When Scorpios marry Scorpios

I married a fellow scorpio a few years and now we are in one brutal, nasty, want to rip your eyes out divorce.

I think this combo can work in some cases, but when it does not, you better CYA (cover your ass)And often in the other married to fellow scorps I have seen personally, it does not work out.

I know of one case where the man finally smothered his ex wife to death in a fit of rage. I think we have the potential to bring out the worst in each other, and the worst in human passions.
I have gotten so very angry at my almost ex's behavior that I felt like sending Gary Condit after him!lolWe own a house together that I had to vacate after his abuse. Well I snuck in there when he wasn't around, rifled through and took his private papers to expose him for the snake he is.
He actually then ~breaks~ into the house where I am staying at (mind you he does not have any ownership in this house)and steals my bank statemant. He guessed my password and went through my email then changed the password so I couldn't access my email.
Do you think I as a red-blooded scorpio woman sat back and took this?OK point made.
So get this, I have a long-term friend who is a fellow scorp, yes a male married to yet another scorp female. He is totally unhappy with her and completely in love with me but won't leave because of his kids(of course its ok to keep them in that environment right)
So right I keep this guy at a 100 mile distance with a barbed wire fence in between him and I. He pursues me relentlessly, I mean making it clear how much he loves me, etc.
Scorpio sisters, how would you like your man saying that to another woman? Not even having mindless sex, just all your husband's emotional energies pouring into another woman who keeps him at an arm's length.
And he just refuses to let go, the more I distance myself, the more he hangs on. Sometimes he retreats for awhile, but he always comes back.
He even scrawled my name across his chest with knife once, and calls ~me~ his "wife."
So then I am walking along the beach one day and this man comes up to me. He comments on how he could tell the beach was "my home." I am gaping in shock there because this really intense moment passes between us. I mean I "saw" he was my future husband, and know he felt it too. That was ~really~ freaky. This was love at first sight.
He brought white roses to my door a few hours later, took me out on one glorious date.
But he has been hurt in the past and ran away terrified of the intensity of his feelings from our connection and has not called me in weeks now. However, ~somehow~ I know he will come back when the time is right. And he is yet another scorpio
Well I'm off for some more guerilla warfare with the almost ex, wish me luck and his demise. And please, think twice before marrying another scorpio. (Unless you just can't escape them lol.)

Are you nuts? You either like living out your lower nature or you are slow to learn from your mistakes. I believe there is perfect companions out there for all of us. It might happen on the first glance, but then you take all the time you need, years even, to really know them. I grew up with a father that was all Scorpio (birthdate is Halloween) he was no trick; he is a definite treat. You just have to know how to get along with these amazing people. My mother is an Aquarinan, and I think the only thing that kept them from divorce was us kids. They had their good times, but not many and she spent alot of times crying and unhappy because she can't except the way he is. He thinks she is a cold fish, and she thinks he is aloof. If they have to go out which isn't often, he stays long enough to say hello and then leaves. We use to do to the drive-in movies and never got to see more than 1/2 the show, because he wanted to leave before the crowd. He likes people and has always had alot of friends that wanted to be around him and has kept the same friends all his life; he just has his extreme likes and dislikes. I get along with them both(Sun in Libra and Moon) and they are now in their late 60's and they still yell and scream and fight and act that way. I asked someone aren't they a little old to be doing this; they just laughed. I think their humor has gotten them through most of it. If you have ever watched the show Everyone loves Raymond, his parents are my parents!!! My dad would never hurt a woman no matter what. He never hit us kids(except once). He was a big strong southern man/blue collar worker, and I had run away just because I was adventuress(Saggitrarius rising) I got on a greyhound bus after stealing money out of his pocket and took off to see the West. I did get it good when I got back home. I also remember him crying in his room after that; he did not know I could hear him in the other room. He never raised a hand to me again. He has always had the biggest shoulders and thought he had to solve the worlds problems. We are all now in our early forties and he still tries to be big daddy and, no man, no matter what, no matter how good has ever been good enough for us. He does like this last one I'm with. He says he doesn't but I can tell. This last one has been the biggest pain I've ever endured in my life(Saggitarius). He has a hell of a personality and great work ethic, but the biggest drunk and over doer of everything you ever wanted to see. I love my Scorpio dad and wouldn't trade him for anyone in the world!! I also have venus, mercury, mars and one other planet in scorpio and I am a Libra/Scorpio cusp, so I think I can understand the feelings of our lower natures. I keep trying to rise above them. It's a full-time job!! Good luck to you.

SCORPIO AND SCORPIO

Plenty of sexual attraction here but the emotional temperature can't keep rising forever. These two people who are so much alike understand each other very little. They are highly jealous and demanding. They are so intense that every little storm quickly becomes a hurricane. Both are sulky, brooding, possessive. Both are in a continual struggle to force the other to relinquish control. Something has got to give and when it does it's likely to spell The End.

How about Roy and Dale Evans or Katherine Hepburn and Spencer Tracey? I'm sure there are alot more I just don't have locked in memeory right now.

Hi Scorpioswife!
After reading your post about your Scorpio-Scorpio relationship-gone bad-it seems to me that it is not that these people you describe are "Scorpion"...it sounds as if they are people of low moral character! That type of person can be found any place within the zodiac!
My advice? Move on and meet people that help you grow! These losers that you are dealing with are better left behind!
Luck to you!
Scorpio Babe

It sounds like a combination of fire and gasoline for a marriage. This one sounds like it was meant to be futile. Al you can do right now is learn from your mistakes and try not to let this marriage give you a hardened heart. All marriages are tough to keep afloat. There's no exception. No matter what happens, try to keep your chin up. At least you'll know which sign NOT to marry next!

Katherine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy were never married...he was married, but, not to her! They did not ever have to deal with the day to day getting along...theirs was an affair! Anyway...

I have to admit that if a guy scrawled my name across his chest with a knife...I would be thinking he has serious mental issues! I fail to see the romantic nature of such an action, unless a mind is twisted!

Whatever you decide to do...do yourself a favor and DO NOT jump into another relationship quickly...take time for yourself! You will be stronger in the next relationship for it!! Take up some of those things you always wanted to do...a class, hobby, whatever it may be...do fill the time, so that you are not tempted to fill the void with another body!
Date...but, hold your dates at arms length...tell them you want to be friends only...and work hard to keep it that way! Until you really have your head on straight and know what you want...

Go back and read your original post...you will see what I mean..you talk about 100 mile distance and barbed wire...then you talk about "love at first sight" and a date with him...

Take time for yourself! Learn to love yourself before you share a special love with another! It will be the best present you ever gave yourself!!

I Wish You The Best!
Star

With all due respect,how do you know how much time people such as Katherine Hepburn and Spencer Tracy spent together? There are plenty of successful Scorpio + Scorpio relationships/partnerships out there. There are just as many committed relationships unmarried as there are married. I have had two relationships one married for 10 years and then one unmarried but just as committed that has lasted for 14years. Where is your evidence. Reading a book is one thing. How about backing it up with a little more than that.

I do know that they spent a lot of time together...but, an affair will never be the same thing as marriage is.

Star

You said it!

2 Scorpios together are too much alike. That can be dangerous!