him. The following day he got sick so, since we didn't have much to talk about I kept giving him advice to get better. Then, on Wednesday, we were texting again and somehow I brought up a topic about hair and ended up complimenting his hair. Then he asked me what I didn't like about him. When I asked him the same he told me he didn't like I was obsessed with him because it was too early, which I am not. He told me I liked him for the wrong reasons because I only mentioned physical stuff and that he was scared of the age gap since I'm 5 years younger than him which made him uncomfortable. Then told me were going to talk face to face about it on Saturday. He didn't text me since that day and on Friday and Saturday when we were with out friends he acted as if nothing had happened between us and even smiled. But he didn't text me or call me to meet up privately on Saturday and I've still heard nothing of him. What should I do? Should I just forget about him or try to talk to him once again? Or any other advice?
So there is a chance he might come back if I ignore him?...I don't feel that strongly for him I'm just obsessed since he seemed waaayy too into me in the beginning until that last moment that's why.
Posted by scorpiomoon5269
Then he told me he actually feels something for me because I was pretty and I had an awesome body and I had my priorities straight. Then we started sexting the next day but then he asked me for nudes and it was too early for me to do that so I told him I needed time for that which he understood as if I needed time away from him so he was like ok go get your time I won't bother you and logged off ... I tried to explain things weren't like that. The next day everything was ok again but no sexting. However I did send him the nude he asked for last night just because I felt bad I upset him. .
Posted by scorpiomoon5269Well do you usually send nudes to men you've met only a few days earlier? That is what he meant. Not only did you compromise yourself, you apologized when he treated you like crap for sort of standing up for yourself.
...he told me he didn't like I was obsessed with him because it was too early.
You do it again here:
Posted by scorpiomoon5269I'm not sure how you can not see that this man is manipulating you. Smh. Cut your loses and move on. Trust, he has.
Yeah he was. I mean I felt horrible when he got kind of angry at me so I told him I felt like he was using me only for sex but then he told ....blah blah blah he re really respects girls. Blah blah blah And when he said that he got really pissed so I apologized to him and then he seemed sad and told me there is nothing to apologize from your side since it was my mistake and then logged off.click to expand
Posted by FrostedEllyI agree with you - I think its that she said no and then said yes to the pic essentially........ Scorpios like a little fire in their women - because they know they can run right over you - or I should say the ones I know do.
I also wanna say, I don't think it was sex or the nude picture that made the scorp back up. I think it's what PR said.
She backtracked on her boundary, Scorpio saw she didn't reinforce it and that's why he lost respect.
A Scorpio could fuck you on the first date or even before a first date, but still want something deeper with you if you capture their respect. They're one of the few signs I believe (as a general rule) doesn't get caught up in rules of when to have sex and it correlated to the value of a woman or person.
Posted by exxtasyxI often see this written on the board and it give a false impression of how respect works with most Scorps. Time has absolutely nothing to do with whether or not I will respect you. Not even a factor.
Girl you gave too much away too soon.
Take things slow with Scorpio's or they lose respect for you.
The nude pic was a bad idea.
Posted by FrostedEllyYup.
I also wanna say, I don't think it was sex or the nude picture that made the scorp back up. I think it's what PR said.
She backtracked on her boundary, Scorpio saw she didn't reinforce it and that's why he lost respect.
A Scorpio could fuck you on the first date or even before a first date, but still want something deeper with you if you capture their respect. They're one of the few signs I believe (as a general rule) doesn't get caught up in rules of when to have sex and it correlated to the value of a woman or person.
Posted by FrostedEllyInstant turn on. *insert Rabbit's nip pic*Posted by TaurusinTexasYeah totally. All the male and female scorps I know are like that. At some point they've all told a story of how they were instantly more attracted to someone when the person stood their ground in the relationship.Posted by FrostedEllyI agree with you - I think its that she said no and then said yes to the pic essentially........ Scorpios like a little fire in their women - because they know they can run right over you - or I should say the ones I know do.
I also wanna say, I don't think it was sex or the nude picture that made the scorp back up. I think it's what PR said.
She backtracked on her boundary, Scorpio saw she didn't reinforce it and that's why he lost respect.
A Scorpio could fuck you on the first date or even before a first date, but still want something deeper with you if you capture their respect. They're one of the few signs I believe (as a general rule) doesn't get caught up in rules of when to have sex and it correlated to the value of a woman or person.
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Posted by FrostedEllyPosted by ElleDuMondeIs that your totally politically correct way of saying Scorpio tests. 😆
agreed.
when someone says something and then does something else......trust warnings go off in my head.
I'll even poke you a bit to see what happens.
wiggly back bones are not attractive.click to expand
Holy shittt so many replies xp
Btw I forgot to mention he's a really sarcastic person and once he was joking with me but he included no emojis in the texts so I thought he was serious so I got angry and I told him that if he was serious he should've stopped talking to me and he was like sure then and I told him I meant what I said and he was like you were 100% serious? And I said my seriousness depends on yours and he told me he wasn't serious it was just some sort of a natural way of speaking.
Then on Saturday a friend of mine had an argument with him (we were all together) and the scorpio told him "dude it's just my way of speaking. you people should try and get used to it cuz all week i've been explaining people if i was serious or not. it's just the way i talk don't take it personally i talk like that to my family too" and i was there when he said it and i caught that it was for me cuz he starred at me sideways....that probably caused some soort of a problem too right?
Posted by ElleDuMondeI'm in my late teens while he's in his early twenties so yeah age does matter a little bit right now.
@scorpiomoon5269
how old are you? exact numbers don't matter...just decade is fine....teens, twenties, thirties.....etc.
Btw I forgot to mention he's a really sarcastic person and once he was joking with me but he included no emojis in the texts so I thought he was serious so I got angry and I told him that if he was serious he should've stopped talking to me and he was like sure then and I told him I meant what I said and he was like you were 100% serious? And I said my seriousness depends on yours and he told me he wasn't serious it was just some sort of a natural way of speaking.
Then on Saturday a friend of mine had an argument with him (we were all together) and the scorpio told him "dude it's just my way of speaking. you people should try and get used to it cuz all week i've been explaining people if i was serious or not. it's just the way i talk don't take it personally i talk like that to my family too" and i was there when he said it and i caught that it was for me cuz he starred at me sideways....that probably caused some soort of a problem too right?
Posted by ElleDuMondeno problem xp
oops. my bad. thought this was my thread! I'll move it!
Posted by ElleDuMondeWe don't live in the states so it's not that big of a deal in out country but he still mentioned he was uncomfortable cause I was younger. Yeah I thought it was a sort of misunderstanding too and we were supposed to talk privately 3 days ago but he didn't text me or call me and I felt like I'd be bothering him if I initiated it so I didn't call him either....you think I should reach to him once though or just wait if he'll do something?Posted by scorpiomoon5269well, if you are under 18 and sending photos.....then you both could be in a world of trouble (if you live in the states). But that's not the topic.....just take care with that.
Holy shittt so many replies xp
Posted by ElleDuMondeI'm in my late teens while he's in his early twenties so yeah age does matter a little bit right now.
@scorpiomoon5269
how old are you? exact numbers don't matter...just decade is fine....teens, twenties, thirties.....etc.
Btw I forgot to mention he's a really sarcastic person and once he was joking with me but he included no emojis in the texts so I thought he was serious so I got angry and I told him that if he was serious he should've stopped talking to me and he was like sure then and I told him I meant what I said and he was like you were 100% serious? And I said my seriousness depends on yours and he told me he wasn't serious it was just some sort of a natural way of speaking.
Then on Saturday a friend of mine had an argument with him (we were all together) and the scorpio told him "dude it's just my way of speaking. you people should try and get used to it cuz all week i've been explaining people if i was serious or not. it's just the way i talk don't take it personally i talk like that to my family too" and i was there when he said it and i caught that it was for me cuz he starred at me sideways....that probably caused some soort of a problem too right?
Sounds like some serious miscommunication.
Maybe have a conversation with him face to face.....not on a screen and without friends to but in?click to expand
Posted by scorpiomoon5269But hes perfectly comfy asking for nude pics.
Yeah he was. I mean I felt horrible when he got kind of angry at me so I told him I felt like he was using me only for sex but then he told me he wouldn't choose me only for sex since I'm 5 years younger and he's hat lots of experience (and he doesn't hit on girls my age normally) and that he really felt uncomfortable being with me and it made sense to me since he normally really respects girls. And when he said that he got really pissed so I apologized to him and then he seemed sad and told me there is nothing to apologize from your side since it was my mistake and then logged off.
lol
Posted by ElleDuMondeNot just the states.Posted by scorpiomoon5269well, if you are under 18 and sending photos.....then you both could be in a world of trouble (if you live in the states). But that's not the topic.....just take care with that.
Holy shittt so many replies xp
Posted by ElleDuMondeI'm in my late teens while he's in his early twenties so yeah age does matter a little bit right now.
@scorpiomoon5269
how old are you? exact numbers don't matter...just decade is fine....teens, twenties, thirties.....etc.
Btw I forgot to mention he's a really sarcastic person and once he was joking with me but he included no emojis in the texts so I thought he was serious so I got angry and I told him that if he was serious he should've stopped talking to me and he was like sure then and I told him I meant what I said and he was like you were 100% serious? And I said my seriousness depends on yours and he told me he wasn't serious it was just some sort of a natural way of speaking.
Then on Saturday a friend of mine had an argument with him (we were all together) and the scorpio told him "dude it's just my way of speaking. you people should try and get used to it cuz all week i've been explaining people if i was serious or not. it's just the way i talk don't take it personally i talk like that to my family too" and i was there when he said it and i caught that it was for me cuz he starred at me sideways....that probably caused some soort of a problem too right?
Sounds like some serious miscommunication.
Maybe have a conversation with him face to face.....not on a screen and without friends to but in?click to expand
Throat punch.
Posted by ElleDuMondeWell I just want to try to see where it will go with him cause regardless of the issues we had we actually had a great time talking and conversation was flowing and all that plus he gives off some vibe I really like si what I actually wanna do is keep talking until I'm clear if I have feelings for him or not but I'm scared to be the one who talks first...
I am asking you those questions because I think the picture made you feel weird.
No man, regardless of age, should ask for nudes. It's in poor taste and disrespectful....you should not feel guilty if you say no and tell him to pound sand. It's okay if he gets pissed, he needs to be set straight.
I am also not judging you for doing it, heavens known I have sent nudes to an ex....he just didn't ask for them when I felt a level of trust was present, I freely shared them.
Do you see the difference?
He manipulated your feelings.
So now, the ball is in your court. You get to choose what comes next. What do you want?
Posted by PhoenixRisingIn my country if there are any laws aganist that no one puts them to use because I know many girls my age that are dating older guys so that's not the main problem herePosted by ElleDuMondeNot just the states.Posted by scorpiomoon5269well, if you are under 18 and sending photos.....then you both could be in a world of trouble (if you live in the states). But that's not the topic.....just take care with that.
Holy shittt so many replies xp
Posted by ElleDuMondeI'm in my late teens while he's in his early twenties so yeah age does matter a little bit right now.
@scorpiomoon5269
how old are you? exact numbers don't matter...just decade is fine....teens, twenties, thirties.....etc.
Btw I forgot to mention he's a really sarcastic person and once he was joking with me but he included no emojis in the texts so I thought he was serious so I got angry and I told him that if he was serious he should've stopped talking to me and he was like sure then and I told him I meant what I said and he was like you were 100% serious? And I said my seriousness depends on yours and he told me he wasn't serious it was just some sort of a natural way of speaking.
Then on Saturday a friend of mine had an argument with him (we were all together) and the scorpio told him "dude it's just my way of speaking. you people should try and get used to it cuz all week i've been explaining people if i was serious or not. it's just the way i talk don't take it personally i talk like that to my family too" and i was there when he said it and i caught that it was for me cuz he starred at me sideways....that probably caused some soort of a problem too right?
Sounds like some serious miscommunication.
Maybe have a conversation with him face to face.....not on a screen and without friends to but in?click to expand
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