Hello about a month ago I met a guy online. He lives in Louisiana n I live in NY but I'm currently in FL. He made contact with me first, asked me for my number I gave it to him etc. The first few times that we text was weird. I was nonchalant n rude n didn't care much to talk to him (even tho I have him my #). When I wasn't being a jerk, he expressed to me that he wanted to get to know me, he wanted to start dating again and eventually be in a relationship. That completely changed my attitude n I instantly became interested. He would call me on his way home from work n we would talk about whatever came to mind. I told him that I was going through some things, lost my job n my apt n was just mad at the world. He offered me his home until I got on my feet but I kindly rejected n told him that I couldn't accept because I have 2 daughters n I didn't know him .. We talked about long distance relationships, marriage (I jokingly but serious at the same time asked him to marry me because I plan on joining the navy n his reaction was priceless, he was down lol) we talked about kids, having kids(4), he's a Jr so I told him that if I had a son I would want to name him after his dad n he said to me that he would if we got together had a son(whenever that would be .. Anyways we Spyked one time and "went to sleep together" lol who does that?! We got a little closer, he even expressed to me that things like that would make us like each other even more. I became a little attached. The next few days we weren't talking much (but that was normal) I got upset and sent him a msg saying that I didn't want to waste my time with him because I felt that he was playing games and not giving me the time of the day that I needed (mind you, he works all day and he doesn't get home until 10:30 11pm some times even later) and I also felt that he was playing games and not serious about us. All of this madness just because he would fall asleep while texting smh(he wasn't into texting but I would still text him, he was more into talking because over the phone, to him texting didn't feel real and he would fall asleep waiting on my replies which wasn't always right away). He was mad and felt disrespected by what I said, he sent me a msg and told me that I was being immature and not understanding and bla bla and he gave me the deuces, told me that he wasn't going to get all worked up with me because I couldn't understand what he was doing and bla bla. Told me to take care and that he hopes tha
CAPRICORN FEMALE DEALING WITH A TAURUS MAN.

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And just apologize, for pete's sake.
You've already told on yourself.
:/
And just apologize, for pete's sake.
You've already told on yourself.
:/

I never really get these reactions. By the OPs words, he told you basically what was going on to give you a heads up and you still get mad. How was he playing games? There must've been something else besides him not replying because he fell asleep...and nice way to cut him some slack for working his but off and trying to stay up when he's dead tired.
Yes, you were wrong and if you want to renew your friendship, you should approach him first and apologize.
Yes, you were wrong and if you want to renew your friendship, you should approach him first and apologize.
Yeah I realized that I was super wrong. I apologized right after then three days later (today) I called him twice and sent him a long message and I got no answer .. So I'm guessing that he is done so I have to let that go and move on. I really messed up dammit 😢

Chill...He's a complete stranger. Not sure what you expect from someone you don't know in real life.
Yeah I know I just got too excited over our little "chemistry" and the whole thrill of being in two different states and bla bla. He didn't feel like a stranger to me. I'm good. Today is the last day I revolve my thoughts around him and the what could've been. Like you said he is a stranger after all.
I sent him a super long text(idk if he got it) explaining my wrong and I apologized more than once and he never got back to me and idk if he ever will, I doubt it. I tried everything I could but I got nothing so I have to move on from this.

Iamfanie....
Give him a couple of days to cool off.
Never come in between a Taurus and his money.
You should know this better than any other zodiac sign....
Shame on you Cappie.
Bad Cappie 😉
Give him a couple of days to cool off.
Never come in between a Taurus and his money.
You should know this better than any other zodiac sign....
Shame on you Cappie.
Bad Cappie 😉
That's what I'm doing. I'm giving him a week if I don't hear from him I will then know that he's really not interested anymore ... I know I know I really wasn't mad at that really, it was just the fact that he would fall asleep within seconds of me texting but that shouldn't have been reason for me to react the way that I did but just like he told me, it took for him to react the way that he did and let me be for me to realize that I was wrong ..
I've never dealt with a Taurus man before so I didn't know.
Bad Capi yes indeed 😢
I've never dealt with a Taurus man before so I didn't know.
Bad Capi yes indeed 😢
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