Yes, I feel the same in terms of being 'hardened' by the truth. The most interesting I found was that my intuition was true to me all along, but this time around, I received an explanation. I wish anyone dealing with Scorpios would understand the importance of being honest to us. Makes things so much easier...
This doesn't mean I have dealt with things yet. Am still in the processing of the truth, however, at least I know I was not all alone in my quest.
I feel exactly the same way, eden 🙂 If I walk off my first impression and let myself convinced, it usually doesn't turn out better as I make myself believe over time.
Interesting you would say 'other people's truth'. I usually am well aware of their truth and don't want to be limiting for my own benefits. Also over the years I wanted to give events more chances, but it turns out that it hurts me in the end. Lately I've started questioning myself if it is right to let things take their course and accept as it comes. I have good memories and experiences out of these, but looking at the end result, I can't convince myself that it has not been a waste of my time and energy.
It's a learning curb for me again, but I am also very tempted in staying within my comfort zone.
to be honest, it wasn't my idea to approach him. I just waited that he came to me, but my Sag friend insisted that I had the right to know. She knows we both had a thing for each other. She said, I trusted you, no games... My silence is no game, but I guess some would see it that way. So I tried putting my feelings out there and demanded an answer. I got it. I can't know if this method would work for everybody. The good was that he still shared those feelings. The not so good was that he has been forced to stay away from me. Family pressure. He moved to another state, changed schools and such. So I understand. The end result is the same as before, but at least I have the answer now. I can live with it.
So yes... you speak my heart, eden girl. Hugs. We have too much shit going on in our heads and intensity seems not to be always welcomed. Especially now with the vast technologically available means on contacting one another, there is also a trend of being labelled intrusive in many ways. So I keep things even less personal. In the meantime we can also miss out on expressing our true feelings for each other. Moreso in our important relationships.
In the olden days, holidays were considered part of creating means for bonding with one another. Friends helped each other out if you had some disagreement with your friend or partner. Today, we are pretty much on our own.
Now, we are looking at the moon or astrology to find answers....
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