Diminant role in the bed room.

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I have been with a few Taurus guys and they both represented the same .. Sex style !!.. They both like it hard and rough ich.. It surprises me because one of them is a sweet heart but when there's sex involved he was a totally different person !! What is it about taurus men n being dominant in the bed room — We are all very very sensual beings .. Slow romantic and all that but when there's sex... God talking about talking dirty !!! Anyone else agreee??
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Definitely like to talk dirty, and am super turned on by a woman who does this (esp. if she's sincere about it). Buuuut, I think that's all men. Hence, the way chicks talk in porn. Also, have to dominate in the bedroom (Leo Mars, etc.), but I've actually never been with a woman who didn't prefer that. That doesn't mean you can't let the woman take the reigns for a bit, get on top, do her thing, etc. But I never met a woman who wants to toss her man around like a rag doll, spank his butt, and pull his hair while he squeals - or have to write the script while the man just lays there. I've always felt a woman likes a man in control in that department. Women I've been with, even the more aggressive ones, have always seemed a little repressed sexually - a little shy, a little hesitant. Probably has alot to do with social conditioning in general. I feel like women like men who have a plan in the bedroom, know where things are going, etc. And I think this can be done while being completely receptive to what the woman wants. You just really have to know your partner and what she likes, and also be able to surprise her with new positions/moves/locations that you think she'd probably like based on your knowledge of her.

As far as *only* going hard and rough, that just seems like immaturity. A good lover will be able to change and adapt to whatever style the partner likes IMO.
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I'm not complaining or anthing don't get me wrong. I just find it a little strange that two Taurus men r so alike in bed. I didn't sleep with one of them but he was similar. I think Taurus men like to be the dominant one. Reminds me a little of Christian grey. Spanking and all that stuff ! :p talking dirty too .. Very dirty and he's such a sweetheart before and after sex . I made love with a Scorpio and god damn that was passionate ! Could it be that Taurus + Taurus in bed r not as amazinggggg ? Thoughts?
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my mars is in libra

In real life I seems to be aloof playful but yet gentleman caring towards my loves one...
when it comes to bed ... I am just another energetic bull and dominates most of the time :p

my always concern is to satisfy the partner ... starting with foreplay
never failed to miss any parts of her body using my tongue
yes ... i love to give to lick and my hands are always bz
the foreplay can go on until she shout stop ... lol

and yes ... I like talking dirty and my partner will do it as well
spanking butt to hear the Piap sound excites me
and i like it when she gives me bites or scracthes my back with her nails ... lol

once she was on top of me , I asked her ... u know Thai Kickboxing / Muay Thai
she straight punched hard on my shoulder and next to my face
i didnt complain ... i enjoy it 😛

blindfolding, cosplay, cream/choc on body are my favorites 😛
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Posted by SunTauVenGem
I'm not complaining or anthing don't get me wrong. I just find it a little strange that two Taurus men r so alike in bed. I didn't sleep with one of them but he was similar. I think Taurus men like to be the dominant one. Reminds me a little of Christian grey. Spanking and all that stuff ! :p talking dirty too .. Very dirty and he's such a sweetheart before and after sex . I made love with a Scorpio and god damn that was passionate ! Could it be that Taurus + Taurus in bed r not as amazinggggg ? Thoughts?



I actually made a thread comparing Taurus men to Christian Grey. Mine did the dirty talk and wanted me too also. He was very dominant but I loved it. He did a combination between making love and down and dirty sex. The best sex ever!!!
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NaughtyTaurus wrote: my always concern is to satisfy the partner ...

>>>Same, and I've always wondered if that's a Taurean trait or more of a Leo trait for me. Because it seems to largely revolve around my ego. The stamina bulls are known for, for me at least, is rooted in not really even focusing on my own enjoyment. I am almost 100% focused solely on how the other person is feeling. The way my ego feels after giving pleasure, is 1,000 x's more gratifying than the feeling of an orgasm. This just feels like maybe its related to my Leo moon.

But I also think this relates to control somehow; I've definitely made the mistake when I was younger of thinking that good sex was enough to keep a woman, and slacked on a lot of other areas. And even as I've matured, there's still a control/power element to it, so I relate to a lot of what I read about Scorps and how they use sex.
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I'm not complaining or anthing don't get me wrong. I just find it a little strange that two Taurus men r so alike in bed. I didn't sleep with one of them but he was similar. I think Taurus men like to be the dominant one. Reminds me a little of Christian grey. Spanking and all that stuff ! :p talking dirty too .. Very dirty and he's such a sweetheart before and after sex . I made love with a Scorpio and god damn that was passionate ! Could it be that Taurus + Taurus in bed r not as amazinggggg ? Thoughts?



I actually made a thread comparing Taurus men to Christian Grey. Mine did the dirty talk and wanted me too also. He was very dominant but I loved it. He did a combination between making love and down and dirty sex. The best sex ever!!!
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lol!! you do know that Christian Grey is a Gemini right? And Anna Steele is a Virgo. Their birthdays are celebrated in the second book. 😉
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NaughtyTaurus wrote: my always concern is to satisfy the partner ...

>>>Same, and I've always wondered if that's a Taurean trait or more of a Leo trait for me. Because it seems to largely revolve around my ego. The stamina bulls are known for, for me at least, is rooted in not really even focusing on my own enjoyment. I am almost 100% focused solely on how the other person is feeling. The way my ego feels after giving pleasure, is 1,000 x's more gratifying than the feeling of an orgasm. This just feels like maybe its related to my Leo moon.

But I also think this relates to control somehow; I've definitely made the mistake when I was younger of thinking that good sex was enough to keep a woman, and slacked on a lot of other areas. And even as I've matured, there's still a control/power element to it, so I relate to a lot of what I read about Scorps and how they use sex.



My bull shares the same moon as you. ...he has to be the best lover in bed i have ever been with. He surprised the crap out of me. He knows what to do. He truly loved giving and satisfying every part of my body. "The way my ego feels after giving pleasure, is 1,000 x's more gratifying than the feeling of an orgasm. This just feels like maybe its related to my Leo moon. " your moon totally plays a big part in this. It is absolutely amazing. I wouldn't ask for a better bull ! >
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my mars is in libra

In real life I seems to be aloof playful but yet gentleman caring towards my loves one...
when it comes to bed ... I am just another energetic bull and dominates most of the time :p

my always concern is to satisfy the partner ... starting with foreplay
never failed to miss any parts of her body using my tongue
yes ... i love to give to lick and my hands are always bz
the foreplay can go on until she shout stop ... lol

and yes ... I like talking dirty and my partner will do it as well
spanking butt to hear the Piap sound excites me
and i like it when she gives me bites or scracthes my back with her nails ... lol

once she was on top of me , I asked her ... u know Thai Kickboxing / Muay Thai
she straight punched hard on my shoulder and next to my face
i didnt complain ... i enjoy it 😛

blindfolding, cosplay, cream/choc on body are my favorites 😛



You just described my bull ! he shares the same venus as you are . I do scracth his back with my nails ..

He dominants but in a very good and exotic kind of way. slow...fast...slow...fast and damn he's a teaser ! i love every bits of it ! ..I must admit taurus men top all the signs in the zodiac lol ! and best for a life partner as well ! >< best lover ever.
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I can confirm the male bull dominance thing, but the one I was with never managed to get inside my head and it was always a physical experience and never emotional, so it failed to do much for me.

I believe that someone can be amazing in bed with one person and suck in bed with someone else. I don't think we brought out the best in each other.



i'm feeling very good about this bull. Our charts r very compatible which i think help ease out the boredom between 2 Taurus's....
moon aqua vs leo ... venus aries vs gemini ..so far so good 🙂 a lot of talking...cuddling...sex...travelling...etc..etc. impressive so far .


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Posted by NaughtyTaurus
my mars is in libra
In real life I seems to be aloof playful but yet gentleman caring towards my loves one...
when it comes to bed ... I am just another energetic bull and dominates most of the time :p

my always concern is to satisfy the partner ... starting with foreplay
never failed to miss any parts of her body using my tongue
yes ... i love to give to lick and my hands are always bz
the foreplay can go on until she shout stop ... lol

and yes ... I like talking dirty and my partner will do it as well
spanking butt to hear the Piap sound excites me
and i like it when she gives me bites or scracthes my back with her nails ... lol

once she was on top of me , I asked her ... u know Thai Kickboxing / Muay Thai
she straight punched hard on my shoulder and next to my face
i didnt complain ... i enjoy it 😛

blindfolding, cosplay, cream/choc on body are my favorites 😛



You just described my bull ! he shares the same venus as you are . I do scracth his back with my nails ..

He dominants but in a very good and exotic kind of way. slow...fast...slow...fast and damn he's a teaser ! i love every bits of it ! ..I must admit taurus men top all the signs in the zodiac lol ! and best for a life partner as well ! >best lover ever.
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aww you sound so in love.

now calm that gemini venus and stop loving everyone. LMAO!! Pretty soon, you'll be back at the Virgo forum, next Cappy, soon the Fire signs, then....
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I'm not complaining or anthing don't get me wrong. I just find it a little strange that two Taurus men r so alike in bed. I didn't sleep with one of them but he was similar. I think Taurus men like to be the dominant one. Reminds me a little of Christian grey. Spanking and all that stuff ! :p talking dirty too .. Very dirty and he's such a sweetheart before and after sex . I made love with a Scorpio and god damn that was passionate ! Could it be that Taurus + Taurus in bed r not as amazinggggg ? Thoughts?



I actually made a thread comparing Taurus men to Christian Grey. Mine did the dirty talk and wanted me too also. He was very dominant but I loved it. He did a combination between making love and down and dirty sex. The best sex ever!!!



lol!! you do know that Christian Grey is a Gemini right? And Anna Steele is a Virgo. Their birthdays are celebrated in the second book. 😉
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I haven't read past the first book. Christian reminds me more of a Taurus than Gemini...just my opinion. My ex Gemini was pretty lame in the sack but that is just one guy!
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^^^^ Lisabeth... Aww thank you.. U see two Taurus together sharing the best airy/ fire placements just flow.. Obviously starting physical since we dance together. We had a crush on each other before I went out with my Virgo ex .. And this was 3 years ago.... Awww I always knew he was a sweet heart and was secretly envious of his girlfriend even when I was with my ex lol. He was also envious of some pictures that I post huggin my big dog . He said this " im so glad I get to see your face right infront of me when I used to admire you from a far from the dance floor " awwwww my Virgo ex finally gave up on me after rocking up at my place at 4 n 10 the next day begging for a second chance. He knows my bull and know he could provide me exactly what I want and need. He's suffering big time ( moon in cancer). It Is not pretty but nothing is stopping me from being in love with my bill. Awwww before he left he said " be good " . so taurean n I love it ... One sad thing is he lives interstates so when he leaves im hoping he will pop a question. Exclusivity comes natrually to us bull anyway .. I need to keep my Gemini in good good good control :while he is away. :p .. It's going to be difficult but I need his fire placements to excite and keep the relationship interesting. I'm sure he knows what to do :p I must admit I hate my Gemini Venus :p exciting though... I'm not sure if I can handle LDR so I'm just... Enjoying the moment as of now and think of the solution later :p he said this " you are trouble.. With a big T" then I kisses him and he said " well your kiss can be a solution for now"... Awwww :p
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I'm not complaining or anthing don't get me wrong. I just find it a little strange that two Taurus men r so alike in bed. I didn't sleep with one of them but he was similar. I think Taurus men like to be the dominant one. Reminds me a little of Christian grey. Spanking and all that stuff ! :p talking dirty too .. Very dirty and he's such a sweetheart before and after sex . I made love with a Scorpio and god damn that was passionate ! Could it be that Taurus + Taurus in bed r not as amazinggggg ? Thoughts?



I actually made a thread comparing Taurus men to Christian Grey. Mine did the dirty talk and wanted me too also. He was very dominant but I loved it. He did a combination between making love and down and dirty sex. The best sex ever!!!



lol!! you do know that Christian Grey is a Gemini right? And Anna Steele is a Virgo. Their birthdays are celebrated in the second book. 😉



I haven't read past the first book. Christian reminds me more of a Taurus than Gemini...just my opinion. My ex Gemini was pretty lame in the sack but that is just one guy!
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+ 1 never been with n air sign though. I did comment to my bull he's a bit like Christian grey lol .. He said... No I'm not that erotic .. Second time around it was softer... :p I think when more feelings r involved it gets slower .... Still insisting that bulls r great in bed .. What's with grabbing my neck though. The other bull does it too. Haha and slapping my ass lol.
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I'm not complaining or anthing don't get me wrong. I just find it a little strange that two Taurus men r so alike in bed. I didn't sleep with one of them but he was similar. I think Taurus men like to be the dominant one. Reminds me a little of Christian grey. Spanking and all that stuff ! :p talking dirty too .. Very dirty and he's such a sweetheart before and after sex . I made love with a Scorpio and god damn that was passionate ! Could it be that Taurus + Taurus in bed r not as amazinggggg ? Thoughts?



I actually made a thread comparing Taurus men to Christian Grey. Mine did the dirty talk and wanted me too also. He was very dominant but I loved it. He did a combination between making love and down and dirty sex. The best sex ever!!!



lol!! you do know that Christian Grey is a Gemini right? And Anna Steele is a Virgo. Their birthdays are celebrated in the second book. 😉



I haven't read past the first book. Christian reminds me more of a Taurus than Gemini...just my opinion. My ex Gemini was pretty lame in the sack but that is just one guy!

+ 1 never been with n air sign though. I did comment to my bull he's a bit like Christian grey lol .. He said... No I'm not that erotic .. Second time around it was softer... :p I think when more feelings r involved it gets slower .... Still insisting that bulls r great in bed .. What's with grabbing my neck though. The other bull does it too. Haha and slapping my ass lol.
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OMG the neck thing is crazy. I honestly don't understand it but its their thing. Some of the spankings got a little hard though lol.
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I have only been with 2 bulls. Neither had gotten into stuff like that. .at that time. Granted that was also almost 15+ years ago. Idk if they are into that now. I, on the other hand am, so it would set my world aflame. One of the things that I loved about my Scorp ex. Nothing was off limits. The challenge card just had to be thrown down and it was on. Now as a Pisces I wonder if I absorbed that part of the Scorp sexuality. If so, who ever i get involved with next will be in for an amazing treat. Lol all of this remains under wraps. . Lol always a lady in the street. ...but a freak in the bedroom. Lol