Posted by Krabss
maaan, i was trying to make up one, and i couldn't, then i googled american jokes, not one was funny, then on my own language even worse. it's simple, dads are not funny.
Posted by AstrobynPosted by Krabss
idk, my baby dady gave me yesterday a peper spray to have, to defend myself and our kid if i have to.
before he was a the biggest marker, and hired the most expensive lawyer to crush me. he lost ofc. and i had no lawyer. so be chill. be smart and don't lose your cool.
idk if that's a good joke, but it made me lol
But I getcha I could just show a picture of my baby daddy and be done.click to expand
Posted by Krabss
idk, my baby dady gave me yesterday a peper spray to have, to defend myself and our kid if i have to.
before he was a the biggest marker, and hired the most expensive lawyer to crush me. he lost ofc. and i had no lawyer. so be chill. be smart and don't lose your cool.
Posted by Krabss
i know zero dad jokes.
what is a department meeting? maybe i could make a joke if i had a context?
Posted by geminiwithataurusmanPosted by Astrobyn
He's invested more with this women than he has with you. what he has with you sounds more like maintaining obligations.
Taurus energy likes to build, not maintain.
You know that saying "they never leave their wives" I don't think that's true here, he's making her his wife.
Your friend sent you here to face the truth.
Thank you Astrobyn. Yes and I can take all of the raw aspects of it. so again thank you!
"maintaining obligations" that is something of kind of what my friend said. I mentioned to her our family vacations, family gatherings, even friends when they hosted couple nights, he attends with no problem. He even posts me on social media outlets. To me, I thought that was letting our friends and family know that what we have is solid. Yes our home life isn't peaches and all cream but to publicly display with outings, outlets, etc showed me something at least. Hope that we were ok. That we are ok.
"Taurus energy likes to build, not maintain" I would think our family is building with our 3 children but maybe my reality is not accurate
"Making her his wife"- That is wow. We have 3 children and history. I thought Taurus' were rooted in being slow and no to change. That is a huge change!
What do you think Astrobyn? Thank you for the truth bombs.click to expand
Posted by _elle_
It's really horrible. I have one son and family in a hotel until Saturday and another son and family sticking it out. They had power for a whole three hours today at their homes.
They are in North Austin.
Posted by FadedAri
In the affluent areas no power loss has occurred just the abnormal cold temperatures. But yes OP the whole scene of preparation has been sketchy with the lack of salt trucks for the roads as to power outages etc etc.
Posted by Prince_Pisces
It gets cold in Texas? What's the appeal then? I almost moved there for awhile because I was desperate for warm weather LOL!
Posted by PiscivorePosted by AstrobynPosted by Piscivore
There's really no need for this thread.
Your daughter is still a minor, who's highly impressionable and still very naive. In other words, emotionally, she's extremely vulnerable.
One of your roles, as a mother, is to protect your child from the harsh disappointments and realities of life. Yet, taking all this into account, you still want to cater towards to your daughter's rose-tinted vision of a father who she's never met.
That just leaves me to conclude that this isn't about your daughter, but more about you and what you want. Maybe this boils down to your Taurean stubbornness (especially knowing full well the likelihood of the outcome)? Or maybe you're trying to alleviate some guilt? I really have no idea but that's for you to figure out.
My advice would be to put the whole issue on the back-burner. Maybe the father will eventually take responsibility, maybe he won't. Until then, simply feed your daughter a little white lie - concoct a story that will put to bed the idea of meeting him in her head.
She's much too young to experience the crushing disappointment that may await her, so wait until she's older to handle it.
I forget how we like to use astral placements as weapons here.
I 100% disagree that it’s my job to protect her from harsh disappointments and realities of life. I believe it is my job to walk with her as I teach her how to face them and overcome them, to be prepared for the day she has to walk alone. That is very important to me, and I will never lie to her about this stuff, that butter create distrust, and I'm all she's got.
I appreciate you sharing your opinion, that is one way to look at it.
You weren't being attacked - I merely stated a possible fact (along with at least 90% of the post that didn't refer to astrology in any way). But go ahead and play victim. Knock yourself out!
Btw, I agree with the rest of your post BUT only after a certain age. IMHO, your daughter hasn't reached that stage yet. But, hey, different strokes.click to expand
Posted by Piscivore
There's really no need for this thread.
Your daughter is still a minor, who's highly impressionable and still very naive. In other words, emotionally, she's extremely vulnerable.
One of your roles, as a mother, is to protect your child from the harsh disappointments and realities of life. Yet, taking all this into account, you still want to cater towards to your daughter's rose-tinted vision of a father who she's never met.
That just leaves me to conclude that this isn't about your daughter, but more about you and what you want. Maybe this boils down to your Taurean stubbornness (especially knowing full well the likelihood of the outcome)? Or maybe you're trying to alleviate some guilt? I really have no idea but that's for you to figure out.
My advice would be to put the whole issue on the back-burner. Maybe the father will eventually take responsibility, maybe he won't. Until then, simply feed your daughter a little white lie - concoct a story that will put to bed the idea of meeting him in her head.
She's much too young to experience the crushing disappointment that may await her, so wait until she's older to handle it.