Feeling Down

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I don't really know what's going on with my Taurus man... Seems like things have just been going down hill slowly. We barely communicate via texting anymore, and we barely hang out anymore. He told me he loved me over a month ago, and ever since that day, things have been going down hill. He's just been more and more distant as the days go by. 😢 I wanted to talk to him about it tonight, but he flaked on hanging out with me last minute. I'm just venting. Sorry. Taurus men, what makes you act distant?
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Call don't text... if u want a misunderstanding, text! Lol just texting alone is the worst communication outlet...it very impersonal.

it can be a lot of things. It may not have anything to do with you. Sometimes something You said or done may have rub us the wrong way. Sometimes we spread ourselves too thin trying to accomplish goals... whatever it is you won't know until you talk to them via phone or in person.
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Posted by Season
It sounds like the Taurus in question is rethinking things. If he said he loves you and then disappears, something's wrong. This is not normal Taurus behavior. Why don't you try to find a way to ask what's going on, or not going on and the whys of that.
Finally confronted him about it. I was waiting until I saw him in person, but he kept coming up with excuses not to see me. So I texted and asked if he was losing interest because he seemed like he didn't want to ever hang out anymore. He said he wants to hang out, but he's been super busy with work, and with applying for a new job. Total bs. Applying for a job doesn't take much time! I just asked him to give me a straight answer on whether he wants to continue the relationship or not, and he never replied. At this point I'm done trying. I need to move on. I don't have time for games. I hate this hot, cold shit Taurus men do.
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Posted by Honeybunniie
Call don't text... if u want a misunderstanding, text! Lol just texting alone is the worst communication outlet...it very impersonal.

it can be a lot of things. It may not have anything to do with you. Sometimes something You said or done may have rub us the wrong way. Sometimes we spread ourselves too thin trying to accomplish goals... whatever it is you won't know until you talk to them via phone or in person.
I agree. I don't like having talks via text, I'd rather have a conversation in person, but he kept making excuses not to see me, and we have conflicting schedules, so it's a little hard to talk on the phone, so I just texted him.

He's done this in the past, and it was because he lost his job, and was really stressed out about not having a job. He has a great job now that he's really happy with, so I don't even know what it could be. I don't really know if I said anything that could've pissed him off or something. He could have just lost interest, or he could have a new chick. Who knows. All I know is I don't have time to deal with this bs anymore. I'm just going to try to move on
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Posted by Byttibena
Got a similuar situation with my girl tho, she is taurus. Feels like we do not communicate as often as we used to do.

Sometimes she used to say I wanna sleep together with you (through the phone)... Now its barely a text and sometimes she "forgets to text me".. Dunno bout that but yeah ,I would also like to know wassup with the way they act
A lot of Taurus suck at communicating... I'm a Taurus, and I SUCK at communicating sometimes lol but not with the person I'm dating. Ask her what's going on... Hopefully you'll have better luck getting a straight answer
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Posted by Season
It sounds like the Taurus in question is rethinking things. If he said he loves you and then disappears, something's wrong. This is not normal Taurus behavior. Why don't you try to find a way to ask what's going on, or not going on and the whys of that.
Finally confronted him about it. I was waiting until I saw him in person, but he kept coming up with excuses not to see me. So I texted and asked if he was losing interest because he seemed like he didn't want to ever hang out anymore. He said he wants to hang out, but he's been super busy with work, and with applying for a new job. Total bs. Applying for a job doesn't take much time! I just asked him to give me a straight answer on whether he wants to continue the relationship or not, and he never replied. At this point I'm done trying. I need to move on. I don't have time for games. I hate this hot, cold shit Taurus men do.
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I don't like his reasons either. it sounds like an intelligent move to go forward without him.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Then when that happens look to the moon, too cause then it really boils down can you work it out together, can they open up to you or are they secretive, or what the fuck is it. Fixed, fire, and earth placements will constantly be changing to adapt at different paces especially when they meet someone for the first time. Is it right the person, place, or timing, etc that make it a challenge to endure along time..