Tauruses and long term affairs

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by miimii on Tuesday, December 10, 2013 and has 10 replies.

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@miimii
13 Years

Why would tauruses participate in long term affairs if they are known to be faithful? Ok a two in one question: the reason some taurus women wait and be the other woman for a really long time is because they feel that the guy is worth it? Or is it the relunctance to let someone go after catching feelings?

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@Taurusgirl3
13 Years

I would never be the other women. It's a dead end. I'd never steal a man from another women. I'd never be able to trust him. Another dead end.

Maybe this women was just messing around (she could have been bored or lonely) and got in to deep with her feelings. Maybe she feels she's helping him or that he needs her. Who knows. Not good or healthy.

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@TaurusBull1977
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by miimii
the reason some taurus women wait and be the other woman for a really long time is because they feel that the guy is worth it?

I would NEVER be the other woman.
Too much pride, self-respect, integrity and grace to even consider the prospect of being the other woman.
What's mine is mine. Never been the sharing type.

A cheating man is a cheating scumbag, with no scruples, no consideration and a selfish piece of shit.

I have a strong belief system.

A man who lacked morals would NEVER be in my radar.

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Taurus men are men and do what many men do.
Involved in multiple sexual affairs.
Then one day he see's the "one," dumps the rest and get's married. And some keep those side women as back up.
Not because she was the best of the lot but because it's time to get married and he saw her as wife material.
Men have a clock for marriage and children too.

Many people are already in relationships before they move on to the next.
Kinda sucks to have to jump those hurdles before you find your home.

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@miimii
13 Years

The reason I asked was because a taurus girl was with my ex for almost a year before he had to make a decision (of course I found out later). That had to take some patience.

I have a guy friend who's mother has been with her married lover for 10 years. They even took family portraits together.

Then the guy I was seeing is still pursuing me heavily after moving his child's mother in his home.

Every astrology book or site says that taurus are loyal and faithful. Maybe these people are the exceptions...idk

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@miimii
13 Years

Posted by gnarvar
I'm sure I will get jumped for this one but..

I am the other woman. It's a very complicated situation that didn't start out to be an affair. He's a very long time friend of mine, we have had mutual feelngs for eachother for years but both have been hurt so bad in the past that we didn't let anything come of it. After losing touch for a few years, both of us ended up in bad marriages. It sort of happened..support. It has only gotten physical twice, which I have ended. But we are emotionally supportive of one another.

I feel I am helping him stay strong while he tries to figure out what it is he wants to do, poor Cancer is beyond miserable.

He feels he's helping me stay strong through my divorce and helping me see that there are good men out there, regardless of the situation.

Would u trust him not to cheat on u if you all were having problems? No judgement...just a question

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@miimii
13 Years

Maybe that's it. Being unevolved could be their issue as they are fairly young. But my friends mother is well into her 40s so idk.