Confused by a Tauras

Any Tauras males out there?

I want to know why you can't spell Taurus right when it's right there at the top of the forum?

Also, you're not confused. You just refuse to see the reality of whatever it is that's going on- he's not into you.

Confused = almost always not into you.

Move on.

Ouch!! But I apprecate brutal honesty.

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I don't know. I was confused before my bull and I got together. I had no idea how he felt about me. I'm still not sure when his feelings changed. I think I was a member of the "almost always" club.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream
I want to know why you can't spell Taurus right when it's right there at the top of the forum?

Also, you're not confused. You just refuse to see the reality of whatever it is that's going on- he's not into you.

Confused = almost always not into you.

Move on.

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I love you... Lol lol

The fact she is asking for "Taurus male" as if that is going to make a difference to her situation.

U are correct Rocky, confusion does mean "not into you" and 10 out of 10 times the OP's who say that know the brutal truth but yet they come here for some kind of validation which is simply wasting our time..

OP, Taurus is never confused. If we are into you, you would not have to ask...

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That goes for any guy, too.

I mean, when I was younger, as a lot of females do when they're younger, you cling on to little things because you want to see if they like you like you like them. Oh he said this. Oh he did that. But it's all "confusing" because you want it to mean something when the reality is that it doesn't.

HOWEVER, the second I finally DID experience "he's into you" behavior, there was no looking back. It was a serious lightbulb moment that was like, "OH SO THIS IS WHAT THEY MEAN."

From then on out, all that other stupid bullshit had no weight in figuring out whether a dude has interest or not. If a guy is interested, you KNOW. Zero confusion about it. He will contact, he will initiate, he will make time to see you, he makes his intent to be around KNOWN.

Flaky, iffy behavior is a thing of the past. Women who cling on to that garbage are either immature, desperate, or their self esteem is so fucked up that they cling on to any morsel of attention to make their ego feel better (which also makes them refuse that someone might not be into them *gasp*).

Women like this need to do themselves a favor and just assume the dude isn't into them until he makes it obviously known. Saves you a lot of headspace.

Posted by jeane
I don't know. I was confused before my bull and I got together. I had no idea how he felt about me. I'm still not sure when his feelings changed. I think I was a member of the "almost always" club.

There's always minor exceptions. I've had two run ins with Taurus guys.

One was pissing me off with his weird shit. He was clearly sniffing around. He seemed to have some sort of interest, but he was just fucking around when it came to being direct. I didn't entertain his shit for long, it was so annoying. Turns out he was just looking for someone, anyone to fill the girlfriend void, which included being an opportunist sniffing around to see what he could get with minimal effort. Not worth my time.

The other was an older neighbor who's off his rocker and had just gotten divorced and decided to start chasing me out of left field. Prior to that, I had trivial amounts of interaction with the guy, so any "harbored" feelings were unknown until he started approaching me. It was gross, crazy, and the guy is like twice my age. He's still pretty batshit and STILL tries once in awhile despite his current relationship status- possibly married (none of us know, we thought it was just a girlfriend situation but they might have gotten married).

So basically, one was in the "timid" category, which I don't have time to deal with, and the other was the more direct category.

Both were fucking weirdos though, so yeah.

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Posted by jeane
I don't know. I was confused before my bull and I got together. I had no idea how he felt about me. I'm still not sure when his feelings changed. I think I was a member of the "almost always" club.

There's always minor exceptions. I've had two run ins with Taurus guys.

One was pissing me off with his weird shit. He was clearly sniffing around. He seemed to have some sort of interest, but he was just fucking around when it came to being direct. I didn't entertain his shit for long, it was so annoying. Turns out he was just looking for someone, anyone to fill the girlfriend void, which included being an opportunist sniffing around to see what he could get with minimal effort. Not worth my time.

The other was an older neighbor who's off his rocker and had just gotten divorced and decided to start chasing me out of left field. Prior to that, I had trivial amounts of interaction with the guy, so any "harbored" feelings were unknown until he started approaching me. It was gross, crazy, and the guy is like twice my age. He's still pretty batshit and STILL tries once in awhile despite his current relationship status- possibly married (none of us know, we thought it was just a girlfriend situation but they might have gotten married).

So basically, one was in the "timid" category, which I don't have time to deal with, and the other was the more direct category.

Both were fucking weirdos though, so yeah.

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I think what made my situation confusing was we were friends. So it was a lot of "is he just being friendly? But he flirts with me. But he doesn't ask me out. But he likes to touch me whenever we meet. But he is probably just nice to everyone" nonsense constantly running around in my head.

Being a libra just made everything extra hard because I was forever double guessing myself.

Turns out he was interested but not all that much because he didn't think I was and he was not sure he was ready for another relationship anyway.

So yeah, a lot of extenuating circumstances.

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Posted by rockyroadicecream

Posted by jeane
I don't know. I was confused before my bull and I got together. I had no idea how he felt about me. I'm still not sure when his feelings changed. I think I was a member of the "almost always" club.

There's always minor exceptions. I've had two run ins with Taurus guys.

One was pissing me off with his weird shit. He was clearly sniffing around. He seemed to have some sort of interest, but he was just fucking around when it came to being direct. I didn't entertain his shit for long, it was so annoying. Turns out he was just looking for someone, anyone to fill the girlfriend void, which included being an opportunist sniffing around to see what he could get with minimal effort. Not worth my time.

The other was an older neighbor who's off his rocker and had just gotten divorced and decided to start chasing me out of left field. Prior to that, I had trivial amounts of interaction with the guy, so any "harbored" feelings were unknown until he started approaching me. It was gross, crazy, and the guy is like twice my age. He's still pretty batshit and STILL tries once in awhile despite his current relationship status- possibly married (none of us know, we thought it was just a girlfriend situation but they might have gotten married).

So basically, one was in the "timid" category, which I don't have time to deal with, and the other was the more direct category.

Both were fucking weirdos though, so yeah.

I think what made my situation confusing was we were friends. So it was a lot of "is he just being friendly? But he flirts with me. But he doesn't ask me out. But he likes to touch me whenever we meet. But he is probably just nice to everyone" nonsense constantly running around in my head.

Being a libra just made everything extra hard because I was forever double guessing myself.

Turns out he was interested but not all that much because he didn't think I was and he was not sure he was ready for another relationship anyway.

So yeah, a lot of extenuating circumstances.

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Yeah, your Libran tendencies didn't help any haha.

I was in a spot like that with my Libra friend from high school. It wasn't til YEARS later, it became known we had both liked each other like that haha.