When Scorpio got hurt or feel disappointment?

Hi, I'm a Scorpio woman, I don't know how to explain my feeling now, I broke up with my ex 4 months ago, our relationship was with a lots drama and hurt, our love was so strong, but in the end only have lie and betray, I still can't move on. I've been dating some guys after my ex, they just made me feel more disappointment about guys, I feel I lost my feelings to love, I feel my heart is empty, I were believed love even I were broke up with my ex, I were a social person, but now I feel so sick to talk with guys, I don't know what's happened to me, why I become like this

It's been 4 months and you've already date others guyS which mean more than one...??

You said it yourself that you can't move on...maybe try and take some time for yourself and figure out what you need, what you want and especially how to move on before getting yourself involve again...

"Hi, I'm a Scorpio woman, I don't know how to explain my feeling now, I broke up with my ex 4 months ago, our relationship was with a lots drama and hurt, our love was so strong, but in the end only have lie and betray, I still can't move on." If any intimate relationship ends, a person generally needs more than 4 months to move on, even if the break-up wasn't horrible. If there was betrayal, they'll probably need more time to process the betrayal and loss. This has nothing to do with being a Scorpio. It's heartbreak compounded by betrayal. Give yourself time to process it and don't beat yourself up.

Posted by -elle-
Thinking back to my last breakup......

It's excruciatingly painful.

I think the best thing I did for myself was to allow myself to be alone and to feel all the feelings that came my way.

I felt angry.

I felt betrayed.

I felt annoyed I wasted 2 years.

I felt humiliated.

I felt nauseous.

I felt like the relationship wasn't even real.

I felt a million other things at different points of the process.

I allowed myself to sit in those feelings for a little bit.....'allowed'....I didn't stuff them down and let them turn into bitterness. I'd spend an entire weekend by myself crying over stupid shit.

I would get up Monday morning....get off to work and throw myself into things to distract myself.

There were times I was allowed to feel....and times I told myself to suck it up and force myself to think and do other things.

Eventually, after about 3-4 months of alone time.....I started feeling a lot better.

It is very much a process.

I tried to don't hate him, I tried tell myself we were love each other, but our relationship doesn't work, I were feel better in the beginning, but I don't know why all the feelings is come back, I can't forget his lie and betray. I tried to make myself busy, I tried to change my focus, and it didn't work, just feel lost now.

Gold mine.

You just gotta go through it unfortunately. The more alone time you have the quicker you recover. Which is the pits since after a break up, alone is the last thing you typically want to be as a water sign lol.

I believe I gotta go through, but I don't know when, I hate myself like this weak, I tried to make myself busy dating with guys, but now I don't want to do it anymore😢

Posted by Leylia12
It's been 4 months and you've already date others guyS which mean more than one...??

You said it yourself that you can't move on...maybe try and take some time for yourself and figure out what you need, what you want and especially how to move on before getting yourself involve again...

How long were you two together?

Posted by Shrewdsharp

Posted by Leylia12
It's been 4 months and you've already date others guyS which mean more than one...??

You said it yourself that you can't move on...maybe try and take some time for yourself and figure out what you need, what you want and especially how to move on before getting yourself involve again...

How long were you two together?

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We were together a year, And we was live together over 6 months

I tried to stop date with other guys, cuz I know I need to be alone, but I started to think about him about our past when we were together, I don't know why we became like this, I tried to don't think about that I tried to make my mind busy, but after that after I calm, everything is coming back, I still feel hurting