ConfusedAries2016
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Aries really confused by a Taurus advice please?
Also anytime were together he's all over me. I feel like he never really tried to talk to me in person but kiss me. But he does call me and we talk for an hour each time. Is this how Taurus guys are? I literally haven't even known him for a week.
Do you like him and if so just take it slow. Taurus are slow then speeds up alittle depending on emotions. Taurus will test you at some point and wonder if you would be alittle impatience and start demanding. See two ego will clash one will want to slow and build then move quickly into what they feel and think at the time. So right now he said not ready and maybe enjoys the company, but you have to keep doing you for you and your kids only. Then see if he meshes well with you first most important lesson. Take the time to get to know. It might be a struggle of emotions on both parts.
Thanks. I do like him a lot. When he's not just talking about sex and I get to know him I like him.
But the problem I'm having is I can't tell if he just wants sex because it seems to be the only thing he talks about with me or tries to do.
It doesn't seem like he's moving very slow and I heard Taurus do that.. Unless he just wants one thing..
But the problem I'm having is I can't tell if he just wants sex because it seems to be the only thing he talks about with me or tries to do.
It doesn't seem like he's moving very slow and I heard Taurus do that.. Unless he just wants one thing..
How would you feel if this person sorta says exactly how you met him and barely changed later in life would you still like him and move forward later in life when he is ready?
So you're not ready for sex but he may. Well what's your mars, moon, and mercury?
Or maybe he's testing you to see how quick to get in the bed?
My moon is Aquarius and his moon is Scorpio. I'm not sure the rest.
Honestly I really do want to sleep with him. I'm holding back because I'm scared that's all he wants.
Honestly I really do want to sleep with him. I'm holding back because I'm scared that's all he wants.
His Mercury is Aries, and his Mars is a Capricorn.
My Mercury is Pisces, and my Mars is Taurus.
I'm not really sure what any of that means though.
My Mercury is Pisces, and my Mars is Taurus.
I'm not really sure what any of that means though.
Oops *his Mercury is Aries, and his Mars Capricorn
Do think he's testing me? Because he's coming on really strong
I'm Aqua moon, mars in Taurus, and sun in Taurus.
So it's can move quick or you can take it easy and put the brakes on. Excitement then reality sets in like do I want someone who jumps in the sack right away.
So it's can move quick or you can take it easy and put the brakes on. Excitement then reality sets in like do I want someone who jumps in the sack right away.
If you are Aries omg yall sexy beast I would have a hard time composing myself from not jumping the bones to quickly. Lucky I have earth to slow down and may even flirt with you and be very playful and airy.
But it's like I would want to build a relationship up starting with a foundation of them being friends first. And not jump right away no matter the spark. The spark could leave fairly quickly too.
But if you both single and just want fun no strings. Then go for it.
If this is something to work at for long term start friendship first by getting to know each other, red flags, flaws, then sexual, mental, physical, emotional support from each other how you should be treated by both parties.
But if you both single and just want fun no strings. Then go for it.
If this is something to work at for long term start friendship first by getting to know each other, red flags, flaws, then sexual, mental, physical, emotional support from each other how you should be treated by both parties.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Lol maybe that's why. Because I'm an Aries? I don't know.. It freaked me out a little that he's never had a long term relationship and the fact that I have kids.
If you are Aries omg yall sexy beast I would have a hard time composing myself from not jumping the bones to quickly. Lucky I have earth to slow down and may even flirt with you and be very playful and airy.
I am very sexual but not with everybody and I want to know for sure if that's all he wants.
It looks like he has Mars/Aries but I don't know what that means.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428I really do like him. And I want this to lead to something so it worries me jumping into bed so quick. And I thought Taurus were slow.. So it makes me think he just wants sex.
But it's like I would want to build a relationship up starting with a foundation of them being friends first. And not jump right away no matter the spark. The spark could leave fairly quickly too.
But if you both single and just want fun no strings. Then go for it.
If this is something to work at for long term start friendship first by getting to know each other, red flags, flaws, then sexual, mental, physical, emotional support from each other how you should be treated by both parties.
Posted by ConfusedAries2016Does he have a fire Venus?? It sounds like he does which may be why he wants to jump your bones right away. Honestly from what you say, it seems like you are being more honest with him than he is being with you maybe. You've got two kids and you have responsibilities. He says he wants to be more financially secure, which, as another Taurus, I do understand. But when you began to withdraw, which made sense, he tells you you're taking it the wrong way etc. etc.
I met a Taurus at work. When we first met he said he's been eyeing me for weeks but that was the first time I remember seeing him.
He's 30 and hasn't had a longer relationship than 10 months. Maybe that's not something to judge but since I've met him it's been hard to figure out if he just wants sex or not.
I have two young kids and I don't want to go into something with that being the only thing on his mind.
The second day meeting him he kissed me in the car. He came to my house and we had agreed before that we wouldn't do anything. I was hoping to get to know him more but we spent the whole night kissing but we didn't do anything more. That night he told me that since I have two kids and my situation that it would be a lot to start a relationship in the future and he's not ready for one because he needs to be spiritually right with himself first. His honesty was awesome to me and that was one thing about him I found really refreshing to begin with. The next day we talked and I explained that because he feels that way, for me there's no point in starting anything because down the line I do want something more. He was sad about it and we talked later and he said I took it the wrong way.
That he needed to be financially stable first to start a relationship. Anyway because of him initially telling me this I feel like he just wants sex. But he does little sweet things to. It's really hard to pin point what his true intentions are.
He did say that he's loyal and he wouldn't be sleeping with anybody else.
Do Taurus guys always want to jump right into bed and do they stay after? I'm worried about getting hurt. We were talking earlier on the phone and he wanted to come over and it wasn't a good time and then he said do you want to have fun at work tomorrow.. Like go to his house on break and sleep with him.
Sometimes I can be gullible but a part of me thinks maybe he's just a really sexual person because of the little sweet things he does. Then another part of me is getting the impression he's doing these things because he realizes I'm not just going to jump into bed with him.
I'm sorry this is so long. I'm just really confused.
He sounds like he wants you around and isn't really respecting what you know you want and what's right for you in this relationship.
He just wants sex. End of story.
" he told me that since I have two kids and my situation that it would be a lot to start a relationship in the future and he's not ready for one because he needs to be spiritually right with himself first" And " he said I took it the wrong way. That he needed to be financially stable first to start a relationship"
When people tell you their intentions at the beginning, listen to them. If you have sex with him you'll get feelings. You already know this about yourself. And when you tell him you want more he will say:
I told you I'm not ready for a relationship because you have kids, spiritual issue (eyeroll) and financially unstable......... which is true. He has told you these things. You should believe him. People who only want sex are also capable of being nice & doing nice things, don't read into that because he's not doing mean things to you while hinting for sex. Of course he's being nice, he's trying to have sex! lol
Lastly, I also have an Aries Merc... I am blunt, I don't have much of a filter & I see no point in lying. So my advice is to keep things very strictly platonic friendly which means no make out sessions. Believe what he's telling you even if it's not really what you want to hear.
" he told me that since I have two kids and my situation that it would be a lot to start a relationship in the future and he's not ready for one because he needs to be spiritually right with himself first" And " he said I took it the wrong way. That he needed to be financially stable first to start a relationship"
When people tell you their intentions at the beginning, listen to them. If you have sex with him you'll get feelings. You already know this about yourself. And when you tell him you want more he will say:
I told you I'm not ready for a relationship because you have kids, spiritual issue (eyeroll) and financially unstable......... which is true. He has told you these things. You should believe him. People who only want sex are also capable of being nice & doing nice things, don't read into that because he's not doing mean things to you while hinting for sex. Of course he's being nice, he's trying to have sex! lol
Lastly, I also have an Aries Merc... I am blunt, I don't have much of a filter & I see no point in lying. So my advice is to keep things very strictly platonic friendly which means no make out sessions. Believe what he's telling you even if it's not really what you want to hear.
Aqua moon doesn't get feelings though and mars in Taurus will eventually just casually drop off and detachm
Thank you all for your replies. I know it seems like the obvious and it seems like he just wants sex.
And maybe astrology isn't everything when it comes to guys,, but being a Taurus don't they usually take it slow and aren't they usually honest?
About the two kids... He said he thought about it and if he was to fall madly in love with me he realizes that comes as a package deal. I just like him a lot but I don't want to sleep with him and him go away. I'm confused 😢
And maybe astrology isn't everything when it comes to guys,, but being a Taurus don't they usually take it slow and aren't they usually honest?
About the two kids... He said he thought about it and if he was to fall madly in love with me he realizes that comes as a package deal. I just like him a lot but I don't want to sleep with him and him go away. I'm confused 😢
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Aqua moon doesn't get feelings? Honestly I used to think I was a cap moon but it's either cap or Aquarian. I don't know the exact time I was born. But I definitely get feelings if I care for somebody.
Aqua moon doesn't get feelings though and mars in Taurus will eventually just casually drop off and detachm
Posted by RiverLeeThe thing with the "spiritual" quote. He had a rough past and went through a lot. Hes going through the 12 steps and I guess he met that's what they do in meetings. I get what your saying and honestly maybe I am being an idiot. I was just reading that Taurus are really sexual and I was justifying why he was being so sexual. I know two kids are a lot when you date somebody so I sucked it up to him just having to think about it. Which he said he did and if we fell in love he could deal with it. And I was also reading that Taurus don't lie so I didn't think he would.
He just wants sex. End of story.
" he told me that since I have two kids and my situation that it would be a lot to start a relationship in the future and he's not ready for one because he needs to be spiritually right with himself first" And " he said I took it the wrong way. That he needed to be financially stable first to start a relationship"
When people tell you their intentions at the beginning, listen to them. If you have sex with him you'll get feelings. You already know this about yourself. And when you tell him you want more he will say:
I told you I'm not ready for a relationship because you have kids, spiritual issue (eyeroll) and financially unstable......... which is true. He has told you these things. You should believe him. People who only want sex are also capable of being nice & doing nice things, don't read into that because he's not doing mean things to you while hinting for sex. Of course he's being nice, he's trying to have sex! lol
Lastly, I also have an Aries Merc... I am blunt, I don't have much of a filter & I see no point in lying. So my advice is to keep things very strictly platonic friendly which means no make out sessions. Believe what he's telling you even if it's not really what you want to hear.
Posted by Redoctober2000Thank you. I'm going through a divorce. My ex husband left 6 months ago for a married coworker and I know I'm probably still emotionally vulnerable. It's been hard dealing with everything and I do want to take it slow and not jump into bed with him. It just felt nice to have somebody seem to care so much.
Regardless of sun sign, don't just jump into bed with any man you meet.
Have a set of strong values especially as you also have children. Get a strong friendship going first before jumping into bed with a person. Develop a friendship and you will learn everything you need to know about the Taurus as he will trust you enough to tell you.
He has told you he is not ready for a relationship. So if you are looking for a relationship (you are both on different pages and not singing from the same hymn sheet), then you need to 1) keep a platonic friendship with him 2) find a guy suitable who does want a relationship
I suggest do not put your life on hold for this Taurus. If down rhe Road is Life he changes his mind and is ready for a relationship he will find you... Friendship will always be the key to the heart of a Taurus.
Posted by ConfusedAries2016Even if you do get feelings takes along time or relatively short time getting to know someone else and we aqua moon study human behavior and thought process really well.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Aqua moon doesn't get feelings? Honestly I used to think I was a cap moon but it's either cap or Aquarian. I don't know the exact time I was born. But I definitely get feelings if I care for somebody.
Aqua moon doesn't get feelings though and mars in Taurus will eventually just casually drop off and detachmclick to expand
Only you know how to be treated like.
Posted by ConfusedAries2016Well he's right. Having some personal knowledge about 12 step groups, you aren't supposed to get involved with anyone romantically for at least a year. Relationships can be a distraction which isn't needed when trying to sort through whatever brought you to addiction & in that way relationships can become the addiction/distraction. It isn't only Taurus that is sexual, most people are sexual. When I meet a man that's attracted to me it's a given that at some point his goal is to have sex, otherwise we'd be platonic friends and nothing more. That doesn't mean I appreciate the focus of conversations being about sex the majority of the time. To me that's a turn off, it feels disrespectful. When the focus is sex that says to me that he's not interested in getting to know who I am as a person but is mostly interested in getting to know my vagina. It's not something I can make excuses for.Posted by RiverLeeThe thing with the "spiritual" quote. He had a rough past and went through a lot. Hes going through the 12 steps and I guess he met that's what they do in meetings. I get what your saying and honestly maybe I am being an idiot. I was just reading that Taurus are really sexual and I was justifying why he was being so sexual. I know two kids are a lot when you date somebody so I sucked it up to him just having to think about it. Which he said he did and if we fell in love he could deal with it. And I was also reading that Taurus don't lie so I didn't think he would.
He just wants sex. End of story.
" he told me that since I have two kids and my situation that it would be a lot to start a relationship in the future and he's not ready for one because he needs to be spiritually right with himself first" And " he said I took it the wrong way. That he needed to be financially stable first to start a relationship"
When people tell you their intentions at the beginning, listen to them. If you have sex with him you'll get feelings. You already know this about yourself. And when you tell him you want more he will say:
I told you I'm not ready for a relationship because you have kids, spiritual issue (eyeroll) and financially unstable......... which is true. He has told you these things. You should believe him. People who only want sex are also capable of being nice & doing nice things, don't read into that because he's not doing mean things to you while hinting for sex. Of course he's being nice, he's trying to have sex! lol
Lastly, I also have an Aries Merc... I am blunt, I don't have much of a filter & I see no point in lying. So my advice is to keep things very strictly platonic friendly which means no make out sessions. Believe what he's telling you even if it's not really what you want to hear.
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Well, I don't know him in person but based from what you said it seems he is serious about you, if he doesn't want the relationship to end. If a player knew a woman had kids, he would never even start anything with her. If he were to manipulate a woman with kids, he would use her for her money, and constantly ask for favors. Now once he starts getting into your wallet, then it's over lolol. But in Mr Bull's case, If he's that determined to wait to be able to be financially stable by working his way up, then he's not using you or anything. So I would say yes, he's more likely to be serious with you. It seems like the reason why his relationships only lasted for 10 months is because Taureans are generally very observant and end relationships if they don't find the right person. They take their time looking for someone who they want to spend longer years with, if that makes sense? I'm a Taurus female, and it's also very difficult for me to fall in love. When I feel like I don't really "love" the person I am dating, then I break it off. It's cold, I know, but I never cheat. It's just a way of staying true to what I look for in love instead of forcing myself into a relationship that won't work for me.
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He's 30 and hasn't had a longer relationship than 10 months. Maybe that's not something to judge but since I've met him it's been hard to figure out if he just wants sex or not.
I have two young kids and I don't want to go into something with that being the only thing on his mind.
The second day meeting him he kissed me in the car. He came to my house and we had agreed before that we wouldn't do anything. I was hoping to get to know him more but we spent the whole night kissing but we didn't do anything more. That night he told me that since I have two kids and my situation that it would be a lot to start a relationship in the future and he's not ready for one because he needs to be spiritually right with himself first. His honesty was awesome to me and that was one thing about him I found really refreshing to begin with. The next day we talked and I explained that because he feels that way, for me there's no point in starting anything because down the line I do want something more. He was sad about it and we talked later and he said I took it the wrong way.
That he needed to be financially stable first to start a relationship. Anyway because of him initially telling me this I feel like he just wants sex. But he does little sweet things to. It's really hard to pin point what his true intentions are.
He did say that he's loyal and he wouldn't be sleeping with anybody else.
Do Taurus guys always want to jump right into bed and do they stay after? I'm worried about getting hurt. We were talking earlier on the phone and he wanted to come over and it wasn't a good time and then he said do you want to have fun at work tomorrow.. Like go to his house on break and sleep with him.
Sometimes I can be gullible but a part of me thinks maybe he's just a really sexual person because of the little sweet things he does. Then another part of me is getting the impression he's doing these things because he realizes I'm not just going to jump into bed with him.
I'm sorry this is so long. I'm just really confused.