@GeminiGuy76
9 Years
Help! Need some advice on my Scorpio woman
Do Scorpio Women Prefer to Take Things Slowly in Relationships
Many Scorpio women may prefer to build trust gradually and may not rush into intimacy. They value emotional connection and security before progressing sexually. Each individual varies, so understanding her comfort levels and communication is key to progressing at a pace that feels right for both of you.
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.
When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
Posted by GeminiGuy76
So I've been dating a Scorpio for a little over a month now and we see each other usually a couple of times a week. So far, its been excellent: great intellectual connection, emotional comfort, similar temperaments and we ALWAYS are doing fun and new things together. No problems yet, but I am wondering about the pace of the relationship. So far, its been very affectionate, lots of great making out, but we haven't gotten to the sexual side yet. And that is perfectly fine with me, I'm in no rush. My question is this: on average, do Scorpio women prefer to take things slowly at first? Because so far I'm not seeing at all what I've read about stereotypical Scorp behavior (dark, mysterious, super sexual, etc,). And I need a little input, because unlike most of the air/fire sign types I've dated, she doesn't readily open up about her thoughts and feelings; it feels like she often waits for me to give the green light.Her: Sagittarius rising, sun, venus and mars-Scorpio, moon-Taurus, mercury-Libra
Me: Cancer rising, sun and venus-Gemini, moon and mars-Leo, mercury-Taurus
The "stereotype" is only seen once you've crossed that threshold. Her sexual side will only be shown behind closed doors. Mars in Scorp (despite the hype) is generally very selective with the the sex partners they choose or even expressing that side once they chosen you. Behind closed doors, once trust is earned you'll see a very different side of her. For now she's gauging and observing you (e.g. waiting for you to give the green light).
For now, keep going with the flow. Take your time, be consistent in order to develop a trusting friendship/relationship and you two will be fine.
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.
Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
Posted by GeminiGuy76
it feels like she often waits for me to give the green light.
Relationships are not busy traffic.
What's your problem? Did she refuse you? If not, she waits for you to initiate. That is what real men do.
oh I remember, there is Prince Rainier Gemini man and Scorpio woman Grace Kelley she is scorpio sun/pisces moon/libra venus.she has Gemini Jupiter singularity but she's dominant libra.
I guess you have to be rich and powerful to get a scorpio woman. (actually he's Taurus dominant and from good wealth, family) that's a huge clue in to get a scorpio woman....be from a good family.
here is a site on Gemini man/scorpio woman traits... it's really general though.
but it says that Gemini is your MATCH when it comes to manipulation...
http://zodiac-traits.com/gemini-man-scorpio-woman.html
edit -- it'd be better if she had Gemini, or a dominant 3rd houser, then she can MATCH you.. toe to toe..
Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
Thanks, I appreciate the insight. And no, I haven't been pushing her at all on anything; I want her to open up because she feels comfortable with me, and not because I'm pressuring. And yes, even though we haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, she has pretty much been giving me all of her free time (and even suggests things she would like to do with me).
Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
Thanks, I appreciate the insight. And no, I haven't been pushing her at all on anything; I want her to open up because she feels comfortable with me, and not because I'm pressuring. And yes, even though we haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, she has pretty much been giving me all of her free time (and even suggests things she would like to do with me).
Posted by P6X58DE
Her Taurus moon will slow her down with everything, ride it out and you will find an amazing reward for going the distance with her.
Thank you! Yes, I was also wondering about that Taurus moon; i've experienced that with some other people, and considering the place I'm at in my life right now, that is not a bad thing at all.
Posted by lisabethur8
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
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I agree with you.. I've seen more success with male scorp & female Gemini match! Male Geminis are better as just friends for me imo! I do have a lot of air/fire placements..!but it's mellowed down with my water placement .. sun in scorp..
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
OP, you will have to understand that sun Gemini placements are quick and scorp placements are intense and slow.Your courtship will be a long one. Tauruses are very similar. My Taurus has your VIG, Mercury and rising.
You will have to go at her pace or she will run.
I have a VIP with actually conjuncts my Taurus mars in Pisces which is supposedly the perfect match and I feel this 2 years on. But it took 18 months for my mars in Taurus to get comfortable with his VIG! Even now it makes me feel a little "uneasy" lol lol I have told him that many times... You geminis! He once said to me "you are like an onion. So many layers"...
Slow is the game.. Once thing a gem will learn with a scorp... The art of patience
Understood. And I happen to be a patient Gemini : )
Posted by lisabethur8
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
I agree with you.. I've seen more success with male scorp & female Gemini match! Male Geminis are better as just friends for me imo! I do have a lot of air/fire placements..!but it's mellowed down with my water placements .. sun in scorp..
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you still have that sag venus, libra mars combo.
that's gonna love fire/air men types.
to be in a personal relationship with you.
Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
Thanks, I appreciate the insight. And no, I haven't been pushing her at all on anything; I want her to open up because she feels comfortable with me, and not because I'm pressuring. And yes, even though we haven't had the "are we exclusive" talk yet, she has pretty much been giving me all of her free time (and even suggests things she would like to do with me).
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Those are all good signs! I say ride it out. Scorp women once in a committed relationships are very loyal, & good to their partners.. don't worry too much!! ☺️
Posted by GeminiGuy76
So I've been dating a Scorpio for a little over a month now and we see each other usually a couple of times a week. So far, its been excellent: great intellectual connection, emotional comfort, similar temperaments and we ALWAYS are doing fun and new things together. No problems yet, but I am wondering about the pace of the relationship. So far, its been very affectionate, lots of great making out, but we haven't gotten to the sexual side yet. And that is perfectly fine with me, I'm in no rush. My question is this: on average, do Scorpio women prefer to take things slowly at first? Because so far I'm not seeing at all what I've read about stereotypical Scorp behavior (dark, mysterious, super sexual, etc,). And I need a little input, because unlike most of the air/fire sign types I've dated, she doesn't readily open up about her thoughts and feelings; it feels like she often waits for me to give the green light.Her: Sagittarius rising, sun, venus and mars-Scorpio, moon-Taurus, mercury-Libra
Me: Cancer rising, sun and venus-Gemini, moon and mars-Leo, mercury-Taurus
The "stereotype" is only seen once you've crossed that threshold. Her sexual side will only be shown behind closed doors. Mars in Scorp (despite the hype) is generally very selective with the the sex partners they choose or even expressing that side once they chosen you. Behind closed doors, once trust is earned you'll see a very different side of her. For now she's gauging and observing you (e.g. waiting for you to give the green light).
For now, keep going with the flow. Take your time, be consistent in order to develop a trusting friendship/relationship and you two will be fine.
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Thanks for the spiel on mars in scorp. From the little time i've known her so far, that would be consistent with our romantic moments: the more private a place we are in, the more physical she is with me. In public, she's a bit more like "I want to keep kissing but there are people watching,' lol.
Posted by lisabethur8
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
I agree with you.. I've seen more success with male scorp & female Gemini match! Male Geminis are better as just friends for me imo! I do have a lot of air/fire placements..!but it's mellowed down with my water placements .. sun in scorp..
you still have that sag venus, libra mars combo.
that's gonna love fire/air men types.
to be in a personal relationship with you.
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I have dated a bunch of Gemini.. 3-4 at the most.. scorp men are good, my scorp sun loves them but they are a bit too soft for me.. I'm currently with a cap.. his placements are Cap Sun, Aqua Venus, Taurus Moon
Posted by lisabethur8
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
I agree with you.. I've seen more success with male scorp & female Gemini match! Male Geminis are better as just friends for me imo! I do have a lot of air/fire placements..!but it's mellowed down with my water placements .. sun in scorp..
you still have that sag venus, libra mars combo.
that's gonna love fire/air men types.
to be in a personal relationship with you.
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The last gem left a bad taste in my mouth.. I'm just friends with the gems I dated in the past.. we get along well in that aspect .
Posted by GeminiGuy76
it feels like she often waits for me to give the green light.Relationships are not busy traffic.
What's your problem? Did she refuse you? If not, she waits for you to initiate. That is what real men do.
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As I mentioned before, I've been used to the more fire sign (especially Aries) type women that move faster and don't hesitate to say what they want. That is why I wanted to know if women with strong Scorpio placements usually move at a slower pace. And no, she hasn't refused any physical advances at all yet. I've actually been enjoying the pace. I'm looking for a "long time" with her, not just a "good time."
Posted by lisabethur8
oh I remember, there is Prince Rainier Gemini man and Scorpio woman Grace Kelley she is scorpio sun/pisces moon/libra venus.she has Gemini Jupiter singularity but she's dominant libra.I guess you have to be rich and powerful to get a scorpio woman. (actually he's Taurus dominant and from good wealth, family) that's a huge clue in to get a scorpio woman....be from a good family.
here is a site on Gemini man/scorpio woman traits... it's really general though.
but it says that Gemini is your MATCH when it comes to manipulation...
http://zodiac-traits.com/gemini-man-scorpio-woman.html
edit -- it'd be better if she had Gemini, or a dominant 3rd houser, then she can MATCH you.. toe to toe..
Actually, she happens to have Jupiter in the third house, and Jupiter is very strong in her chart. I'm not a big fan of sun sign compatibility sites. There is so much more in our charts. I for one, in many ways, do not consider myself a "typical" Gemini.
Posted by lisabethur8
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
I agree with you.. I've seen more success with male scorp & female Gemini match! Male Geminis are better as just friends for me imo! I do have a lot of air/fire placements..!but it's mellowed down with my water placements .. sun in scorp..
you still have that sag venus, libra mars combo.
that's gonna love fire/air men types.
to be in a personal relationship with you.
I have dated a bunch of Gemini.. 3-4 at the most.. scorp men are good, my scorp sun loves them but they are a bit too soft for me.. I'm currently with a cap.. his placements are Cap Sun, Aqua Venus, Taurus Moon
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lol that's a lot of Gemini men. I don't attract them, nor am I attracted to them. they're cool though. So something with you and them you are drawn to.
what's your new man's mars? is it Gemini mars?
Posted by lisabethur8
oh I remember, there is Prince Rainier Gemini man and Scorpio woman Grace Kelley she is scorpio sun/pisces moon/libra venus.she has Gemini Jupiter singularity but she's dominant libra.I guess you have to be rich and powerful to get a scorpio woman. (actually he's Taurus dominant and from good wealth, family) that's a huge clue in to get a scorpio woman....be from a good family.
here is a site on Gemini man/scorpio woman traits... it's really general though.
but it says that Gemini is your MATCH when it comes to manipulation...
http://zodiac-traits.com/gemini-man-scorpio-woman.html
edit -- it'd be better if she had Gemini, or a dominant 3rd houser, then she can MATCH you.. toe to toe..
Actually, she happens to have Jupiter in the third house, and Jupiter is very strong in her chart. I'm not a big fan of sun sign compatibility sites. There is so much more in our charts. I for one, in many ways, do not consider myself a "typical" Gemini.
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that's good! remember, keep toe to toe with her.
Posted by P6X58DE
Her Taurus moon will slow her down with everything, ride it out and you will find an amazing reward for going the distance with her.Thank you! Yes, I was also wondering about that Taurus moon; i've experienced that with some other people, and considering the place I'm at in my life right now, that is not a bad thing at all.
I have that moon, we have feelings for other but only mention it when comfortable and know we are going to have those feelings returned.
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Thank you! That is definitely something valuable for me to know : )
Posted by P6X58DE
Good video.
Yes, thank you! I watch her stuff all the time : )
Posted by GeminiGuy76
it feels like she often waits for me to give the green light.Relationships are not busy traffic.
What's your problem? Did she refuse you? If not, she waits for you to initiate. That is what real men do.
As I mentioned before, I've been used to the more fire sign (especially Aries) type women that move faster and don't hesitate to say what they want. That is why I wanted to know if women with strong Scorpio placements usually move at a slower pace. And no, she hasn't refused any physical advances at all yet. I've actually been enjoying the pace. I'm looking for a "long time" with her, not just a "good time."
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Good for you! But don't think it as "slower pace". She lets you take the lead for now, like in salsa dancing 😉. It is your own pace you are talking about, not hers!
Good job I told my Gem that third date was a good time to have sex. Who knows how long he would have beaten around the bush 😛
Posted by lisabethur8
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
I agree with you.. I've seen more success with male scorp & female Gemini match! Male Geminis are better as just friends for me imo! I do have a lot of air/fire placements..!but it's mellowed down with my water placements .. sun in scorp..
you still have that sag venus, libra mars combo.
that's gonna love fire/air men types.
to be in a personal relationship with you.
I have dated a bunch of Gemini.. 3-4 at the most.. scorp men are good, my scorp sun loves them but they are a bit too soft for me.. I'm currently with a cap.. his placements are Cap Sun, Aqua Venus, Taurus Moon
lol that's a lot of Gemini men. I don't attract them, nor am I attracted to them. they're cool though. So something with you and them you are drawn to.
what's your new man's mars? is it Gemini mars?
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His mars is Pisces, his rising is in Taurus.. he's hard to deal with. It's challenging but I love a good challenge! Lol my placements like it perhaps?
Posted by lisabethur8
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
I agree with you.. I've seen more success with male scorp & female Gemini match! Male Geminis are better as just friends for me imo! I do have a lot of air/fire placements..!but it's mellowed down with my water placements .. sun in scorp..
you still have that sag venus, libra mars combo.
that's gonna love fire/air men types.
to be in a personal relationship with you.
I have dated a bunch of Gemini.. 3-4 at the most.. scorp men are good, my scorp sun loves them but they are a bit too soft for me.. I'm currently with a cap.. his placements are Cap Sun, Aqua Venus, Taurus Moon
lol that's a lot of Gemini men. I don't attract them, nor am I attracted to them. they're cool though. So something with you and them you are drawn to.
what's your new man's mars? is it Gemini mars?
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Lol that is a lot!! Never thought about it.. don't know what they like about me and I always say I'm gonna stay away from them.. then I meet someone like them & later find out their sign!! Smh
OP some scorp women like for you to initiate.. make that move bud! When we like a man we want you to grab us & go for.. we will only go as far as you go
Posted by lisabethur8
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
I agree with you.. I've seen more success with male scorp & female Gemini match! Male Geminis are better as just friends for me imo! I do have a lot of air/fire placements..!but it's mellowed down with my water placements .. sun in scorp..
you still have that sag venus, libra mars combo.
that's gonna love fire/air men types.
to be in a personal relationship with you.
I have dated a bunch of Gemini.. 3-4 at the most.. scorp men are good, my scorp sun loves them but they are a bit too soft for me.. I'm currently with a cap.. his placements are Cap Sun, Aqua Venus, Taurus Moon
lol that's a lot of Gemini men. I don't attract them, nor am I attracted to them. they're cool though. So something with you and them you are drawn to.
what's your new man's mars? is it Gemini mars?
Lol that is a lot!! Never thought about it.. don't know what they like about me and I always say I'm gonna stay away from them.. then I meet someone like them & later find out their sign!! Smh
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lol it is. I was with aries dominant men and my man doesn't have any aries. his aquarius is in the 1st though. that's it for aries energy. so there's a break.
Posted by lisabethur8
hmm I don't know any Gemini male/scorpio woman couples. I've seen the other way around...male scorpios marry Gemini women.Posted by poison_ivy
As a Scorpio female, I would say I'm slow to opening up completely in the beginning.. may be my aqua rising.When I dated a Gemini he said he can sense that I had a wall up.. all the time.. he would tell me to loosen up.. it was true. I always felt like he was pushing for me to give him my all at once.. that's not me.. My intuition was never 100% positive with him.. he always did things to make my red flags go up.. I don't really think Geminis & Scorps are a good match but that's just my opinion.. you & her natal placements may work tho.. not sure.. but anyway.. You can't force a scorp woman to rush things.. to rush anything for that matter.. we're stubborn in that aspect. yea making out is great if I like you (we are def the most sexual of all the zodiacs) but we like to feel out a persons intentions first.. figure out if it's long term or just sex.. we just have a hard time trusting ppl right off the back.. & we (well at least me) don't do FWB well IMO.. ppl always end up catching more feelings with us or vice versa.. too messy.. we look for relationships that are more long term..
The fact that she's giving you attention is great.. means she likes you.. if a scorp woman doesn't like you, you will not get the time of day.. Are you pushing her to open up more..?
you have so much air, and fire in personal planets,no wonder you dated one.
I agree with you.. I've seen more success with male scorp & female Gemini match! Male Geminis are better as just friends for me imo! I do have a lot of air/fire placements..!but it's mellowed down with my water placements .. sun in scorp..
you still have that sag venus, libra mars combo.
that's gonna love fire/air men types.
to be in a personal relationship with you.
I have dated a bunch of Gemini.. 3-4 at the most.. scorp men are good, my scorp sun loves them but they are a bit too soft for me.. I'm currently with a cap.. his placements are Cap Sun, Aqua Venus, Taurus Moon
lol that's a lot of Gemini men. I don't attract them, nor am I attracted to them. they're cool though. So something with you and them you are drawn to.
what's your new man's mars? is it Gemini mars?
Lol that is a lot!! Never thought about it.. don't know what they like about me and I always say I'm gonna stay away from them.. then I meet someone like them & later find out their sign!! Smh
lol it is. I was with aries dominant men and my man doesn't have any aries. his aquarius is in the 1st though. that's it for aries energy. so there's a break.
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lol I don't think I've ever been with an Aires! I guess aqua works for me!
I've been looking at the house overlays in our synastry. As far as love and romance goes, it looks good to me : ) Her sun, venus and mars fall into my 5th house, her moon falls into my 11th. My sun and venus fall into her 7th house, while my moon and mars fall into her 8th. It will definitely be interesting to see how this all plays out!
And this. I can't find any reason to disagree with the conclusions:
Hey, I'm Scorpio, So yes we like to take it slow at first when it comes to shearing are feelings. We don't like to feel vulnerable!!! I'm in a relationship as well and to be honest we are also not in a sexual relationship either.
I haven't opened up about how I feel either in this relationship but he has opened up about it and I usually wait till he talk about his feelings before I talk about mine.
My advice for you is do something romantic for her. Like candles, tree house, cabin in the woods. kiss in the rain, extra...
Find out what she likes, her interests, music, drawing, art extra.
I made a list of all the things that will make Scorpio open out.
#1 Be expressive
#2 Talk about your fantasies
#3 Talk about your talents
#4 Be deep connect on a personal level.
#5 Make them Laugh dark comedic jokes. taboo topics,
#6 talk about your childhood and things she's mentioned in the past.
#7 Be clingy physical kiss, hold hands, hug but don't rush.
#8 Be romantic, kiss in the rain, cabin in the woods
#9 BE rough and aggressive, but gentle, scar them in a good way, be dark, and a little evil
#10 Don't expect them to be there wild self all the time.Don't push them to be their wild self's it will make them nervous and run away. help them distress.
hope this helps sorry for the long text.... new here
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So I've been dating a Scorpio for a little over a month now and we see each other usually a couple of times a week. So far, its been excellent: great intellectual connection, emotional comfort, similar temperaments and we ALWAYS are doing fun and new things together. No problems yet, but I am wondering about the pace of the relationship. So far, its been very affectionate, lots of great making out, but we haven't gotten to the sexual side yet. And that is perfectly fine with me, I'm in no rush. My question is this: on average, do Scorpio women prefer to take things slowly at first? Because so far I'm not seeing at all what I've read about stereotypical Scorp behavior (dark, mysterious, super sexual, etc,). And I need a little input, because unlike most of the air/fire sign types I've dated, she doesn't readily open up about her thoughts and feelings; it feels like she often waits for me to give the green light.
Her: Sagittarius rising, sun, venus and mars-Scorpio, moon-Taurus, mercury-Libra
Me: Cancer rising, sun and venus-Gemini, moon and mars-Leo, mercury-Taurus