Cancer Girl in-like W/Taurus Boy =)

Hey everyone! I posted on this website about 8 months ago about a Pisces I was interested in. That didn't work out and while I still care about him(cos, you know us cancers...we never really let you go LOL!!) I know that we will never be. We are really just better off as friends and I'm ok with that. Why am I ok with that?? WELL COS I HAPPEN TO BE FALLING FOR A TAURUS =)

I'm not a Taurus but this sounds like a classic case. Be patient, be around. They take their time. You may have to make the move, but don't worry, he will let you know when it's "allowed". Hang in there, they are sooooooo worth it (HUGE GRIN!)

Just don't get too crabby around him. Bulls hate that.

Damn I think I'm as confused as he is lol! 😛

Hmmmmmmm.... —? ummmmm..... —? He's diggin' you 😛 but he's not rushing... He's being your friend most of all and if he ends up liking you enough, eventually he'll make a move... us bulls, so freaken slowwww moving, ummmm HoWevErrrR it doesn't mean that he willl definitely ever make a move. You just gotta do your thing and let time say...

In the past when I'm with someone or have been talking to someone I don't just get rid of them because things aren't perfect even if I like someone else. It's like... ? choosing a pair of old comfy shoes over a nice pair of shoes that haven't been tried on 😛 I've been guilty of maybe ummm leading two people on at the same time, so sorry to say... Doesn't mean all tauruses are like that of course. PATIENCE or make some sort of move yourself how 'bout that?
HEY FELLLOW BULLS CAN YOU THINK OF SOME MOVES MS.CANCER CAN MAKE THAT WON'T SCARE HIM OFF?

Ok maybe not scare him off but maybe retard the process even moooooore 😛

*watches with interest to see these "recommended" moves✨

Going to see the Taurus Guy this weekend. He is sooooooooooo gonna get jumped!

Hey...thanx for the advice guys, but seems like the boy was not very honest with me and I found out that he DOES have a steady girlfriend (with whom he sorta lives with) I was PISSED when I found out he lied, but then went into analyzation mode to try and figure out what was up. I tried to stay mad @ him, but it's useless since I am totally caught up in him and refuse to think that he meant to be sneaky. I think maybe he is 'interested in me', but is still with this girl and hasn't really decided whether or not he should leave a 'sure thing' for something he's not so sure about. Am I being delusiuonal? Why do I fall so hard for a guy only to end up with my heart on the floor?

"In the past when I'm with someone or have been talking to someone I don't just get rid of them because things aren't perfect even if I like someone else. It's like... ? choosing a pair of old comfy shoes over a nice pair of shoes that haven't been tried on I've been guilty of maybe ummm leading two people on at the same time, so sorry to say..."

Like I've said before. I hate to say it but I kinda doubt he'll leave her 😢 Us taurus won't just leave a 'sure thing' unless it's a tOtAlLy screwed up relationship. When we're unhappy or not totally satisfied we may look for someone else... kinda as back-up...? However, generally speaking and without reference to zodiac signs you have to understand that even when in a relationship (even a good one) you can't help being attracted to other people at times; that is not enough to leave the person who you've been with for some time.

I hate to hear that you're heart broken, I've been through that sadness and pain myself after finding out that my bf had another gf who he'd been with for a while... time makes it better... I know easier said than done. Keep us updated. How'd you find out?

Why did he lie, though? That's the part I don't understand. I mean, he should have realized that I would find out sooner or later. He could have just been honest and told me the truth and then I could have decided whether or not I wanted to continue whatever it is we were doing (flirting) or not, right? How did I find out you asked? Well...it's weird cos a few people told me in passing during the summer that he was attached and that he may be either engaged or living with someone. I never said anything to him and figured if he wanted to let me know, he would. Well, that day we had the conversation THAT HE STARTED about our situations, he told me what I wanted to hear - no steady GF and that was it. I believed him - why wouldn't I? So, like last week, he came into the office where I work and was putting a smoking patch on and I commented about him trying to quit smoking. The other girl who works in my office made some sarcastic remark about him trying to quit before and that he would fail again and I stuck up for him saying that at least he was trying. So, then she (the other girl) said "does she smoke?" and as soon as she said it, he looked at me and I can only imagine the look on my face. I was instantly hurt and I was trying my hardest not to let it show. He answered "she quit, but she still sneaks cos I've caught her blah blah blah" so..I stayed for a few mins then excused myself, went into the bathroom and started crying! AWFUL, I KNOW, but that's how I react when I feel rejected and hurt. I was REALLY MAD, but made every excuse under the sun as to why he lied to me (totally justifying it) and have continued a friendship/flirting relationship with him cos I just can't break away and plus we work together and I know you should NEVER start anything with someone you work with for this very reason. Anyway...that's where I am now. I know what you said is the truth and he will probably NEVER leave her. It makes me sad cos even though there are guys I like, I usually never really 'click' with any of them, but him & I 'click' there is just something there..something I haven't found in any guys since my last relationship ended 😢 I know there will be more, but they seem very few and far between. I'll keep you updated. We are invited to a b-day party for a co-worker next Friday night. He's going and he asked me if I was going. Should be interesting!

"I tried to stay mad @ him, but it's useless since I am totally caught up in him and refuse to think that he meant to be sneaky."

MOONMAIDEN! You are being masochistic...STOP IT! Stop it I say!

Aw, I know where she is at...you will stop it one day MM, takes a little while though.

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Oh I was just picking at her because we had a convo on the Cancer Board about how we are masochistic when it comes to guys we really love...they can do no wrong. I was trying to stop her before she put him up TOO high on the pedistal.

BE STRONG MM!