Another perspective from taurus...

Part 1..Ok still new to this site so I have to figure it out..the first paragraph is how I am with my Taurus friend the second is the question...so in case its too long skip...I have a Taurus friend, lets call her Vanessa,who ive known for three yrs now...we work together so I see her everyday..she helped me through some rough patches in my life and we became really close friends..along the way I fell in love with her...and I mean like nothing I have ever experienced in my life...I was going out with friends,family,college, work and yet she was always on my mind..we kissed once...nothing serious...problem was when I told her my feelings she was unfortunately already in a relationship...she always said she liked me...that of course broke my heart..but yet even though she knew I felt like this shes stayed friends with me...which I m happy I didn't scare her away because she completes me...of course im disappointed but she was and is my rock and it really hurts it cant be more...the only other problem we have had was that she lives an hour away so meeting after work is a bit difficult...I love her so much...id do anything for her.. I do respect the fact shes in a relationship..i want her to be happy and if shes happy w this person I wouldn't want it any other way....

Part2..now to the trouble..five months ago a virgo girl started working at our office..Vanessa helped her because she was in a bind etc..helped the girl get a car apartment everything...she nice like that with people..one of the reasons I love her..she and this girl started hanging out and pretty much the girl still owes Vanessa money for the car etc...but in installment..well this girl out of no where starts acting strange around me and tells me shes going to pick me up for a party with Vanessa..i say where she says ill just pick u up...next day..never does..and then when I see them at work virgo walks right up to me and says.."im sorry I never picked u up or called I did laundry all day" I said no problem its ok...Vanessa all happy walks over and starts mentioning what they did the previous night and how funny the virgo was etc..the virgo looked shocked that Vanessa told me..and im sure my face showed the anger i felt...Vanessa saw my face and looked confused..i told her later but she didn't seem to want to hear it..anyway from that day forward they hang out everyday..this girl even becomes close to Vanessas partner and they hang out often...go to parties etc..and Vanessa out of know wher

"Sorry cut me off..lol..heres the rest" states how the virgo simply doesn't like me..and starts saying things to me like..im no fun and am a dark cloud etc..she NEVER used these words bfore and I hear them from the virgos mouth often..this particular virgo I don't trust...and tbh I don't trust her with Vanessa also..she still hasn't paid her back..and has constant money problems as she spends on unnesscary things..Vanessa tries to organize the virgos way of handling money...I mean so far this girl lied spread rumors around the office about me and almost hurt my friendship with Vanessa...but Vanessa confuses me...cause she will ignore me all day at work to a hurtful degree and then at night txt or call me about simple things...and if I want to go for coffee or something she always goes...but idk..I love her but I m not sure where she stands as she acts odd at work..shes completely change her behavior at work...and never invites me to anything...we r suppose to meet up tomorrow..but I initiated that..so any input? From a different perspective how would you interpret vanessas behavior? Im sorry this is so long..geeze I thought for sure I could be more brief..

Grow up.

sorry...my virgo best friend, of course not the one in the text,having a critical eye noted something..thank god..just in case people take it personally I only referred to the girl as "virgo" because I didn't know what to call her...ill definatly use a name or something in the future as its not fair to just generalize signs..sorry again...

Posted by andsssssss
vanessa sounds slaggy. kissing other dudes when she has a bf. smh!

it wasn't what you think..we didn't kiss like that...it was more a peck..and im not a dude..😉

Posted by airfive

Posted by andsssssss
vanessa sounds slaggy. kissing other dudes when she has a bf. smh!

..and im not a dude..😉

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and the plot thickens...............

If you like where you work, I would run away from this..

Boyfriends
Car Loans
Confused
Work
Lying
Secrets

Very very messy

+1 to these three comments above me! Couldn't have said it better! Thanks for the help ladies 😉

@Ulalume...yea I do find myself very protective of Vanessa because I do love her and don't want anything bad around her...however although I feel this way my Libra self does stay out of it...or at least I think its the libra part..lol...
@Milkysoft...I actually have stayed out of it...I mentioned it to Vanessa the one time and when she didn't want to hear it I never mentioned it again...I just dealt with the crap at work and minded my business...yea it hurts she'll ignore me at work but like I said she always calls at the end of the day or messeges me...we never talk about work usually just what shes been up to or where shes shopped or what her and her partner are doing but she never mentions the "other girl" directly..she usually implies they went shopping or whatever but I wont ask and because of this she usually quickly changes subject..she will mention her and will look at me...and im like ok?...I mean whats the point of telling me shes hanging out with the other girl?..idk...other than that I stay out of it..

-rainbow taurus-...-fabulous taurus?...no...taurus...just taurus like the rest- lol 🙂

Posted by scorchedearth
i am a rainbow taurus. woot. 😄

i'm the wrong kind of gay to be fabulous though.

I don't even have a rainbow. it's all about the bromance 😉 haha

Posted by andsssssss

Posted by scorchedearth

Posted by andsssssss
vanessa sounds slaggy. kissing other dudes when she has a bf. smh!

leave it to the heterosexual to assume everyone else is straight. smh. 😛

lol i did think there was something catty about the whole back stabbing she said she said stuff but my guess was an effeminate man! 😛

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OMG! you guys are too much..lol..:-)