Do female taurus hate to be ignored?

Im upset (actually im over it now) but im just keeping my distant, ignoring and have been hibernating and not making any communication/contact with my taurus friend.

She did something which annoyed me on the weekend and since then I've gone cold and distant and have ignored her calls and texts. She knows something is up because the first day of my ignoring she rocked up to my house that night unannounced but I kept it short, went in my room and kept to myself.

Anyway point of my question is, if I ignore her for a few days longer will the joke be on me at the end and will she be mad at me? How would she react "from a taurean point of view" if I re appear next week and act like nothing happened but apologise and tell her i've been hibernating from everyone not just her and its because im dealing with some issues will she be understanding or take it to heart and not want to speak to me again?

Or is it best to quit the games now and just contact her rather than drag it on further? Its been 5 days that i've been doing this I was planning to do it for 2 more days until monday..

Oh yea and the first day I started this "hibernation" lol she sent me an abusive text saying that if I didnt want to speak to her just to tell her so she didnt waste her "fucking time" trying to speak to me and why am I ignoring her when I had been on facebook all day talking to another mutual friend of ours.. (I ignored this text and switched my fone off THEN that night she rocked up to my house..)

I don't hate to be ignored.what I do hate is someone trying to control me,and "teach me a lesson" through that behavior.
if you give me the cold shoulder,rather than manning up and saying what's on your mind like an adult...you are going to meet the original stone wall,and I promise you,you will cave before I do. 😉

you are an immature manipulator,but just for my sense of fun...go ahead and keep playing the games.
then come back and tell us how it turns out...ok? 😉

Knock off the games. I personally can't stand them. Say what's on your mind, and if you're thinking of me, reach out and say so. DURRRRHEY! 😛

In response to the OP - I don't care if someone ignores me because guess what - they will be written off, so then they won't have to worry about ignoring me because they will get a wall between us higher than the Great Wall of China. If someone wants to play games, they are more than welcome to it, because they will be playing ... alone.
If someone has a beef w/me and tells me like a man or a woman, I won't say that initially I may not be upset/annoyed/butthurt, BUT, if there is any validity to what they've said, and it's constructive criticism, I'll need a day to marinate on it, and then I can get back to them and tell them what I think. If I agree with them - I'll say that. If I agree with part of their beef - I'll say that. If I think they are full of ish - I'll say that too. I'm usually a reasonable person, so I'll apologize if I f@ck up (it happens), and then move on, but with that being said, I don't kiss ANYBODY's a $ $ .

~~Look at my little VB's new pic 🙂 hi sweetie!!!! (((waving)))

Hello luv! *waving back* Thought I'd try a smile on today. 😄

Posted by USCTaurusGal
In response to the OP - I don't care if someone ignores me because guess what - they will be written off, so then they won't have to worry about ignoring me because they will get a wall between us higher than the Great Wall of China. If someone wants to play games, they are more than welcome to it, because they will be playing ... alone.
If someone has a beef w/me and tells me like a man or a woman, I won't say that initially I may not be upset/annoyed/butthurt, BUT, if there is any validity to what they've said, and it's constructive criticism, I'll need a day to marinate on it, and then I can get back to them and tell them what I think. If I agree with them - I'll say that. If I agree with part of their beef - I'll say that. If I think they are full of ish - I'll say that too. I'm usually a reasonable person, so I'll apologize if I f@ck up (it happens), and then move on, but with that being said, I don't kiss ANYBODY's a $ $ .

This says it WELL.

Posted by venusianbull
Hello luv! *waving back* Thought I'd try a smile on today. 😄

A seductive, low simmer smile 😉

Yeh, I don't get why people play games, but when I was younger, I was not evolved yet either and did a lot of crap I wasn't proud of, and guess what - I grew up, and STILL do stuff I'm not proud of too 🙂 It happens. You live and move on, and hope you never do it again! What's that expression, "Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again; hoping for a different result" --- or however it goes.

Indeed.. *lightly blowing on deep blue fingernails, lips curling up in a naughty grin*..

Yes, live and learn. Goodness knows I've made some pretty monumental mistakes. Sometimes it takes a slap to the back of the noggin and "YO!" but I'll admit when I've made them and try to correct it.

Why would u ignore someone u love? Aren't we all make mistakes sometimes? Try to clear the air and continue your relationship. Kindergarten games r for 4 yrs old lil boys. Grow old man!

LOL I love that avatar. ^

There is no need to ignore. Simply tell her you are upset and wish to have a few days with no contact. (for when it happens again).

Simple.

Posted by nats


Anyway point of my question is, if I ignore her for a few days longer will the joke be on me at the end and will she be mad at me? How would she react "from a taurean point of view" if I re appear next week and act like nothing happened but apologise and tell her i've been hibernating from everyone not just her and its because im dealing with some issues will she be understanding or take it to heart and not want to speak to me again?

Or is it best to quit the games now and just contact her rather than drag it on further? Its been 5 days that i've been doing this I was planning to do it for 2 more days until monday..

just wanted to echo what was already said...you stoopid.

if she's in a good, strong space, you've pretty much put 5 good, strong nails in your own coffin. the one thing that taureans do NOT like is inconsistency, drama and someone else's shit in our pasture. if you want to build our trust, if you want us to hold it down and be in your corner no matter what, be predictable, be there, be solid and don't play childish games.


day 1: he's upset, he just needs some space.
the bull is patient.

day 2: ok, i think we should talk about this.
the bull is patient.

day 3: this fucker is ignoring me. i can't believe this fucker is ignoring me!!!
the bull is patiently pissed.

day 4: die bitch! you want to play this game? i gotta game for your ass! lose my fucking number.
the bull is seeing red.

day 5: do i know you? oh i do? do i still want to know you is a better question 😛
the bull is nowhere to be found.


now i'm sure there are some more watery/earthy bulls who would allow far more leeway when it comes to your stupidity. maybe they'd give you 7 days instead of 5?

or maybe you're lucky. maybe she's self-conscious and hasn't owned her esteem just yet (bullchicks are little slow when it comes acknowledging our awesomeness). if so, then your being a complete shit might be ok. she might choose to make excuses for you and reason away the gaping asshole that you represent. if that be the case, yeah, this little game will work...until she realizes you aint bout shit, aint worth shit and aint gone be shit.

Posted by nats
Im upset (actually im over it now) but im just keeping my distant, ignoring and have been hibernating and not making any communication/contact with my taurus friend.

She did something which annoyed me on the weekend and since then I've gone cold and distant and have ignored her calls and texts. She knows something is up because the first day of my ignoring she rocked up to my house that night unannounced but I kept it short, went in my room and kept to myself.

Anyway point of my question is, if I ignore her for a few days longer will the joke be on me at the end and will she be mad at me? How would she react "from a taurean point of view" if I re appear next week and act like nothing happened but apologise and tell her i've been hibernating from everyone not just her and its because im dealing with some issues will she be understanding or take it to heart and not want to speak to me again?

Or is it best to quit the games now and just contact her rather than drag it on further? Its been 5 days that i've been doing this I was planning to do it for 2 more days until monday..

She did something that thoroughly pissed you off cuz bulls can be real jerks.. those bastards hah

The only two times I went looking for someone unannounced was when my conscience was
dirty 😛 Not because I was being ignored. Mostly I'm all for shiet hitting the fan
in a fannntastic way! So if what you were doing was milking her guilt.. well good for
you lmao... but you do it for too long (and 5 days is toooo long!) she's just going to
say, "ok whatever then" and forget about you.

To be honest, I'd be relieved if you just popped in like nothing happened (IF, If
I knew I did something that offended you)

If that's not the case. I'd probably be over it anyway. Why not just tell her you
were pissed off about so and so but now you're over it and end of story.. better
out in the open.. no creepy crawly resentments..

But to answer you're question as to whether bulls hate being ignored

If you're ignoring me for no reason.. I'll know you're just not that into me and I'll stop contact

If I know you're trying to manipulate me.. I will hate you with a profound passion

If I know you're annoyed.. I'll assume you'll get over it eventually and let you be

I don't know. Depends on the situation. You know her better than we do. Just talk to
her

Okay okay okay thanks for the advice! But for 1. WERE NOT lovers or in any sort of 'romantic' relationship.

LOL. Were both females for one and she's one of my best friends..

Its just her and my other leo "best" friend (if u can call her that) kind of not so much ganged up on me but just.. ugh the taurus was sucking up big time to the leo and the leo was BASKING in the admiration. I was being nothing but nice (AS I USUALY AM - in comparison how I MIGHT seem over these posts) and she just pretty much treated me like shit, barely spoke to me all night (we all went out to a concert) and just ignored me and sucked up the leo's ass all night and yes i hate to admit it but it hurt me I just felt like i was getting ganged up on and like I wasnt being made 'part' of the group I just felt left out and im not good at voicing out my feelings and hurts etc so instead I just shut down, retreat, deal with it and then come back once I feel better... Maybe taurus didnt realise what she did to upset me or that she was upsetting me at all (since I never said anything just went all serious all of a sudden).

Maybe I am taking this overboard since its going to be nearly 1 week of not speaking to my taurus mate and we usually speak everyday.

Im over it but im just being a baby about it. Im not going to deny that. I'll come out of hibernating on Monday and i'll speak to her and TRY and explain why i was being the way I was.. its just I know she has a tendancy to have a big mouth and I DONT want her to mention this to the leo because thats another story!

I think it's safe to say that, yes they very much do lol. But ig its understandable BC in reality no Matter how hard they try to say things like idc about being ignored, they do. They are social as well as emotional signs. Ik about 8 Tauruses and have grown up with a few of them for a while and
I have a very good understanding on them. Tauruses much like most fixed sf signs have a plethora of intense emotions with the task of keeping them in check as well as guarding them,as a friend you display more of ur emotions to that person whether unwillingly or not. She feels betrayed by u BC of ur sudden disruptive behavior and her subtle lashings are just a defense mechanism.

Maybe it's a 6 year old thread, but it's still an interesting subject...especially knowing that bulls like to ignore people themselves

Posted by wicked
At the same time the bulls like their ego's stroked. So they like to hear from their dear ones. The trick is not to give away the control. From day one. Give away the control, they start to ignore you.

Very interesting analysis, but what do you mean by "the trick is not to give away the control"

Posted by busyeyes88
I'm s Leo moon and HATE being ignored. If I have done something wrong and I reach out to you and you continue to ignore instead of solving the issues... Game over... You lose. I will delete your number, leave you in the dust and make brand NEW friends!!! Done it a few times over and my leo "bestie" is about to become "dust" too! Good luck with that OP!!

But weren't you the one ignoring you leo friend first? She probably see your retreating moment as you ignoring her, so now she is doing the same thing to you because she was hurt by your "silence" ....