What should scorpios avoid?

Are there any situations that can drive a scorpio mad? (Not totally crazy)that can make him/her go for the extremes? (tell me about your experiences...) Is getting what you want no matter what it takes the ultimte drive of a scorp? is that challenge our motivation, our burning flame that consumes desire? luv to hear from ya 🙂

Scorpios should avoid getting really attached or obsessive over someone or something. We can be very controling and jealous types. We don't like losing or letting go very easily , unless of course it's us doing the letting go.

YOU TOOK THE WORDS RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH. THAT'S HOW WE ARE.

I'LL AGREE TOTALLY WITH YOU TWO!!!!

The ouestioneer agrees big time, Now i know I'm not the only one who gets hurt that way.

AVOID LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT, MY REASON? I UNDERSTAND MY PASSION FOR WOMEN, LIFE, ETC OVERFLOWS BECAUSE OF MY ENERGY, SOME PEOPLE DO NOT UNDERSTAND THE INTENSITY I DISPLAY AT TIMES SO MOST ARE OVERWHELMED. I HAD TO LEARN TO WALK INTO RELATIONSHIP SO THAT MY FIRE ISNT PUT OUT BY SOMEONE ELSES FEAR OF THE ENERGY I BRING IN TO A RELATIONSHIP, BUT SINCE MOST WOMEN DO NOT LIKE TO REMOVE THIER VEIL, I DONT REVEAL MY CONNECTION TO WHO THEY ARE RIGHT AWAY AS TEMPTING AS IT MAY GET.

Avoid rushing romance. You need to be friends first before falling in love.

You are right, but easier said than done. There are situations that lend themselves to our natural intensity.

My love is also a Scorp and he scrawled my name across his chest, right where his heart is, in a fit of passion w/a ritual knife.
But if you met him, he is just a normal person, not loony or psycho-like at all. Just because some would find it a freaky act, it doesn't mean he is a freak.
Look for a pattern of behavior before making a judgement. Some Scorpios are just bad apples, some just get caught up in their feelings sometimes.

Know this about yourself and give yourself some leeway. Scorps usually have wisdom as a quality too.

I happened upon this while taking a break from work.

I believe the whole Scorpio thing is very simple, being one myself (Nov. 15).

I don't think it's so much that we'll get what we want at whatever costs, though that can happen. We'd rather go about it calmly, but if we are brooked with opposition or told we cannot do something, then that's when we get into the frame of mind of forging ahead.

If you say I can't do it, I'll do it to prove you wrong and to prove to myself that I can.

Number one thing NOT to do w/ a Scorpio:

NEVER TELL A SCORPIO WHAT TO DO.

Oh, and give them lots of love, they may act poker face, but just get to know them a little and you'll pick up on it.

We don't trust, we think even nice people and friends have underlying motives. It's our nature.

But we're loyal as heck!

Everyone has underlying motives - some are good, some are bad.

Scorpios should avoid PERMANENT hate and anger: My Scorpio grandmother lost her Taurus husband over 50 years ago, and his brother took the family business away from her and her 2 boys. My great uncle died 8 years ago, and she continued to stay angry and hateful toward him even after his death. I said: "Death is like a form of punishment and/or payback for hurting someone. When he died, he paid for what he did. He's now a corpse, and how can you stay angry and hate something that can't defend itself or answer back? You got what you wanted - he's dead - so why can't you forgive him?" She admitted I could be right, but she suffered as a consequence for her choice - she's 94 and is suffering from dementia and osteoarthritis and is living in a nursing home. I'm a Virgo who forgave my cold and insensitive Aries grandfather AFTER he died at 93. His spirit and I are now friends. My point is: you CAN learn from other's people's mistakes. I did.