Have my eyes on a Cap woman

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Bsmurray on Friday, November 15, 2013 and has 22 replies.

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...but I am a sun aquarius, and all of the websites and videos I watch talking about these two signs coming together in a relationship are saying it's not going to work. However if you look at my complete chart you will notice my moon in Virgo, ascendant in Taurus, and mars in capricorn. Given the high amount of earthiness in my birth chart, what do you guys think the chances of this relationship working are?

There is another problem as well. She is my French 201 professor and I'm about a 100% sure that she wouldn't mess around with one of her current students. That being said, she's only one year older than me. Do you think I should pursue her after my class is over, or should I drop it? It's hard to just drop it though because I see her two times a week at least and she still impressese every day with her beauty and natural energy it just gets my stomach all knotted up.

Comments appreciated by anyone that can vouche for the aqua/cap successful relationship.

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Sun 21 Aqu 46 Pluto 17 Sco 46

Moon 3 Vir 28 N. Node 16 Aqu 30

Mercury 28 Cap 18 Asc. 23 Tau 32

Venus 21 Cap 02 MC 5 Aqu 53

Mars 8 Cap 49 2nd cusp 20 Gem 02

Jupiter 1 Can 08 3rd cusp 12 Can 33

Saturn 20 Cap 18 5th cusp 4 Vir 09

Uranus 8 Cap 01 6th cusp 11 Lib 05

Neptune 13 Cap 29

Here is my chart.

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Man I've been dating a cap since I dunno July? And Truecap has been dating her Aqua man for 1 and half years according to her. Don't listen to what the famous astrological compatabilities say. If you want to do anything... look at components of your chart and hers and see if there are any strong relationship aspects. On sasstrology.com I have ranked in the 90th percentile for compatibility on their love calculator with two capricorns. The current one was something like 97%

Just trust me as long as your not absolutely alien Aqua... Then a Cap girl is a pretty awesome match.
😉

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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Man I've been dating a cap since I dunno July? And Truecap has been dating her Aqua man for 1 and half years according to her. Don't listen to what the famous astrological compatabilities say. If you want to do anything... look at components of your chart and hers and see if there are any strong relationship aspects. On sasstrology.com I have ranked in the 90th percentile for compatibility on their love calculator with two capricorns. The current one was something like 97%

Just trust me as long as your not absolutely alien Aqua... Then a Cap girl is a pretty awesome match.
😉

Not sure what you mean by alien aqua but thanks for your feedback. How did you guys meet and who initiated the first date?

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Posted by geminicandIe
What happened to gem gf of yours? Did you drop her? 😭

And lol at your professor being one year older. I am always crushing on my professors. It's a common fantasy.

No I didn't drop her we are still cool and talk a lot.

It's just that this cap gives me feelings the gem didn't...

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Also, is she French?

Yes, she is from France.

French women are epitome of sex appeal. I am not surprised at all.
It's only gonna get worse for you, I mean better. That feeling in your gut😛

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Sex appeal indeed. It oozes out from her and I'm drawn to it like a moth to a flame.

Ands it's not that slutty/whorish American sex appeal either where she has to show off her stomach or her butt cheeks protrude from the bottom of her shorts. It is more subdued and refined, sex appeal with style . It says "I am polite and appropriate in public but when I'm behind closed doors, I am freaky"

And I love it.

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Your placements are very similar to my aqua! I've been with him a year and a half. You have enough earth to not be flaky (caps don't like flaky) so yes, I think it's going to be a great match!!!!

A cap is probably the ONLY sign that will understand your need for space and individuality. By the same token, you will understand her need for space and work.

Looks like you're a predominant cap! You have enough air in your chart to be fun and not as controlling as a cap. She'll like and respect your cap placements.

Yall should be able to understand each other very well!

Wait until the class is over. A cap isn't going to jeopardize their career, financial security and reputation for anyone.

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With this situation dont listen to astrology. Ive been wit my gemini man for a little over a year now and we are madly in love. Keep a positive mindset and ull be fine
Goodluck!

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Posted by truecap
Your placements are very similar to my aqua! I've been with him a year and a half. You have enough earth to not be flaky (caps don't like flaky) so yes, I think it's going to be a great match!!!!

A cap is probably the ONLY sign that will understand your need for space and individuality. By the same token, you will understand her need for space and work.

Looks like you're a predominant cap! You have enough air in your chart to be fun and not as controlling as a cap. She'll like and respect your cap placements.

Yall should be able to understand each other very well!

Wait until the class is over. A cap isn't going to jeopardize their career, financial security and reputation for anyone.

Yes I hear you are currently in a relationship with an aqua. How is that going? Also, how did you two meet if you don't mind me asking.

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Posted by geminicandIe
Oh boy, you got it and you got it badddddddd, hahaahha🙂

I told you, Euro women are IT!!

Yes, sex appeal with intellect and style , and not the trashy American kind. Refined and sophisticated.

You should go to Europe, you'd love it. Just go for a semester abroad. Live a little😉

I wouldn't mind going to Europe, even if it was for personal vacation or a semester abroad. Even if it was for personal vacation I'd still take the city tours they offer so it would be an educational experience no matter what.

Are there any specific places you'd recommend to visit?

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Doesn't matter where you go. Just make sure you get in touch with local people and make some new friends. Every place has it's interesting things. And otherwise it's really easy to travel everywhere. 😉

A friend of mine (we're both from Holland) is doing his internship in the U.S. right now.
He told me stories about going to a bar and ordering a beer and having three women all over him straight away just for having a different accent and getting two phone numbers without asking. 😆
Still he is kind of happy of having found a girlfriend just before he left.
Doesn't like the women around where he is staying that much. 😛

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Posted by Bsmurray

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Man I've been dating a cap since I dunno July? And Truecap has been dating her Aqua man for 1 and half years according to her. Don't listen to what the famous astrological compatabilities say. If you want to do anything... look at components of your chart and hers and see if there are any strong relationship aspects. On sasstrology.com I have ranked in the 90th percentile for compatibility on their love calculator with two capricorns. The current one was something like 97%

Just trust me as long as your not absolutely alien Aqua... Then a Cap girl is a pretty awesome match.
😉

Not sure what you mean by alien aqua but thanks for your feedback. How did you guys meet and who initiated the first date?

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LoL... What I mean by alien is that when you gots tooooooo much of the Uranus influence it can be a bit too airy for most people to handle.

I mean Aquas can be difficult for most signs/people. BUT, caps are unique in that they seem to be able to handle the two most bitched about signs of the Zodiac... Aquarius and Scorpio.

Anyways, in response to how we met.... We are both studying to be CPAs and she has been in classes of mine for the past 3 or 4 semesters. I think she had eyes for me from the first class but there was this Scorpio I was after at the time but didn't work. She came and sat next to me in the next class we had together... and we've been talking ever since. I suppose I initiated the first date that actually occurred but to be honest she had invited me to do something before but I didn't go.

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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

Posted by Bsmurray

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Man I've been dating a cap since I dunno July? And Truecap has been dating her Aqua man for 1 and half years according to her. Don't listen to what the famous astrological compatabilities say. If you want to do anything... look at components of your chart and hers and see if there are any strong relationship aspects. On sasstrology.com I have ranked in the 90th percentile for compatibility on their love calculator with two capricorns. The current one was something like 97%
Just trust me as long as your not absolutely alien Aqua... Then a Cap girl is a pretty awesome match.
😉

Not sure what you mean by alien aqua but thanks for your feedback. How did you guys meet and who initiated the first date?

LoL... What I mean by alien is that when you gots tooooooo much of the Uranus influence it can be a bit too airy for most people to handle.

I mean Aquas can be difficult for most signs/people. BUT, caps are unique in that they seem to be able to handle the two most bitched about signs of the Zodiac... Aquarius and Scorpio.

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my cappy mother in law. I love her to bits, i thank god for her. i dont know how she can handle her son and her daughter in law, especially going on vacations together. We're the only known couple who LIKES going with their mother in law on vacations. Everyone else goes, "what? you take your mother /mother in law on vacations with you? why?" shock and awe. If possible we would take grandma too.

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Posted by TigerCap
Doesn't matter where you go. Just make sure you get in touch with local people and make some new friends. Every place has it's interesting things. And otherwise it's really easy to travel everywhere. 😉

A friend of mine (we're both from Holland) is doing his internship in the U.S. right now.
He told me stories about going to a bar and ordering a beer and having three women all over him straight away just for having a different accent and getting two phone numbers without asking. 😆
Still he is kind of happy of having found a girlfriend just before he left.
Doesn't like the women around where he is staying that much. 😛

So by that logic I should at least visit Holland because all of the Holland girls will flock to me in a bar because of my American accent. Nice!

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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

Posted by Bsmurray

Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Man I've been dating a cap since I dunno July? And Truecap has been dating her Aqua man for 1 and half years according to her. Don't listen to what the famous astrological compatabilities say. If you want to do anything... look at components of your chart and hers and see if there are any strong relationship aspects. On sasstrology.com I have ranked in the 90th percentile for compatibility on their love calculator with two capricorns. The current one was something like 97%
Just trust me as long as your not absolutely alien Aqua... Then a Cap girl is a pretty awesome match.
😉

Not sure what you mean by alien aqua but thanks for your feedback. How did you guys meet and who initiated the first date?

LoL... What I mean by alien is that when you gots tooooooo much of the Uranus influence it can be a bit too airy for most people to handle.

I mean Aquas can be difficult for most signs/people. BUT, caps are unique in that they seem to be able to handle the two most bitched about signs of the Zodiac... Aquarius and Scorpio.

my cappy mother in law. I love her to bits, i thank god for her. i dont know how she can handle her son and her daughter in law, especially going on vacations together. We're the only known couple who LIKES going with their mother in law on vacations. Everyone else goes, "what? you take your mother /mother in law on vacations with you? why?" shock and awe. If possible we would take grandma too.

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Haha it is fun to take the older relatives on vacation and see how they react outside of their comfort zone at home.

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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius

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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
Man I've been dating a cap since I dunno July? And Truecap has been dating her Aqua man for 1 and half years according to her. Don't listen to what the famous astrological compatabilities say. If you want to do anything... look at components of your chart and hers and see if there are any strong relationship aspects. On sasstrology.com I have ranked in the 90th percentile for compatibility on their love calculator with two capricorns. The current one was something like 97%

Just trust me as long as your not absolutely alien Aqua... Then a Cap girl is a pretty awesome match.
😉

Not sure what you mean by alien aqua but thanks for your feedback. How did you guys meet and who initiated the first date?

LoL... What I mean by alien is that when you gots tooooooo much of the Uranus influence it can be a bit too airy for most people to handle.

I mean Aquas can be difficult for most signs/people. BUT, caps are unique in that they seem to be able to handle the two most bitched about signs of the Zodiac... Aquarius and Scorpio.

Anyways, in response to how we met.... We are both studying to be CPAs and she has been in classes of mine for the past 3 or 4 semesters. I think she had eyes for me from the first class but there was this Scorpio I was after at the time but didn't work. She came and sat next to me in the next class we had together... and we've been talking ever since. I suppose I initiated the first date that actually occurred but to be honest she had invited me to do something before but I didn't go.

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That's because we're AWESOME!!!! 😉

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Posted by Bsmurray

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Your placements are very similar to my aqua! I've been with him a year and a half. You have enough earth to not be flaky (caps don't like flaky) so yes, I think it's going to be a great match!!!!

A cap is probably the ONLY sign that will understand your need for space and individuality. By the same token, you will understand her need for space and work.

Looks like you're a predominant cap! You have enough air in your chart to be fun and not as controlling as a cap. She'll like and respect your cap placements.

Yall should be able to understand each other very well!

Wait until the class is over. A cap isn't going to jeopardize their career, financial security and reputation for anyone.

Yes I hear you are currently in a relationship with an aqua. How is that going? Also, how did you two meet if you don't mind me asking.

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The relationship is going awesome!! I will admit that there was a time I was a little frustrated with his aloofness and lack of sharing how he felt, but all that's over now. He's finally told me how he feels and life is hunky dory! We continue to get closer.

We are from the same small town and actually went to the same high school. He is a little older than me so we didn't run in the same crowds, but we knew who each other was. We started talking on line, through match actually. It was like Hey I know you! And took off from there. lol!