Young scorp girl... Older libra male

Alright I'll just dive into it, but first give u a brief over view of my current situations. A couple moths ago I got burned pretty bad by a Gemini who had no idea what she wanted. Shortly after that I met a really hot Taurus who I first assumed was just going to be a friend, but quickly turned into a romantic affair.. Emphasis on the affair part because she was married. Once she came to her senses and realized a boy toy distraction wasn't going to help her life in a significant way, she stop talking to me completely and we haven't made contact in about 2 months. I pretty much gave up at that point, joined the army and focused hard on work and staying in shape.

Here's where the fun starts. I got a text 5 days ago from this girl i used to work with saying that her friend saw me at my new job and remembered me from my old one. She thought I was hot I guess and right when I saw her picture I said I'd text her lol. At first I had no intentions for anything with this girl because I knew she was young and I'm always really busy with work, but... After textin forma while I noticed that she was actually pretty cool. So we texted alot that night, texted all through thanksgiving and then on day 3 she convinced me to invite her over. When I saw her in person I was really excited cause she's super hot and we ended up talkin for a long time and I realized that we have alot in common. Next day she comes over again and we hookup and I mean Passionatly. We did everything but have sex. So all yesterday we text eachother and then there's some confusion later on that night.

I figured that since we hung out 2 nights in a row that it would be a good idea to take the night off, but once I get back from work I just know that it'll be awkward if I DONt ask her to come over.. Especially since the whole day she was hinting that she wanted to. So I ask her if she wants to and it's kinda wierd because she does, but she wanted to like go do something.. It's 8pm Sunday night and I'm tired as hell so I must have sounded negative cause I said, "maybe we should hangout another night". She was not having that though! And started apologizing for asking to do something.. I told her to just come over and we'd do something fun. So she did and I could tell when she got there that she had alot on her mind... We go on a drive and talk and it turns out that she just got out of a year and a half long relationship.

So Im asking her questions about it and I find out that shes still very hurt over the whole thing. When I ask if she still wants to be with him she says , "maybe in a few years or down the line or somthing". Then I asked when they broke up and when's the last time they hooked up. 'a month an a half ago' and they had sex 2 weeks ago..... So at this point I'm ready to scrap the entire thing. Easy come, easy go (libra senses tingling). But that's all I ever do... Everytime I see a red flag I run for the hills. I bury my doubt and play it off as if I'm not thinkin about it anymore and the rest of the night goes really great. Obviously we dont hookup but we're still cuddling and laughing. Honestly... I really do like her.

So my question to all you readers is. What is your take on this. Keep in mind I'm 24, goin into the military in march. And she just turned 18 this fucking month and is still off the rebound. Should I even bother with this? I plan on slowing down, but she texts me all the time now. Got a bunch of them today. Even some drama texts from her friend callin me a player... Ya her friend who hooked us up. I realize this is some highschool bullshit. It's damn entertaining I'll say that, but what do u guys think? Should I end this? We're talkin about a young girls life right now. I don't wanna mess with it, and she's already confused as it is. Yes I like her, but her properly developing as an adult is more important to me.

uh huh..and THEN what happened?

"Yes I like her, but her properly developing as an adult is more important to me"

Nicely said...and with that, my opinion is she wont be able to give you what you need...balance, maturity. She is clearly into drama and hasnt let go with the ex yet. Just cus she texts you to high hell, doesnt mean you have to cave in. you have a choice....good luck.

^^ haha i did bro. Ya I don't have time for this shit. It's gonna really mess her up of I just bounce right away... I'll just make excuses for not bein able to chill anymore and eventually she'll loose interest. Goddamn did she turn me on tho.

Ill let u guys know what happens.

Being honest and dignified with her is too much for you? Please...be a man, dude.

Ima fuck her now, just cause u said that

I agree with hiplove. Want a blowjob, you joined the right career path. Plenty more where that came from, I was a military spouse 5 years and the guys are rarely faithful there's so many girls who get off from the uniform. Six years is a huge age difference, until she hits 25...then not as much of a big deal.
If you're a Libra and all about balance and fairness, then don't just say it...do it. You say something mature as BGP quoted, then turn around and act like a middle-schooler who saw his teacher's boobs "bro". Grow up and treat her with the same respect you'd want your sister to be treated with.

U guys are right. She needs sombody who isn't such an asshole.. I'll tell her tonite that this isn't gonna work.

I just really wanted sombody, and she felt right to me

You two are on different chapters, maybe from the same book. Wouldn't hurt to keep in touch, but don't lead her on. "You two will either end up as great friends who grow to respect one another, drift apart or hell, maybe this could be the beginning a new and romantic relationship." (hiplove)
Don't go looking for love- you will NEVER find it. But when you least expect, it WILL find you. I guarantee. 😉