Can someone help me with this situation?

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Yamanashi
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Get her fired simple as that, u gotta win this! Dunno why ure still mulling over this trivial thing when u can jst file in a complaint and thats it! Cos ure not doing anything to tell her to fck off thats why ure getting all this bs from her. She thinks she can do things to u without consequences.. Obviously u need to show her a lesson from the getgo, so she wont do it again. Who gives a sh1t about friendship with that vanessa, she obv doesnt know who's gud or not, trying to stay in her own happylala land while ure evidently suffering? Leave that type of friend u dnt need em, stay casual wif em, make new better friends.
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Astrobyn
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You're all you reasons you laid out for wanting to get this bitch fired, are all the wrong reasons. You're using her inadequate work history as an excuse for your personal problems. Totally unprofessional of you, so its really none of your business. She works in a different department than you, and she's not really effecting your productivity or anything you have to do to earn a paycheck. My advice, mind your own, because its likely to backfire on you.

It doesn't matter how many times you tell the same story, it all comes across he same way. So stop hoping for a different answer, and digest what folks are saying to you.
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Astrobyn
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Ummm I wasn't even talking about "Vanessa".

You're not getting advice from the Virgo perspective because Astrology speaking I doubt that's the primary influence of what your describing.

You say she doesn't leave you alone? So she goes up to people you know and are friends with and becomes friends with them? How is she causing you grief? You haven't described anything that would make me think that you are not the main cause of your own grief. You are letting this person affect you, and I'm all about taking responsibility for what you can control.

Maybe your just not describing this well. By all means please post what you would put in your official complaint. And I will give you my honest opinion, if you want it.
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Astrobyn
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Ok these are the things she has done, not what your contemplating reporting.

If you have an incident to report than do so. But you are not her manager so most of those things on that list are petty and not your responsibility.

If you see her doing these things, report it then so it can be handled properly. Don't wait till its harder to prove it, when its someones word against another(s). The longer you wait the easier it is for her to get off.
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Astrobyn
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fyi, how you lay this out, sounds like your are trying to manipulate facts to an extent. I'm sure this is legitimately the way you feel, but from my perspective (Taurus) you don't need to add in all the extra to prove your point it only works against you.

I'm telling you this because of your other relationship. Taurus typically tend to be straight shooters, and that's how they like to receive things. I'm not going to argue this with you because its pointless, you obviously feel the way you feel. So that might give you a hint as to why Vanessa seems to not give a shit.