Anyone else have Mars in Cancer?

The debilitated mars sign so I've recently learned what's your thoughts or experiences on this?

eh I'm okay with my cancer mars...altho it is a bit of a hassle to get motivated. I've realized that when it comes to working with family, I get super passionate and fired up to get it done and done right. But when it comes to doing something for myself, I take forever and ever.

I've been thinking about starting a business for years. I've had everything mapped out for years and I'm just now getting it on its feet *sigh* I need a Cap mars. I think this may have to do with me being more motivated by a sense of responsibility to others than myself...cause I know I can't disappoint myself.
I'm fired up about my business now because I know I have people depending on me.

It's weird, I think the secret is finding out what motivates you or scares you.lol

Other than the fluctuating motivation levels, I don't really mind the issues that come with a Cancers mars. For instance, I like that I get attached, especially after sex.

I hate it!!!!!!!!!!ugg..hard to get ova failed relationships..

Posted by Loganwise
The debilitated mars sign so I've recently learned what's your thoughts or experiences on this?

Debilitated maybe in past long years, nowadays, specialy for men, is good, where physical strengh is not always the main issue.

We avoid much better then everyone else. In Physical confrontation we will be always the best avoiders to get a punch.

And with family, we are family men, we do and we are capable of doing all things that women do at home.

Posted by RoseTheTaurus
eh I'm okay with my cancer mars...altho it is a bit of a hassle to get motivated. I've realized that when it comes to working with family, I get super passionate and fired up to get it done and done right. But when it comes to doing something for myself, I take forever and ever.

I've been thinking about starting a business for years. I've had everything mapped out for years and I'm just now getting it on its feet *sigh* I need a Cap mars. I think this may have to do with me being more motivated by a sense of responsibility to others than myself...cause I know I can't disappoint myself.
I'm fired up about my business now because I know I have people depending on me.

It's weird, I think the secret is finding out what motivates you or scares you.lol

Other than the fluctuating motivation levels, I don't really mind the issues that come with a Cancers mars. For instance, I like that I get attached, especially after sex.

😆 I get that too... I just figured I pace myself at a much slower rate than others or things just come to me late in life...

mmm recently I find myself not really getting attached after sex, I think I'm interested and afterwards I just don't feel the same way... the right person hasn't come along I guess.

My Mars is on Cancer.
So far majority of the comments posted is accurate, spot on.

Ugh...I do and I absolutely HATE it in matters of the heart. When I REALLY like someone (which is rare). I can never approach my feelings head on. Already being a virgo and therefore emotionless (not really) it always makes it seem like I dont care. Which is the exact opposite. I'm usually soo overwhelmed by my feelings that it renders me immobile. Its sooo frustrating. On top of that when I fall...I PLUMMET and it takes the jaws of life to get me to let go. I've currently plummeted for a taurus who also has his mars in cancer and it is NOT pretty...

My taurus friend has his mars in cancer. When we first reconnected he said six months before he wasnt motivated to do much of anything at all. I wouldnt have thought it could possibly be due to his mars sign.

He is so confusing. I can never tell what that dude is really feeling. He recently came over and said he wanted to talk, but we never did. We never do...we just keep sweeping things under the rug. Its like he Is frozen when it comes to speaking about what he REALLY feels or whats bothering him. I just want him to get there before he explodes. I dont know the best way to get him to open up.

Ohhh how I feel for you...the only thing more frustrating than a virgo w/ cancer mars is a taurus w/ cancer mars. Honestly we are both emotionally retarded. I can have an entire symphony of beautiful emotions that I want to convey to him but for whatever reason I can never get them out... best I've come up with is "I like your shoes" I really don't get why that doesn't translate into I'm madly in love with you.

The truth is you can't get him to open up and the more you try the more he'll resist. But the taurus I'm dealing with seems to open up a lot when he's out of town (something to do with the distance I think) and then he'll ranndomly open up when you least expect and say some incredibly real ish in a roundabout way that makes you wish you were recording him so you could back to your lair and decipher what the hell he just said.

Posted by fembot
Ugh...I do and I absolutely HATE it in matters of the heart. When I REALLY like someone (which is rare). I can never approach my feelings head on. Already being a virgo and therefore emotionless (not really) it always makes it seem like I dont care. Which is the exact opposite. I'm usually soo overwhelmed by my feelings that it renders me immobile. Its sooo frustrating. On top of that when I fall...I PLUMMET and it takes the jaws of life to get me to let go. I've currently plummeted for a taurus who also has his mars in cancer and it is NOT pretty...

This is me... that's how my cancer in mars effects me at least. I really don't know how to express my feelings and I'll let key opportunities pass me by, by the time im ready to really go for something i've waited too long. I have the most indirect approach to anyone im interested in and I pay for it by being stuck.

Posted by Loganwise

Posted by fembot
Ugh...I do and I absolutely HATE it in matters of the heart. When I REALLY like someone (which is rare). I can never approach my feelings head on. Already being a virgo and therefore emotionless (not really) it always makes it seem like I dont care. Which is the exact opposite. I'm usually soo overwhelmed by my feelings that it renders me immobile. Its sooo frustrating. On top of that when I fall...I PLUMMET and it takes the jaws of life to get me to let go. I've currently plummeted for a taurus who also has his mars in cancer and it is NOT pretty...

This is me... that's how my cancer in mars effects me at least. I really don't know how to express my feelings and I'll let key opportunities pass me by, by the time im ready to really go for something i've waited too long. I have the most indirect approach to anyone im interested in and I pay for it by being stuck.

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Posted by Loganwise

Posted by fembot
Ugh...I do and I absolutely HATE it in matters of the heart. When I REALLY like someone (which is rare). I can never approach my feelings head on. Already being a virgo and therefore emotionless (not really) it always makes it seem like I dont care. Which is the exact opposite. I'm usually soo overwhelmed by my feelings that it renders me immobile. Its sooo frustrating. On top of that when I fall...I PLUMMET and it takes the jaws of life to get me to let go. I've currently plummeted for a taurus who also has his mars in cancer and it is NOT pretty...

This is me... that's how my cancer in mars effects me at least. I really don't know how to express my feelings and I'll let key opportunities pass me by, by the time im ready to really go for something i've waited too long. I have the most indirect approach to anyone im interested in and I pay for it by being stuck.

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~nods~ yeeeah...

I am a cancer with a cancer mars and all of this pretty much sums me up. Except, I am in LOVE with the idea of love, if I'm in the correct mood. However, I don't take much interest in a person until I get to know them. And once I do get to know them, I have been known to become a little bit of a stalker. And STUCK, I always feel so stuck and unmotivated to do anything. And for whatever reason, I was even more stuck when I was with my aries ex. Still though, I am able to come up with beautiful and poetic words for my feelings but once the time comes to say those words, I can't. If I do have the courage, I can't say it without a smile on my face which makes others feel as if I'm not serious. How unlucky...

@Impulsv the bull I'm dealing with has the exact same placements. Not sure if the venus is square though.