Attraction for a Taurus girl, how do I win her over?

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Hey there!

I have recently became attracted to a Taurus girl I used to be very close friends with. We didn't talk for just over a year, we have been talking again for about a week now, just general catch up stuff. I want to pursue a relationship with her but I am not sure how to. I had similar feelings for her a while back but she shot me down, twice, in favour for other men who treated her like crap. It was actually one of these boyfriends that stopped me talking to her. I've never really taken this kind of thing too seriously because I had problems within my family and my studies, but I want to seriously pursue a relationship with her but I don't know how to "play it"(Sorry, didn't know how else to put it, inner gamer release). I've never been in one and compared to other men we mutually know, I am unattractive.

Is there any hope for me, if so, how should I go about it? If it helps, I'm a sun Pisces, moon Aries and ascendant Scorpio.
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Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Perhaps she is just not attracted to you if she is putting other men before you....

You may like her but it does not seem as if you "light her fire"...
I've been doing a lot of thinking. I think your right. But there is something magnetic about her, something I don't understand. It peaks my curiosity, I want to know why she is so and in my musings, my old feelings for her resurfaced. I tried to kill them and bury them again, but it isn't working. This was posted in the "rush" so to speak. I've decided to just leave them be for now, and if she wants me, then she can come for me. Perhaps I'm just living in the past.
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Posted by Ownard
Hey there!

I have recently became attracted to a Taurus girl I used to be very close friends with. We didn't talk for just over a year, we have been talking again for about a week now, just general catch up stuff. I want to pursue a relationship with her but I am not sure how to. I had similar feelings for her a while back but she shot me down, twice, in favour for other men who treated her like crap. It was actually one of these boyfriends that stopped me talking to her. I've never really taken this kind of thing too seriously because I had problems within my family and my studies, but I want to seriously pursue a relationship with her but I don't know how to "play it"(Sorry, didn't know how else to put it, inner gamer release). I've never been in one and compared to other men we mutually know, I am unattractive.

Is there any hope for me, if so, how should I go about it? If it helps, I'm a sun Pisces, moon Aries and ascendant Scorpio.
as a side note, do you date? (not her, but other women)
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Posted by Ownard
Posted by jeane


as a side note, do you date? (not her, but other women)
No, I don't, I'm new to all this stuff.
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hmm, it's difficult because i don't know how guys go about this. maybe post something in the man cave, talk to any level headed friends you might have, maybe older male relatives. i suspect most guys just fumble their way until they get there though.

first thing first, you should work on your confidence. stop playing games, get out of your room and join a group. i don't know what they may have in your area but there are likely to be lots of things people who want to make friends can join. i wouldn't worry so much about trying to land someone just yet, just get yourself familiar with how things work and start interacting more. you seem like a smart guy, you'll be able to formulate your best plan of attack once you know how this kind of game works.