Confused by Taurus

I met a Taurus guy 2 months ago. We're already intimate... it was really quick, actually.
He says at first he had a romantic interest in me but the first time we had sex I got 'needy' and he is just looking at me as a friend... so we agreed being fwb. And it was really nice. We went out and had fun and then sex etc. It was fine by me.
This week we were on a bar and he introduced me to his cousin and it was really nice and fun. We went to his place and by the morning I knew my feelings were changing so.... yesterday I called him and said I couldn't do the fwb thing anymore (he was ok with that) and that I couldn't be around him also as a friend (then he snapped) bc I was developing feelings for him - therefore I was ready to let him go etc. He wanted me to not make any decisions now and wait for him to think etc etc. Today we kind argued about that and I asked him for us to meet and talk face to face, he said his day was tiring (actually this is true - he mentioned it earlier this week) and he needed to go home. Fine by me.
Despite all this we connect in all of our interests and he keeps saying to me that word are just breath and actions speak louder but that he really meant it when he said I was a girl he'd been waiting his whole life.
Oh we don't kiss in public but he really makes me feel special when we're together (in public too). We go to karaoke and he sings his meaningful songs to me etc etc.
PS: his family is going through a fase although he seems he doesn't care I know he love his parents and brother and that he worries. His brother was married but got another woman pregnant and his marriage is over.

I don't know if I should be patience or if he's going to really think about us and our situation. Please please give me some insight!

Oh I almost forgot
Me: Sag rising Cap
Him: Taurus rising Libra

Sorry to disappoint you Sag,

But Bulls move linear, and they possess "fixed" qualities.
There are no gray areas with us. We're not all over the place.
We're cautious, but we're NEVER indecisive. We know our minds.

Your courtship with the Bull wasn't organic, therefore the getting-to-know process was derailed.
He didn't see longevity with you.
Despite their outward outgoing appearance, Bulls are VERY traditional by nature.
Trust me, you were assessed from day 1 .....and your words, actions, inconsistencies and interpersonal relationship with others were taken into careful consideration.

Your topic sentence expresses the main reason why a relationship will NEVER exist between the both of you.

"I met a Taurus guy 2 months ago. We're already intimate... it was really quick, actually.
He says at first he had a romantic interest in me but the first time we had sex I got 'needy' and he is just looking at me as a friend..."

Listen to what he's telling you...don't read into what he's telling you.

Posted by busyeyes88
... and letting you meet his friends and family makes no difference.

She didn't meet his friends and family.
He spoke to her about family-related issues, and she ran with it as confirmation that the two of them were getting closer.

FYI...
If a man accused me of being needy, and then attempted to introduce a FWB setup, he would have received the 'Kick rocks" facial expression.
Too much pride for that!

This Bull will never marry her.
The OP (no pun intended) has no self-respect.

There is nothing wrong with quick intimacy. Shit happens! But at least maintain some level of dignity in the process.

I don't believe it was the quick intimacy that turned him off to be honest with you, it was the 'bottom bitch' level of respect she accepted.

FACT

1. They didn't start off as friends. So the "best lovers start off as friends" argument is invalid.
2. She can't friendzone him...too late for that...He friend-zoned her instead...but kept the pum pum benefits.

Posted by saglovintaurus
I met a Taurus guy 2 months ago. We're already intimate... it was really quick, actually.
He says at first he had a romantic interest in me but the first time we had sex I got 'needy' and he is just looking at me as a friend...

Just a brief recap...
in case you forgot or overlooked that statement.

Posted by busyeyes88
You are too late.. You signed up for the fwb contract and then the taurus found out your feelings had changed and you wanted more, he is now keeping you available for the sex as previously arranged.

It's not about what he wants. It's about what you want. If you want to be a girlfriend I suggest you find another guy. This taurus has you on his "harem" list and letting you meet his friends and family makes no difference.

People should always know what they want from the get go and be prepared to hold out for what they want... Never sign up for something that you are not sure of. If you change your mind and the other person is not on the same page however, be prepared to move on..

I completely agree with busyeyes. There's little to add. I guess you've learned a lesson here. Never give into a Taurus male sexually too soon in a relationship anyway. It's a major mistake that can't be undone. Taurus men do like to do the chasing.

That was so fast even my head was spinning. Like one minute you have zero feelings so you do a fwb contract with this guy.. Then right after you have feelings more than before sex. In a contract like this you have to have lots of air placements and if you give it up quickly to a Taurus when one only wants a fwd rather than something meaningful then. It is already going to create some drama and you lose a good friend at that.

Be platonic friends( no more sex) and just see. Because its like an ultimatum to him. Like you expressed feelings now he has to think about it..So just wait and if it's meant to be he will show it.

Some people do fwb because of problems in their lives to avoid hurting feelings so will often set up fwb, but that way no one gets hurt and then can handle their business and then when that business is over would proceed to looking for something meaningful. I will drop a fwb over something meaningful quickly and give everything to that individual and part ways to my fwb...

Don't be confused. You don't like something? Say it out loud to him casually. If he doesn't agree, you have 2 variants:
1) stay and complain here or elsewhere (be unhappy)
2) leave for good and keep your options open (be happy and joyful)

Can't do that because you feel addiction? Except for that, what did he did to you, prove to you?

Thanks for the enlightment, u guys.

Actually I am very certain that the right thing is to get out of this situation asap and I thought he was going to agree with that.
The thing that got me confused was that he was ok to stop having the 'benefits' thing but asked for a time to think when I said I couldn't be around him as a friend either.
I am a hopeful realisitic person, I guess. Part of me is waiting for sth good and part of me is already moving on and being cool expecting the not-that-good answer.

Thanks anyway ˜
I have visited this forum for a long time now so I already 'know' some of u.