You Scorpios are so damn patient!!!!

Maybe he doesn't like you as much as he did in the past.

Even though it's secret, perhaps he's not feeling comfortable dating a co-worker.

Hmm

That doesn't look good. They are like a T-Rex, they like to hunt. If he stares at you and doesn't speak, he might think you have disrespected or offended him. Scorpio men are touchy. Oh, can I say sensitive? But how could you say that when they are really insensitive.

If they want you, they are so aggressive you have to keep ice by the bed.

You never want to be their booty call. It's doesn't even seem like a FWB thing either.

If you want a relationship-- of any kind with this guy. Maybe...
Maybe...tell him: Hey, we had a good thing, I know you're busy, can we make a time every week?...You really wanna do this— Just for sex? Because if he though you were the "one" he wouldn't be apart from you.

If you had sex with someone else in the office or with someone he knows,
He is done, just pretend you don't see me. He may have found out later, they like to stalk and spy on people.

Like Taurus men, there's no forcing Scorpio men to do what you want. If they think you're being cute, they would have anyway.

It sounds to me that if he's really busy and you are not helping him with his life, it doesn't sound like a good match anyway.

You want time and to go out....he needs to make money and build a career. If you want to be with a working or career minded man, you need to help him out.

Make dinner, look good, make the time you have feel good and stress free. That's a partner. I have never meet a Scorpio man who has been willing to be a carpet. And with any fixed sign, the 1st few years are the hardest, they will drop you without ever telling you what is wrong.

People on this site always ask, why?
Does anyone ever want the truth?

A good body, typically have men coming back for more. Women typically don't like men with no future.
Some people smell or talk or ask for too much money. It's all hurtful. I dated an Aquarius once. He was wicked smart, I could have loved him. But, kissing him was like kissing drywall. I had to end it. I'm not trying to be mean, I just wouldn't chase this one.

Oh, he's a single parent? That's hard for him. If you want into his life you have to have all the patience in the world. You will not met the kid until you have been put through every test. If you made him jealous, it's probably done. Unless, he has no options.

I haven't had sex with anyone in the office. I was interested in my boss but it never went anywhere cause he didn't make a move and I never told anyone. Just came on here to vent about that a couple of years ago.

He's no longer here though and my interest fizzled pretty fast when he didn't chase. I guess I just have to be patient and see where this goes. I really don't want to question him about trying to fit me into his schedule. I know he's busy, I know he's a father first, I just don't want to come off needy but he doesn't plan very well and it seems like he wants to do things last minute and try and force me to drop everything. I've told him days o was available and then he asked about other days that I've gone out with girlfriends and he tries to get me to come by after that. I'm not rely into the booty call thing. He did try and take me out before. He's just not making as much of an effort now.

I also don't want to cut things off too soon without seeing it through. I won't need an explanation of it doesn't work out. We can still be friends, I'm always friends with exes even if I won't really talk with them after, I still keep things civil.
Ugh!!! Time will tell.....

I'm just sexually frustrated and venting.

men smell desperation.

keep your options open if he's not making time then your not that important to him so keep it moving and wait for a guy to give you the attention you want.

If you are complaining to him and begging him to spend time that is giving off a vibe that you are waiting around for him and have no life of your own which would make him ASSUME that you are desperate.

If he isn't giving you the attention you want it sounds like he is emotionally unavailable don't ignore the signs of you are ready for something serious KEEP your options open! And please stop feeding his ego the more you show him you are waiting for him the longer he will take his time. He's not being patient you are allowing him to get to you at his convenience.

It's ok dear I understand your frustration but love is slow burning it's not always instant attraction. If you want something to last it starts off with a dim light that just grows to passion and love. You are confusing lust and infactuation with what you are seeking. I'm very picky as well but just because you found a connection with guy in the midst of being picky doesn't mean he is it. A man will make time for the woman he wants trust your instinct on it. Those excuses are just excuses maybe because you are straight forward that you are not a challenge to him so he is getting bored and keeping his options open with other women. What I don't understand is I know you two work together but you are not a secret and don't let him treat you like one. It is normal for two people to find attraction in the work place and start dating. He doesn't have to flaunt you around but you can have conversations with him without being too obvious. If he isn't making time for you then date someone else stop waiting for him. The moment you stop feeding his ego and are preoccupied with someone else he will come around and I tell you this watch he wants to spend all the time in the world with you because you are not checking for him.

Just be patient and believe that the guy that your hearts desire will come along until then don't settle for less than what you truly want. He may not even be what you thought he was in your mind after taking some time away from him.