why do scorps like to grip the unattainable?

i was inlove with a sag (which was my mistake). it was a short lived relationship with her and yet now that she considers me as her bestfriend because i know all about her and how she works. i still seem to want to have her back eventhou i got hurt... i can't seem to move on... lately i have been hangning out with her and i seem to fall for her again... i can't seem to let go. is it because i haven't found the right person?

I think it's because you have opened up to her which wasn't easy. The familiarity with the person is there and that is nice. You are broken in, so to speak, and now can move to the next level. Why is she moving away from the realtioship, if you don't mind me asking? I know that Scorpios are completly different than Saggies. You need someone that admirers all your great personality traits, Scorpio. Stay with folks that will support who you are 100% and you'll be happy.

And, Scorpio doesn't ever like to lose or surrender, not unless it is on his terms. They are the rulers of war. This to them is looked at as defeat and not easily excepted. They are proud and courageous and they don't like to be the one conqeured!

Your what is refered to as a man's man.
Very nice!!!

Your whiped

for the 2nd post from this topic
she moved on because she found someone else that she had a good common ground with

with me, it was only physical/sexual attraction. she would always say that she loved me in her own way, but not all the way.

she says that she does not want to loose me as a bestfriend because whenever she needs a shoulder to cry on that i was always there and that nobody else understands her completely but me. not even her parents.
what should i do?, continue the friendship or move on without her?

at the time that we parted seperate ways it took me long while to get over her. only because i never loved that way in my life.

Oh shit, I-sun, I am sorry; I feel your pain to the core!!! You will need some time to heal.

Scorps don't love or live lightly, in other words; it's all or nothing.

Surround yourself with people that love you 100%

I don't have the magic solution for you. All I can say is: I understand what your going through, and what I ended up coming to understand is: there was a reason whether good or bad that this happened to me; there was some lesson I needed to learn. Everything in our lives happens for a reason. Disect it and find out what?? There is love out there waiting for you; the perfect love the one that is meant for you. Do your homework next time. What I mean is, take the time to know what you want and what the other person is looking for in a relationship. Make sure your objectives are the same. It's not enough to be just physically aroused; you have to be able to hang with one another on an intimate basis...

I am thinking of you and pray you find some peace.

I-Sun, don't let it get you down it's only castles burning; just find someone who urning and you will come around!!!
Neil Young (and Scorpio)

PS Don't look back keep moving forward!!

It's the journey in life not the destination. Enjoy everyday of it, even the bad ones. We are here on earth to learn!

that was suppose to read burning not urning??

i don't know who 205.188.192.186 is but i just want to say thank you for being real with what you feel about my predicament. thank you again.

i-sun

We as scorps do not believe there is nothing we cannot obtain -- the harder the battle the sweeter the reward -- but what you have to remember is that sometimes we get so into obtaining our goal that once we get it it isn't what we really wanted -- it was only the pursuit that brought the pleasure -- as for the Sag i understand the draw to them (i went through it for 5 years) but they only give the illusion of emotion there is no depth there -- let that traveler go -- Sags make better friends than lovers to the scorpio

I resent that remark about Sagitarius not having depth in their emotions. I am in a relationship with a scorpio and i am a sagitarius. We've been together for some time now and trust me sags' have alot of emotion. But...as for the state your in...I have a feeling you know what to do intellectually. You've already admitted you want what you don't have. This is what makes it harder for you to break away.